1. Have a cup of coffee or tea: You can choose a quiet cafe or teahouse, enjoy a cup of coffee or tea, chat with each other and talk about common interests and experiences.

2. Try a new restaurant together: choose a different restaurant, try new food, taste its delicacy and creativity, and at the same time, it will also lead to the topic of conversation.

3. Watch a movie or drama: You can choose an interesting movie or drama. After watching it, you can exchange your views and feelings about it together.

4. Ride a bike or walk: Choose a beautiful route, ride a bike or walk together, enjoy the scenery and hike, and increase the time and opportunities for mutual communication.

5. Participate in cultural activities: watch exhibitions, attend concerts, visit museums, etc. Enjoy cultural activities together, share feelings and experiences, and increase opportunities for communication and mutual understanding.

6. Challenge sports: Choose an interesting sport, such as rock climbing, skating, horseback riding, etc. Together, challenge your sports talent and enhance the opportunities for understanding and communication.

In short, whatever you do, it is most important to make the other person comfortable, relaxed and understand each other better.