From 2008 to 17, I lived in a dormitory.
In 2008, I lived in six rooms, and my roommates got along well. At that time, I thought it was ok. I can go to have supper with my roommate, discuss boys and cosmetics together, and talk to my roommate at night after lights out. When I can't sleep at night, I can hear other people's breathing, grinding my teeth, talking in my sleep and other strange sounds, because there are not many people, most of them are small people.
In 2009, I moved into the dormitory of 12 people. People in the same dormitory can discuss and study together and go to exercise together. When there is a conflict with other dormitories, I can call on the whole dormitory to grow up together.
But the overall impression on me is not very good, because there are many people and there are naturally many contradictions. You will often quarrel because your clothes are hung a little too much, because your things are left in other people's places, because someone calls after midnight 12, and because you take a long bath. Quarrel all day because of a trivial matter, I feel particularly wasteful of time and affect my mood.
1 1 year, moved into a four-person dormitory. At that time, because everyone was similar in age and hobbies, they got along well. Because of the same interests, there is basically no contradiction.
/kloc-moved to another four-person dormitory in 0/4 due to job transfer. I am not happy in this dormitory, because of the age and cultural differences of people in the dormitory, as well as the differences between the north and the south, and different customs and habits. So I can't get along well except for delicious food, so I spend most of my time outside this dormitory except sleeping to avoid embarrassment.
I have been living alone since 17. Living alone is really free, and the whole person is very peaceful.
The first one is nobody cares. Sleep whenever you want, and get up when you think about it. You don't have to take anything lightly, you should consider the feelings of others. No one will restrict you from doing anything. You can cry and laugh anytime and anywhere, and you can watch movies and listen to light music at midnight 12. Be sure to turn down the sound when watching movies and listening to music at night, otherwise it will disturb the people. )
The second point is about eating. You can eat whatever you want. Snail powder can be eaten at will, and no one will not like the taste. You won't be embarrassed if you want to eat snacks, because you only have one thing, sharing is not, and not sharing is not. In addition, you can cook whenever you want, so don't worry about being too late, disturbing others and being hungry all night.
The third is to wear clothes, you can wear whatever you want, suspenders, ultra-short, strange clothes, no one will say anything about you. Don't worry. My roommate suddenly brought a man back.
The fourth is the freedom of cleaning time. Living alone is not dirty. Usually local delay, weekend overall delay. I think it's ok.
Of course, living alone has advantages and disadvantages, such as high rent, safety problems, location problems, traffic problems, what to do if you are sick, and so on.
Everything has two sides, but I prefer to live alone.