I have participated in the activities organized by self-driving tour several times. I don't know how people in other places organize it, but this go on road trip group I join has one or two activities every month. Why didn't I attend later? To put it bluntly, it's a question of money. Every time you attend an activity, whether you bring food or not, you have to get together at lunch or when you come back in the evening. The parties are all AA.

But one thing I can't stand is that the so-called AA systems are all men's AA systems, which have little to do with women, and all women are free. To put it mildly, this is a gentleman's demeanor. But at some family gatherings, there is only one man, and the remaining three or four are all women. What's the situation? I only take my daughter-in-law with me at every party, but I never take anyone else. I feel that I am very disadvantaged, and I am too embarrassed to say it in person, so I have participated in such party activities for three times and will not go again. At the last time, there was a family that was even more exaggerated. A man took seven fairies. What kind of rhythm is this? Are you thinking about eating back all your previous losses?

Later, when I wanted to go out to play, I drove my car and took my family out to play. And buy good water in advance to buy delicious things, find a beautiful place in the scenic spot and start eating. It doesn't cost much at the end of the day, mainly a little money for gas and tickets for scenic spots. Therefore, it is better for go on road trip to go out to play by himself, and he really disapproves of participating in the activities organized by the group.

I've been driving in China for ten years, but I didn't go to other provinces, except Taiwan Province. Driving from the northeast to the south for the winter before winter every year. At first, I liked to go out with a group of friends. Many people and cars are more lively and fun, but it is difficult to adjust, especially for long-distance travel in Tibet and Xinjiang. Food and accommodation will be a problem. Everyone has different consumption concepts, and it is also thankless to be a team leader. Slowly become a person walking alone. In addition to a short trip for a day or two, I also want to find some brothers to go with me. A person mainly does whatever he wants. Every time I drive, I make a rough plan. If I am tired, I will stay if I am lazy. Sometimes I will change my itinerary and try to go to some places I haven't been. Moreover, I live and eat by myself. I am poor and rich. It is better for me to go out and eat and live. Don't hurry, especially at night. Of course, sometimes friends fly to the southwest to play together, especially in Xinjiang and Tibetan areas. It is better to be safe.

in my experience, taking part in a self-driving group tour is similar to taking a group tour. Although most organizers don't make a profit from it, they have to abide by discipline when they take part in group activities, and they can't go their own way. It feels a little less interesting than driving by bicycle.

It turns out that I like to travel with my riders. Most of the time, I design the itinerary and study the raiders. I always want to arrange everything perfectly, but I am just an ordinary player, not as professional as the Great God. After I really set off, I am always a little unsatisfactory, and sometimes I am complained and feel very unhappy. I have also participated in group self-driving organized by others. Although I don't have to worry about the itinerary and accommodation, I always feel like traveling with a group. Gradually, I moved away from this activity and started driving by bike.

In the last three or four years, Da Fen and I have been driving by bike completely, and it feels super cool. We are driving on the road, free and unconstrained. Our itinerary can be changed according to the actual situation. We don't need to ask other people's opinions. We like this feeling of being our own master. We can play more in places we like, but it's really not OK to stay for one night. We can leave places we don't like at any time, and everything is done according to our wishes.

That's my answer.

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Welcome to Lao Zhu, who loves to play.

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On the 44th day of my trip, Haibo RV set off in Suzhou in March of 18, and planned to travel all over China in two years to pass through Zhejiang, Anhui, Henan, Shandong and Shanxi. Jilin Province, Heilongjiang Province, Inner Mongolia, Xinjiang, Qinghai Province, Gansu Province, Ningxia Province, Shaanxi Province, Hubei Province, Hunan Province, Jiangxi Province, Fujian Province, Guangdong Province, Hainan Province, a * * * has passed through 21 provinces and ran 5, kilometers ... Recently, I have to accompany my children to take the high school entrance examination, and I have to leave in June, including Guangxi Province, Guizhou Province, Yunnan Province and Tibet. Travel immediately and let those friends who know you know that I have really been to this world ... < P > Let's answer the question together. Why are fewer and fewer people taking part in activities organized by go on road trip?

first: what do you want on the road when you travel by car? What's important is to stay away from the noisy big cities and crowded people, and what's important is freedom .......

Second, every activity in go on road trip in China is generally organized by an organization or company, which is too commercial, and it is too constrained to arrive at the destination at the specified time ............................................................................................ Everyone in go on road trip wants freedom, and prefers quiet places, mainly because the public security in our country is very good ....................................................................................................................................................... But over the years, I have become more and more worried about group driving. To sum up, there are five main factors that affect the self-driving group.

First, there are too few people who are angry. Everyone has his own personality. It is really rare to find a few people with similar interests, close hobbies, who can think of, talk about and swim together. Every time before driving, I will suffer from an uncontrollable ambivalence. On the one hand, travel itself is an exploration and challenge to the unknown world, and it is really lonely to travel alone; On the other hand, it is hard to find a truly desirable travel companion.

(The "Rock Road" in Gannan, where my brother has a soft spot, is still in my dream)

Second, I have different preferences for scenic spots. Before the trip, it often takes a lot of energy to coordinate the travel route and the scenic spots to visit. In this regard, it is hard to say that one person is ten people's hearts, and they often do not please, complain, listen to two words or have to change the strategy halfway to meet the requirements of individuals. Very troublesome, very helpless. On May Day this year, I had planned to go to Zhuoni, Gannan, cross the "Locke Road" and visit Zhaga, Diebu. I sent this plan and itinerary to several friends who signed up for it several days in advance. As a result, a sister paper said that she was afraid of the cold and refused to go. I have to compromise because of my feelings. Helpless, I launched a trip to Chongqing. Everyone has no problem with it. As a result, when we left, someone said it was going to rain there and asked to change the itinerary. There was no other way, so I had to take them to Shanxi and Shaanxi. Everyone had a good time swimming and gained a lot. Only I am always unwilling. After all, I am a repeat student, and nothing is fresh, and I wasted a long-awaited holiday in vain.

(The first travel plan launched on May Day was aborted because a friend was afraid of the cold)

Third, the living habits are quite different. When you are away from home, you will have to make do with your abilities. You can't ask too much, and you can't ask everything to conform to your living habits everywhere. Some people can't do this. For example, people who don't like noodles don't even eat a meal of rice, which makes everyone fight over eating, and even makes them unhappy. For example, many traveling companions have a wish to see as many scenic spots as possible in a limited time, and the itinerary will naturally be more compact. However, there will be some friends who take sleeping, resting, eating, drinking and shopping as the main theme, and travel on the pretext of enjoying it, so as not to rush too hard, which will lead to the disruption of road books and greatly reduce the itinerary.

(The second travel strategy launched on May Day was also rejected by a companion who was afraid of rain before departure)

Fourth, the time is not easy to coincide. Everyone has their own careers and jobs, so it is difficult to leave at the same time and travel together all the time. Before Tomb-Sweeping Day, some friends I had made an appointment with all quit on the grounds of something temporary, which made me very passive. A few years ago, on Sunday, several friends went to the Taihang Grand Canyon. Before the tour began, a friend got a call about something important at home, and a group of people had to go home with him.

(Everyone was very happy at the last place on May Day, but Brother Qing ate the steamed buns he had chewed once)

Fifth, the burden of expenses is prone to conflict. There is a very important factor in group driving, that is, sharing to reduce the financial pressure of driving alone. However, in the actual tourism process, due to the constraints of economic conditions and personal consumption habits, the cost allocation is most likely to be ambiguous. This is mainly because some people have deep pockets, and some people have to fight for it; Some people like to stay in high-end hotels, eat big meals and talk about ostentation and extravagance, and some people can send them away with simple meals; Some people complain that others love to see mountains, but they have to enter the temple; Some people think that they should pay less because they have a car, and some people will say how much is it worth for me to steer all the way? And so on, to name a few, will affect the fun and mood, and even break up in discord.

I want to answer this question seriously, hey; -) Because individuals are practitioners of long-term self-driving activities. Thirteen years ago, I couldn't remember how I spent my weekends or long and short holidays. Since I joined a self-driving group, it has been out of control. This is a non-profit outdoor group, which was founded by a group owner who has been out of the workplace for many years with a few responsible and willing colleagues. The owner himself has worked hard in the workplace for many years and worked hard to achieve financial freedom, but his health is getting worse. The original intention is to organize a group of like-minded people to climb mountains and keep fit. Later, the team grew stronger and stronger, but there will be long-distance activities in go on road trip on holidays. This is a completely non-profit self-driving group, and the expenses are settled according to the actual AA system. Careful calculation, the group has been established for eight years, but non-profit has been practiced. The purpose of group organization is to let people who have the same pursuit have a happy place to participate in physical and mental relaxation. At the beginning, there was only mountain climbing, and after growing up, the content of group activities became more and more abundant. For example, every day when climbing a mountain, everyone will bring their own specialty dishes or spring water to cook. A few days ago, a sister specially made a cake to take to the mountain for the group's birthday. Every year, a celebration annual meeting will be organized, and the participants will do their best; Every summer holiday, there will be camping activities in the wild, grassland, seaside, at the foot of the Great Wall, etc., which varies from time to time. There will be long-distance self-driving during the long holiday, and I have organized Xinjiang, Tibet, Inner Mongolia and so on. In travel activities, we usually cook together, barbecue in the wild, stew fish, ribs, rinse meat and other delicacies; Bring your own K-song equipment and play games together. Of course, the mountain climbing activities with the original intention of strengthening the body have always been retained, and every Saturday, the thunder will not move, rain or shine.

Kumeier likes traveling and often goes to go on road trip. At the beginning, she also participated in several go on road trip group activities, and she also organized such activities herself. Why are fewer and fewer people participating? I have a deep understanding.

The people who organize this kind of go on road trip activities can be said to be enthusiastic people, who are not interested in fame or profit. They hold a more interesting attitude of playing together and are enthusiastic about it.

Most people who take part in this go on road trip group activity can be said to be mainly young people. Young people, who love to travel and like to be lively, have economic strength and a good attitude to play. When someone encourages them, there is no place to have fun. Just walk.

There are also some people who don't have a car, or the car is inconvenient, and want to travel freely conveniently. For them, this is really a good opportunity.

Of course, some people attend for other purposes, which is hard to say.

At first, Kumeier participated in activities organized by others, and enthusiastically made banners and team flags, which was very serious.

when you form a team by yourself, you can build a group, formulate specifications, write notes, design a LOGO, print car stickers, customize badges ... discuss the travel location, coordinate the travel time, contact and gather ...

It's exhausting to do it yourself.

However, it's hard to fix the staff of this go on road trip team. Not to mention the differences in personality and habits, it's hard to meet everyone's requirements even in time and place.

Cool girl is also worried about the location proposed by the organizer. The place you want to go is not my cup of tea.

So the cool girl tried to organize it several times, but it was not enough to be thankless, laborious and worrying.

the gathering time is a big problem, as well as the food for the dinner group, the time spent in the scenic spots during the trip and the waiting for photography.

Besides, there are a lot of online raiders, and all kinds of information are easy to get. Moreover, people's sense of self is getting more and more overwhelming. They travel by themselves with the highest degree of freedom, and the organizers are thankless. Participants also feel constrained, and there are really too few people who can play together.

Nowadays, more young people's views are self-centered, and not only are there few people who take charge of things, but they are also rich in right and wrong, and there are fewer and fewer natural organizers.

Kumeier never participated in activities organized by others, and she gave up organizing activities herself, and then she drove by herself completely, from which she also learned a lot.

human nature is good, which is conditional; People who don't remember well and only bear grudges are not without them; People's pursuit of freedom is endless.

there are many people who are right and wrong, and it is difficult for people to adjust. It is not worthwhile to pay for it without compensation.

Understanding each other and learning to be grateful is one of the meanings of traveling.

I know a lot.