When chatting with a girl you just met, you need to be sincere, be able to find topics, be able to observe people's words, guide the topic, and be able to praise and encourage.

1. Be sincere and sincere. Just talk to girls with sincerity and sincerity. Maybe I'm not good at words and can't say words to praise girls; maybe I'm too nervous to look at a girl's face; maybe I'm naturally shy, too dull, etc. However, as long as you chat with girls sincerely, you may leave a good impression on each other.

2. Be able to find topics. Talk about things that both people know, hot topics in society, celebrity anecdotes, weather conditions, etc. These are all topics suitable for two people and can lead to other topics of interest. Talk about things around you, talk about your life experience, unforgettable things in your life experience, etc.

3. You must be able to observe words and emotions. When chatting with a girl, by carefully observing the slight changes in the girl's facial expression, you can choose the right topic or words that interest her in a timely manner. When you are chatting with a girl, if she frowns slightly or looks uncertain, it means that the girl is not interested in your topic.

4. Be able to lead the topic. That is, when chatting with girls, you must be able to actively guide the topic and bring the topic into depth. No matter what topic a girl talks about, you must take the initiative to be a loyal listener and leader of the topic. If it is a topic you are familiar with, you can express your unique thoughts and opinions in a timely manner and gradually lead the topic in depth.

5. Be able to praise and encourage. That is, when chatting with girls, praise and encourage girls through gesture language to increase girls' enthusiasm for chatting. Men like praise and women like compliments. When chatting with a woman, in order to improve her self-confidence and interest in chatting, you must learn to praise and encourage her in a timely manner.

Things to note when chatting with girls

1. Don’t ask in a rigid way like checking your household registration (for example, what did you eat? What do you do for a living?) Such questions will be offensive. , but it will also reduce your own value. A girl will quickly lose interest in a low-value boy.

2. Don’t show off yourself too much and deliberately gain a sense of presence in order to show off your prominence in certain aspects in front of girls. But don't cater to girls' opinions too much. Only by having your own unique opinions can you attract girls more.