one is firm belief. This belief is that it is not that he is bad, but that he is unworthy or inappropriate. In short, don't blame yourself! Never! ! The most irresistible thing for lovelorn people is that they will constantly recall the past and find out why they are lovelorn. But these are all in vain. Because love is a matter between two people, the reason has no meaning to the present situation. Induction and summary should be placed when you calm down and prepare for your next relationship, not in the early stage of lovelorn. So, first of all, no matter what your mind is thinking uncontrollably after lovelorn, relax and let it go, and understand that all this is normal and inevitable, which is caused by hormones and cannot be changed and accepted. It is necessary to strengthen this belief that it is not my fault at first.

the second is to find something to do. There is no need to dwell on this, many people have mentioned it. In order to avoid uncontrolled memories and emotions, we need to devote our energy to other things. Leave the rest to time.

I digested it by myself, and stayed in the room of the black lacquer linen worker, drinking and crying. There is no obstacle in life, and there is no one who can't live without it. I will be fine in a few days, although I am still sad, but I haven't reached the point where I can't go on. Then I got to know my current job. A new love is the best way to forget my old love. Sometimes I don't even know if I am affectionate or scum. When I fall in love, I always talk seriously, but after breaking up. In this way, I talked about the fifth in an endless loop. The shortest year, the longest six years, and now it's only three months. He wants to get married next year. Although I am divorced with my son, he is still unmarried and the conditions are very good, but he insists on marrying me next year, so there is nothing wrong with it. I never regret that people I met, good or bad, have had good memories and brought some pain.