It is very difficult for a person to completely change himself. This cannot be changed absolutely, but we can only change ourselves relatively. If you want to ask how much courage you have, I don't think it needs special courage: just simply get better every day, and then you will meet your good self.

radical change = absolute change. Most things in the world can only be relative, and it is basically impossible to achieve absolute change. However, we can change ourselves relatively, which will not consume our great courage, but will enhance our confidence.

1. quantitative change causes qualitative change (self-discipline and persistence)?

the law of mutual change of quality tells us that if you want to achieve a qualitative leap from quantity, you have to keep accumulating. After a certain period of time, quantitative change will cause qualitative change, which proves that we make a little progress every day and improve ourselves a little later. For example: I have a poor figure, and I want to change myself and become a slim beauty. What should I do? The best way for me is a balanced diet and aerobic exercise. However, can you lose weight after a day? The answer is yes: no. So, I have to stick to it, every day, and finally my figure has improved, so my quantitative change has already begun to change qualitatively.

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Self-discipline and persistence in the end can lead to qualitative change

Second, rehearsal with resumption (reflection and perfection)?

Preview and resumption means that when we change ourselves, there is a reasonable scheme. Under the planning of the scheme, we keep the reasonable part and eliminate the unreasonable part. If there are other problems, we need to rethink a scheme to improve our practice. Changing ourselves doesn't mean simply starting, we should give a reasonable plan, from which we can know our own shortcomings and change our direction. This is similar to Confucius. "I save myself three times a day, and I am unfaithful for others." Make friends without believing them? Can't you learn it? " Reflect on your own shortcomings and change yourself. All the so-called changes should be for the better.

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See yourself clearly and reflect on yourself

3. Develop, advance and rise (ability and future)?

The road to development is tortuous, and the future is bright and rising. Nature is developing, so is man. You can choose to improve your skills and change your life; You can choose to exercise to strengthen your body; You can choose to learn how to dress to improve your aesthetics ... These prove that you are not immutable. Look! This is change, so simple that you feel a little incredible. Look! This is change, and you think it is really difficult. Never mind, everything is done bit by bit.

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Improve your ability and quality with time and money

It is difficult to completely change yourself, but it is relatively easy to change yourself. A drop of water wears away a stone, and everything is done slowly, and every small step is done well. It is just around the corner that small streams converge into rivers and seas. Tip: change is directional, so don't go to a bad extreme, which is unfavorable to yourself and others. Therefore, a person's change coincides with development. The future is sunny, and the future is open.