For example, when you see a girl browsing in the library, you should observe what kind of books and periodicals she is transmitting, and then you go up and say, "Hey, beautiful girl, do you like reading this book, too?" But when you say this sentence, you should first look at what the title is about, and then talk about the content. But in fact, you don't know whether she really likes this kind of book, or maybe she just looks around. You should sound out her preferences by chatting endlessly. You can say, "Have you read XXXXXX?" Of course, you made that XXXXX book at random, the purpose is to observe whether she really likes this kind of book, instead of talking about some topics she likes, so that she feels that you get along well with each other, thus attracting her attention and guiding her to keep telling her about her interests, so that she feels that everyone has the same interests.

Ex 2: I wonder if you have seen the advertisement for lemon tea ten years ago. You might as well try to pretend to meet someone you like. First of all, when you see someone you like, you pretend to be interested, follow her from behind and know her residence directly. Then you should observe the time when she comes in and out every day. When you know all the above information, you should take action. First, you wait near her house according to the schedule you observed. Make every effort to let her see your existence, but don't make any noise. The next day, you walked up to her in the same way. On the third day, you pretended to meet her again. At this time, you can try to talk to her and see if she is interested in talking to you. You should say in your friendliest and most handsome way, "Hi, do you live here?" It also lives around here. I've seen you several times. Do you remember? She may be a little shy with you. If she says hello to you, you will have a better chance. You must observe her dress and know what she likes best to cater to her topic.

1, direct attack method-suitable for both men and women

Zhao Zhao and some friends came out of the cafe, followed by the man who had been paying attention to her in the cafe just now. Zhao Zhao did Sarah laugh, I don't know what's the point of such childish tracking. The man quickened his pace to catch up with her, walked up to her in a few steps and stopped him with open hands. He looked Zhao Zhao straight in the eye and said very seriously, "Hello! My name is * *, and I am a third-year student majoring in * * in C University. I really hope to know you and make friends with you. " Friends gave a burst of laughter, and Zhao Zhao smiled and said to him, "Just be an ordinary friend. Hello, my name is Zhao Zhao. "

Success probability: ★★★★★

Friendly reminder: sincerity is the greatest secret of success in chatting up people. In front of people who are at a loss, you can gain trust by introducing yourself frankly.

2. Use leisure time-suitable for both men and women.

Xiao Wang has gone to Beijing on business. Because the plane was delayed and stayed at the airport, he felt bored when he was patted on the shoulder. He turned around and saw that the person who took his picture was actually a beautiful woman. She asked, "Have you ever taken flight * *? Is it really late? " It turns out that this beautiful woman is also traveling alone. Xiao Wang suggested going to the airport cafe for a drink, and the beauty readily agreed.

Success probability: ★★★★★

Friendly reminder: while waiting for the plane to go on a date, the environment and mood are good, and there is a little loneliness in "We Meet". We understand. What is the relationship between acquaintances? Therefore, the chances of success are higher. Similarly, this method also applies to trains and ships.

3, the law that a bosom friend is hard to find-suitable for both men and women.

On the Mid-Autumn Festival, the school was blacked out. Two girls, Silent and Mosquito, are wandering around the campus, with nowhere to go, and no one is cute. I was depressed when I suddenly saw two boys walking by with guitars on their backs. After consulting with mosquitoes silently, I boldly went up and asked, "Can I listen to you play a song?" Perhaps it was the dim moonlight, the annoying power outage and the girl's pleading that moved them and immediately agreed to their date.

Success probability: ★★★★★

Friendly reminder: Everyone likes to show their strengths, especially those with special skills, and this reason sounds beautiful.

4, humbly ask for advice-suitable for both men and women.

He Da took a fancy to the girl who wore a red bathing suit and swam breaststroke well in the swimming pool. He swam to the girl and asked, "Hello, you are a good breaststroke swimmer. Can you give me some advice? " The girl looked at him suspiciously, and he immediately said, "I know butterflies." Why don't we exchange experiences and lessons? " The girl smiled.

Success probability: ★★★★★

Friendly reminder: Be modest, really be modest, and hide the meaning of drunkards. The possibility of rejection is not without, but at least it won't embarrass you.

5, the theater to find a spouse-women

At the gate of the theater, Haiyang held two most popular movie tickets, but his friend who had arranged to come with him broke the appointment temporarily. He wants to see it. He thinks it's boring to be alone and doesn't want to sell it to scalpers. At this time, a pair of girls nearby were asking the scalper about the fare. When they were about to give up, the fare was hit. Olson went over to one of the girls and said, "Can I invite you and your friends to the theater?" He gave the tickets to two girls, with only one request. He hopes that the girl he is chatting with will invite him to tea in the future. This selfless behavior immediately touched the girl and took the initiative to make an appointment for the meeting time and place.

Ocean happily left, a drama that can be watched or not, in exchange for an unknown love, he felt very cost-effective.

Success probability: ★★★★★

Friendly reminder: this spirit of giving up the ego to achieve the overall situation is very convincing, but girls are easy to get together. Don't make a bad proposal that only one person is invited to see it, or the probability of success will drop to zero immediately.

6, mobile phone love law-suitable for both men and women

Meimei met him at the light rail station and fell in love with him at first sight. After getting on the bus, she has been thinking about how to strike up a conversation with him so as not to be misunderstood as 13 o'clock. Seeing that the bus was about to arrive at the station, she was anxious and stepped forward and said, "Can I borrow your mobile phone?"

Maybe she looked really anxious (not to make a phone call, of course), so he handed her the phone at once. After Danny pressed a few numbers on it, her cell phone rang. Looking at his puzzled look, she smiled and said, "My number is already on your mobile phone. Can I contact you often in the future? "

Success probability: ★★★★★

Friendly reminder: Although there are frequent cell phone robberies, there are many good people after all. As long as your appearance is not a "criminal", you can usually borrow the other person's mobile phone. This method is both implicit and effective, and it is worth a try. ……

7. Unexpected accidents-suitable for both men and women

One afternoon on the pedestrian street, Miss Kobayashi wandered alone. Suddenly a man stepped forward and asked politely, "Miss, what time is it?" Kobayashi said apologetically, "Sorry, I don't have my watch and mobile phone, and I don't know the time."

At this time, the man held out his hand, showed his watch and said, "I know it's 3: 50 pm Beijing time, and there's a movie on at the cinema over there at 4: 00." May I invite you to see it? "

……

Success probability: ★★★★

Friendly reminder: this method is not generous to both men and women, and only applies to people with a sense of humor.

8, pour praise method-suitable for both men and women, especially for women.

Su Dong caught up with the girl coming out of the shopping center: "How to get to Renmin South Road?" After the girl showed the way, he took a deep breath and said, "God, can you tell me what perfume you are wearing?" She immediately looked at him warily, and he explained, "I've been looking for this perfume for a long time." Did you buy it in this shopping center? What brand? How much is it? " A series of questions about perfume let the girl off her guard. She kindly told him the answer and took him to the counter. Of course I bought perfume, but he gave it to her.

Success probability: ★★★★

Friendly reminder: Be careful to ask only the questions you want to ask, and don't let the other person think that you are planning something else. Wear everything, don't wear flattering clothes, everyone likes to have their taste recognized. Moreover, people are kind. When he (she) tells you the answer, he (she) also has time to see you clearly. Is it worth leaving your phone number?

9, vest left word method-male

One day, the girl Xiao Si often sees by bus finally got a chance to strike up a conversation with him. She sat behind him, and Xiao Si vaguely felt that something was going to happen. Sure enough, the vest suddenly felt itchy. He didn't look back and knew what she was doing. At the station, Xiao Si got off as usual.

The white T-shirt vest he is wearing says: I can see you every day. Can you be a friend? My phone number is 139. ...

Success probability: ★★★/

Friendly reminder: Not every man has such good manners. You can write on his vest. He will probably jump up and shout, "Oh, my God! My CK! " As for women who love clothes like life, this method is absolutely impossible!

10, palm writing-male, generous female

For details, see San Mao's "The rainy season doesn't come". She found a boy who had a crush on him for a long time on the playground. Without saying a word, she took his hand and wrote his name and home phone number on his palm. A kind of romance that silence speaks louder than sound spreads in the hearts of two teenagers.

Success probability: ★★★/

Friendly reminder: when you rush to grab his or her hand, you may have to make a simple explanation, such as: I am not a bad person! Wait, otherwise it may be misunderstood as robbery. After all, silence is better than sound, and not everyone can appreciate it.

1 1, rogue muddling along-men, kind women.

This is the real devil's chat-up method. At lunch time, she came to the casual restaurant where she often came, with a spoon in her hand, walked up to the man who looked pleasing to the eye and said to him with a straight face, "The food you cooked looks delicious. Can I have some? " He blushed and stammered, "Please, be my guest." The laughter of friends around reminded him and quickly added, "Why don't I treat you to a key one?"

Probability of success: ★

Friendly reminder: it is said to be the devil's method of chatting up.

You single men and women can consider which one suits you. Hehe, love is painful and marriage is cruel. But we still have to find love and realize marriage.

Also, in this world, hitting on a girl will only make her like you (unless she doesn't hate you).