Colleagues are usually the most able to see a person's character and upbringing, and a person is most likely to show his true self when he is relaxed. During the dinner, his way of eating, attitude towards the service staff, speech, drunken behavior, etc. are all habits he formed inadvertently or inadvertently, which can best reflect a person's quality.
If a person, when ordering food, doesn't consider other people's tastes at all, but simply orders some dishes he likes, and wolfs them down after serving them, which is probably his most real life state at ordinary times. One of my former colleagues always picked out the food from the bowl one by one and threw it on the table at will because he didn't like to eat some food. At the end of a meal, there were dishes picked out everywhere in front of him, which made people at the same table look uncomfortable. This kind of behavior is really convenient for yourself, but it causes great inconvenience to others.
A person's attitude towards service personnel also shows his personal accomplishment. There are many people in our life who always hold the view that customers are God, bossing around waiters, or being choosy without cherishing the fruits of others' labor. The character of these people can be seen. A truly educated person must be a gentleman who knows how to cherish the fruits of others' labor and treat others equally.
at dinner, you often have to drink, and wine is character. We often see drunken binges, beating people, forcing others to drink while knowing that the other person can't drink, and even disturbing other people's dining environment. A truly literate person will never do these things that are harmful to others. They know where everything is and respect themselves on the premise of respecting others.
since it's a mixed meal, it's usually AA, and everyone should pay their share. Some people don't think so. They always want to take advantage of others and don't want to spend more or not. By eating such a small thing, a person's nature will be exposed, so there is a saying: if you want to know a person, just go out for a meal! This sentence is of great practical significance.