an example of seeking the civilized quality of celebrities?
Lenin made way Once, Lenin went downstairs, and in the narrow aisle of the stairs, he met a female worker carrying a basin of water upstairs.
when the woman saw Lenin, she would make way for Lenin and prepare to return by herself. Lenin stopped her and said, "Don't do this. You're halfway with something, and I'm empty-handed. Please go first!" He said the word "please" loudly and kindly.
Then he leaned against the wall and let the female worker go upstairs before he went downstairs. Lenin is undoubtedly a great man, but he is not rude because of his noble position, which shows his great quality.
Lincoln who "swallowed his pride" Once, American President Lincoln and his son Robert drove down the street and met an army passing through the street. Lincoln casually asked a passerby, "What is this?" Lincoln wanted to ask which state's regiment it was, but he didn't make it clear.
The man thought he didn't know the army, so he replied rudely, "This is a federal army. You are such a fucking idiot." Lincoln only said "thank you" when he was reprimanded by an ordinary passer-by, and there was no scowl.
Yang Shi and You Zuo, scholars of Cheng Men Li Xue Song Dynasty, asked Cheng Hao and Cheng Yi for advice. Yang Shi and You Zuo studied under Cheng Hao. After Cheng Hao's death, they were both forty years old and had been admitted to Jinshi. However, they had to go to Cheng Yi to continue their studies.
According to legend, one day Yang Shi and You Zuo came to the academy to visit Cheng Yi, but they met the old gentleman with his eyes closed and taking a nap. At this time, it began to snow outside. Yang Shi and You Zuo were eager to study, so they stood aside and waited for a long time. Cheng Yi slowly opened his eyes and saw them standing outside, startled: "Ah, haven't you left yet?" At this time, the snow outside is already more than a foot thick.
examples of cultured celebrities
1. Lenin gives way
Once, Lenin went downstairs, and in the narrow aisle of stairs, he met a female worker carrying a pot of water upstairs. As soon as the woman worker sees Lenin, she will make way for Lenin and prepare to return by herself.
Lenin stopped her and said, "Don't do this. You're halfway with something, and I'm empty-handed. Please go first!" He said the word "please" loudly and kindly.
Then he leaned against the wall and let the female worker go upstairs before he went downstairs. Lenin is undoubtedly a great man, but he is not rude because of his noble position, which shows his great quality.
2. Taste the decoction personally
Liu Heng, the third son of Emperor Gaozu, was born to the Queen Mother Bo. Eight years after high school (the first 18) is the throne. In the name of benevolence and filial piety, he is well-known in the world and never slackens in serving his mother. His mother was ill for three years, and he was often out of sight and undressed. The liquid medicine taken by mother.
he tasted it himself before letting his mother take it. He reigned for 24 years, emphasizing the rule of virtue, promoting etiquette, and paying attention to the development of agriculture, which made the western Han society stable, the population prosperous, and the economy restored and developed. His reign with Emperor Han Jing was known as "the rule of culture and scenery."
3. Biting one's fingers hurts
During the Zhou Dynasty, there was a man named Zeng Shen who was a student of Confucius. This man is virtuous and filial to his parents. Confucius thought that he could understand filial piety, and often discussed filial piety with him, leaving many remarks about filial piety for future generations.
once, after lunch, he went to the mountains to chop wood, and his mother was alone at home. Shortly after he went, several guests suddenly came to the house. At that time, there was nothing at home to entertain the guests. Mother was in a hurry and didn't know what to do at the moment.
"Hey, if only Ceng Zi could come back and help me at this time." She thought so, and anxiously looked forward to her son's appearance in her heart. But I waited and waited for a long time, and my son was still missing.
In desperation, she suddenly thought of a way. Knowing that mother and son are connected by blood, she bit one of her fingers with her teeth. Sure enough, Ceng Zi suddenly felt a heartache in the mountains. He thought something must have happened at home.
I hurried home with firewood. Back home, before the guests left, Ceng Zi helped his mother to entertain the guests. After the guests left, Ceng Zi knelt at his mother's knees and asked her to tell him why he was heartbroken to have guests at home.
Mother explained to him, "Because there was nothing to entertain the guests at home after they arrived, I bit my finger when I saw that you had not returned. I think you will definitely feel that you can come back early and help entertain the guests."
4. Lincoln who "swallowed his pride"
Once, American President Lincoln and his son Robert drove down the street and met an army passing by in the street. Lincoln casually asked a passerby, "What is this?" Lincoln wanted to ask which state's regiment it was, but he didn't make it clear.
The man thought he didn't know the army, so he replied rudely, "This is a federal army. You are such a fucking idiot." Lincoln only said "thank you" when he was reprimanded by an ordinary passer-by, and there was no scowl.
5. Cheng Men Li Xue
During the Northern Song Dynasty, there was a great scholar named Yang Shi. Yang Shi is a very polite, modest and studious person. No matter what difficulties he meets, he tries to understand the knowledge he wants to acquire. No matter how much it costs, he is willing to study.
When Yang Shi was forty years old, he once met his good friend You Zuo and went to Cheng Yi, a famous university consultant at that time, for advice. When two people went to Cheng Yi's house, it happened that Cheng Yi was sleeping at home.
Yang Shi, who is very polite, suggested not to wake the teacher's sleep, so they stood quietly at the door, waiting for the teacher to wake up. After a while, it snowed heavily. The weather became very cold.
It's snowing harder and colder, but the teacher is still sleeping. They are still waiting in the heavy snow. At that time, You Zuo was too cold to bear. He tried to wake up Teacher Cheng several times, but Yang Shi stopped him.
The two of them held on in the heavy snow, waiting for the teacher to wake up and explain the problem to them. When Cheng Yi woke up, she found two "snowmen" standing outside the door.
examples of cultivated celebrities
1. Zuo Gong and Zeng Gong's mind Zeng Guofan and Zuo Zongtang were both important ministers in the late Qing Dynasty, and both of them were very famous. The court usually called them "Zeng Zuo".
Zeng Guofan is older than Zuo Zongtang, and he once promoted Zuo Zongtang. However, Zuo Zongtang was very conceited and never took Zeng Guofan seriously.
On one occasion, Zuo Zongtang asked his attendants discontentedly, "Why does everyone call him Zeng Zuo instead of Zuo Zeng?" An attendant boldly said: "There is always a Zuo Gong in Zeng Gong's eyes, but there is no Zeng Gong in Zuo Gong's eyes." The words of the attendants made Zuo Zongtang think deeply for a long time.
2. Buddhism taught Andy Lau to be tolerant. Since the Yang Lijuan incident, everyone has seen how infatuated Andy Lau fans are. In fact, it is ultimately because of Andy Lau's character and his affection for all the people around him.
According to Andy Lau, since I got into serious contact with Buddhism and was inspired by the old monk Miaolian, Master, I have been more magnanimous and have an open-minded outlook on life! Because I don't know much about Buddhism, I can't preach Buddhism, so I have to do more charity. I remember that Master often taught his disciples: "Before you become a Buddhist, you should make friends first.
just use your compassion and say good words to help others do good; When you see people doing good deeds, you will be happy and admire your heart, and you will be able to repair Futian. " Money or efforts to help the poor and helpless can make a good relationship.
As an artist, you can use your own identity media to promote kindness and persuade more people to give their love and participate in charitable activities. 3. The Story of Lu Xun In educating children, Mr. Lu Xun believes that to educate children well, we must first respect and understand children. "If you don't understand them first, it will be more serious for children to develop."
once, Mr. Wang gave a banquet at home, and his son Hai Ying sat at the same table. When eating fish balls, the guests all said they were fresh and delicious.
Wei Haiying said, "Mom, the fish balls are sour!" The mother who thought the child was talking nonsense blamed a few words, and the child's boss was not happy. After hearing this, Lu Xun tasted the fish that Haiying had bitten. Sure enough, it was not very fresh. He said with emotion: "It is wrong for the child to say that it is not fresh. It seems that we have to respect what the child said!" 4. Liu Che, the magnanimous Emperor of the Han Dynasty, was a magnanimous and thirsty emperor.
as soon as he acceded to the throne, he issued a very unusual letter of seeking talents, pointing out that no matter who comes from high or low birth, as long as he has special talents, he can be named a general. As he said, he hired many talents from the lower class.
On one occasion, the 17-year-old Emperor Wu of the Han Dynasty took his entourage traveling incognito and came to a place called Baigu. In the evening, they stayed in an inn.
when the shopkeeper saw that they were young and secretive, he thought they were thieves. Emperor Wu of the Han Dynasty was thirsty and wanted to ask for some water to drink.
the shopkeeper raised his head and said angrily, "I have no water here, only urine!" " After that, he sneaked out of the store, intending to call the nearby people to attack the suspicious passengers. The shopkeeper's wife is a smart woman. She guessed her husband's calculation, and quickly followed her, coaxing and saying, "I don't think they are thieves, but the leader looks like a noble son.
You must not act rashly and hurt good people by mistake. " The shopkeeper hesitated, and his wife took the opportunity to pull him back into the house and persuaded him to drink.
in a short time, the shopkeeper was drunk. So, the hostess killed both chickens and sheep, and put down a banquet to treat the guests warmly.
Early the next morning, Emperor Wu of the Han Dynasty knew what had happened. After returning to the palace, he immediately summoned the shopkeeper and his wife, first gave the hostess 12 gold, and then turned his attention to the man.
Suddenly, the atmosphere in the hall became tense, and people thought that the male host would be punished. Who knows, Emperor Wu of the Han Dynasty not only did not reduce his crime, but praised him as a fierce man and worshipped him as Yu Linlang on the spot.
After this incident came out, the prestige of Emperor Wu of the Han Dynasty was even higher. 5. Xia Yan, a famous writer of literature, film and drama, literary critic, translator and social activist in China, Xia Yan, felt very uncomfortable before he died.
the secretary said, "I'll call the doctor." Just as the secretary was about to leave the door, Xia Yan suddenly opened his eyes and struggled to correct what the secretary said: "It's not a doctor, it's a doctor."
then he passed out and never woke up.
celebrity cases with spiritual qualities
celebrity cases with spiritual qualities
nan huaijin: The spiritual realm determines the success or failure of a person's life
Throughout the ages, people usually use official titles and talents to measure men's grades, and looks and temperament to evaluate women's grades, but few people think about the spiritual grades. The heart has grades. And its grade determines the success or failure of a person's life. In our life, when it comes to the realm, it is the highest realm of love, the highest realm of service, the new realm of fashion and the highest realm of car skills. . We are all pursuing a realm unconsciously. However, the spiritual realm is the most important thing in a person's life!
The highest state of the soul is awe
Like faith and religion, that piety is unshakable. Merchants stress honesty, friends stress sincerity, and lovers stress sincerity. Why? As the world is getting worse, these basic things have to be brought out and talked about, which is why they are lacking.
If everyone has instinctive awe of rules, laws and ethics, what a beautiful world it will be if they are honest in business, fair in their work, rational in group and loyal in love.
Examples of self-cultivation
Premier Zhou has many stories about this. Master Zhu has cut Premier Zhou's hair for more than 2 years.
When shaving, Premier Zhou coughed and got a small cut on his face, which made Master Zhu deeply uneasy. Premier Zhou comforted him and said, "I can't blame you. I didn't say hello to you when I coughed. Fortunately, you hid your knife quickly!" Master Zhu was deeply moved by the words of the Prime Minister.
It can be seen that elegant, amiable and tolerant language not only communicates people's hearts, but also reflects a person's ideological sentiment and cultural accomplishment. Cheng Men Li Xue In Song Dynasty, there was a man named Yang Shi, a student of Neo-Confucianism Cheng Yi. When he was in his forties, he went to Luoyang to visit Cheng Yi. When he and another classmate came to Cheng Yi's house, it snowed heavily, and Cheng Yi was taking a nap. They stood outside the door and waited quietly until Cheng Yi woke up. At this time, the snow had fallen more than a foot deep. This is the story of "Cheng Men Li Xue", which has been handed down to this day. Sun Quan enlisted troops in Soochow, and Liu Bei, an imperial clan of Han Dynasty, listened to Xu Shu (a native of Yuzhou commune in the Three Kingdoms, who was famous for seeking land) and Si Mahui (a native of Yang Zhai in Yuzhou in the Three Kingdoms, who was also a famous counselor) and said that Zhuge Liang was very knowledgeable and talented, so he and Guan Yu and Zhang Fei took gifts to Wolong in Longzhong (now Xiangyang County, Hubei Province) to ask Zhuge Liang to come out and help him do things for the country.
It happened that Zhuge Liang went out that day, so Liu Bei had to turn back in disappointment. Soon, Liu Bei and Guan Yu and Zhang Fei braved the snowstorm to invite them for the second time.
Unexpectedly, Zhuge Liang went out for a stroll again. Zhang Fei didn't want to come again. Seeing that Zhuge Liang was not at home, he urged him to go back.
Liu Bei had to leave a letter expressing his admiration for Zhuge Liang and asking him to come out and help him save the country's dangerous situation. After some time, Liu Bei ate vegetarian food for three days and was ready to invite Zhuge Liang again.
Guan Yu said that Zhuge Liang may have a hollow reputation, but he may not have the real talent to learn, so there is no need to go. Zhang Fei, on the other hand, advocated that he should call alone, and if he didn't come, he would tie the ground with a rope.
Liu Bei scolded Zhang Fei and visited Zhuge Liang with them for the third time. At that time, Zhuge Liang was sleeping.
Liu Bei didn't dare to disturb him. He stood until Zhuge Liang woke up, and then sat down to talk with each other. Zhuge Liang saw that Liu Bei was interested in doing things for the country and sincerely asked him for help, so he came out to help Liu Bei establish the Shuhan Dynasty.
examples of celebrity qualities
There is a tyrant in human beings, and that is ignorance-the son of German wisdom makes his father happy, and the son of ignorance shames his mother.
----------It is a foolish nature for Solomon to see only the mistakes of others and not the mistakes of his bosom friend. -Cicero Ignorance is more terrible than wealth in ancient Rome. People say, "Ignorance is more terrible than poverty." Isn't ignorance terrible when you are rich? Countless facts have proved that ignorance is more terrible than wealth. When a person is poor, in order to get rid of poverty, he can make up his mind to be angry, and he can endure and bear any hardships and tiredness. Wang Bo said in the book: "Being poor and strengthening, not falling into the green hills", that is, the so-called "people are not poor", so people often say that poverty is not terrible, but what is terrible is ignorance.
Foolish people are often "the heart is higher than the sky, and the life is thinner than paper", and eventually they are inevitably swallowed up by ignorance and poverty. Even if I get rich for a while, I'm afraid I can't escape this bad luck.
after the reform and opening-up, there are indeed some poor people who are fortunate to be rich. What happens when you get rich? My knowledge is narrow, and I don't have many opportunities to get in touch with such rich people. However, I can always get a glimpse of the leopard from other people's mouths, from TV, newspapers, online and from the observation of various phenomena in society.
At present, a fashionable saying is popular in society.
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