I am a boy and I feel it is very necessary to sleep in separate rooms.

Even if she agrees to live in the same room with me, I will get a standard room and give her the greatest respect.

She and I have known each other for less than a year, but we have a very good relationship. We traveled together to Hangzhou and Shanghai some time ago.

To be honest, I am a very conservative person. A few days before the trip, I had already made such a decision in my heart. Before officially getting married, I would never sleep in the same bed.

When we arrived in Hangzhou by plane, we found a three-star hotel.

When checking in, I took full responsibility and booked two rooms.

When she got the room card, she was stunned for a moment, then smiled knowingly at me and happily accepted my decision.

In the afternoon, we went directly to the West Lake Scenic Area and found a place to have a sumptuous dinner in the evening.

After returning to the hotel, we said good night to each other and entered our respective rooms.

At around 11 o'clock at night, just as I was getting ready to take a rest, she sent me a WeChat message, asking me to just book a room from now on. First, she said that our family conditions were that of ordinary working-class families, so there was no need to be so wasteful;

Second, she said she trusted me.

I agreed obediently, chatted for a while, and then fell asleep with a touch of emotion.

The next day, when we were booking the hotel, I directly chose the standard room.

When we walked into the room together at night, she and I were a little shy. After all, we had never lived together with other people of the opposite sex since we were young, even though we were already a couple.

In order to give her a relatively private environment, I went to the bathroom to take a shower first so that she could have enough time to change clothes.

Before I came out of the bathroom, I carefully cleaned the water stains on the dressing table with a towel, trying to give her a clean washing environment.

The next morning, I asked her to go to the bathroom to wash up first, and then I would do the washing up to avoid any embarrassment to the greatest extent.

In this way, we maintained this tacit understanding during the next few days of travel, and the relationship between the two parties further improved.

Many people may think that couples traveling together should seize the opportunity to get closer to each other.

But I think no matter how good the relationship between the two parties is, lovers are still lovers after all, not husband and wife. Boys should learn to respect girls, and girls should learn to protect themselves.

Although today's society is relatively open, there are some principles that should be followed as much as possible.

Moreover, in fact, everyone has the same experience.

He will cherish the things he cannot get, but he will no longer cherish the things he has already obtained.

Therefore, couples should keep a certain distance when traveling, so that both parties will cherish each other more, make such a beautiful marriage stronger, and be more confident about entering the palace of marriage.

I don’t know if everyone agrees with my point of view?

Everyone is welcome to make positive corrections!

Well, you must sleep in separate rooms. You will also sleep in separate rooms after you get married. As long as he touches you, you will go back to your parents' home. If not, you will get divorced. I answer this question from a girl's perspective and personal experience.

My boyfriend and I met at a party three years ago.

That year I was the bridesmaid and he was the best man. After the introduction of the groom and the bride, we got to know each other and exchanged WeChat messages.

That night, as the bridesmaid and best man, we drank a lot of wine, but he took good care of me.

When I was drunk and unconscious, he carried me to the hotel and took care of me at the bedside all night.

That was supposed to be the first day the two of us were alone together.

Early the next morning, I found him lying next to the bed.

When he saw me waking up, he went out and bought me hot breakfast.

After eating, he took me for a walk in a nearby park to breathe fresh air and sober up.

That afternoon, we had a quick lunch at a lake restaurant near the park.

After chatting after dinner, I learned that he was a retired soldier and now worked in a public institution.

After a brief greeting, we said goodbye to each other and went home.

One day, I saw a post from him, and I joked, "Where is this place? It's so beautiful!"

He replied, This is my hometown, do you like it?

I can take you to see it if you like.

I said yes.

He does not mean that.

On Saturday, he really drove to my city.

After arriving, he sent me a message and said, I am downstairs at your house. You put on your makeup and set out with me in a beautiful mood.

As a girl, putting on makeup is a very time-consuming task. When I went out for the first time, I dressed up all morning without knowing it, but he patiently waited all morning downstairs at my house.