These sixteen words mean that too persistent and extreme feelings can't be completed from beginning to end, while people who are too strong are bound to be insulted by ordinary people. As a gentleman, it is necessary to be gentle, calm, restrained and unobtrusive.
If you are very serious and affectionate in a relationship, this person will definitely be troubled. I hope the other person has been immersed in love like me. You love each other so much that you have given a lot. You want to share your joys and sorrows with each other. You want to meet each other as soon as you get off work and go out to play with each other on your day off. You have no friends, and the focus of your life is only the other person, but with such strong feelings, the other person may not be able to respond with the same strong love.
As a result, an unfair mentality appeared, followed by quarrels and separation.
"Being strong is humiliating" means that it is best for a person not to be sharp-edged everywhere, but to keep a low profile when doing things, so that he will not pose a threat to others. If you act high-profile, others will think you are too aggressive, and you won't have a good impression until you get to know you better. What's more, they will gang up and attack.
And a modest gentleman, who doesn't show hill but not dew, treats others tenderly and takes care of everyone around him tenderly. He has no edges and corners, but he has character, is not sharp, but has great connotation. He feels natural and graceful when he is himself.