Earlier, some media reported the situation of an uncle Liang in Guangxi. In his early years, because of his poor family, he went out to work, and he didn't meet a suitable partner until he brought back a girlfriend at the age of 49. What is even more surprising is that the age difference between them is 30 years old. The 49-year-old man married a wife of 19 years old, which caused a sensation in the local area, but even more speechless, they gave birth to 15 babies in 2 1 year!
After the news was sent out, many media rushed to report it, and many netizens went to find out. For a time, Uncle Liang's home became a local tourist attraction. In communication, I learned that Uncle Liang did not choose contraception because he was afraid that his wife would abandon his family. Because after marrying him, his wife's family has been urging her to leave. In order to keep her heart, Uncle Liang chose to keep his wife by constantly getting pregnant and having children.
Although his goal has been achieved, it is not easy for such a poor family to raise 15 children. Children dressed in rags and eating sweet potatoes have to rely on the assistance of non-profit organizations to have children. With the exposure of this family, an endless stream of people have been paying attention to the children. From their really helpless eyes that day, we can see that the children may not like this family.
On what basis should a child be born?
1, age of both parties
Both men and women should give birth at the best age. If they are over 35, their health is declining. In particular, elderly women have to face the risks of pregnancy and childbirth, which can easily bring danger to themselves and their fetuses. Therefore, if you decide to have children, you'd better finish it before the age of 35.
2. What is the economic basis?
The premise of prenatal and postnatal care is to have sufficient material foundation, so as to ensure that children can have a good living environment and adequate educational opportunities after birth. It is unfair for parents to bring their children into this world if their basic life is in question.
3, the feelings of both husband and wife
Living in a loving family, children will be cheerful and optimistic, and they can also have a sound personality. However, if there is no love between parents, or even conflicts occur at both ends for three days, then children can easily form introverted and inferior characters, and even have shortcomings in interpersonal communication.
Being born in a family will affect children's personality and even play a key role in their future life. Therefore, if you can't give your child basic family warmth and love, I suggest you think it over before giving birth! I don't know what do you think of this uncle Liang's 2 1 year 15 children? Is his behavior worthy of sympathy? Welcome everyone to leave a message for discussion!