There is a concept of "terrible2" abroad, which means that when babies reach 2 years old, their behavior will change significantly, which makes parents more disciplined about them. difficulty.

Compared with 2-year-old babies, they are really "horrible" when they are 3 years old, and the "horrible3" phenomenon that occurs in them really makes parents worry. They realize "the true face of a three-year-old child."

As a higher-end upgraded version than "terrible2", 3-year-old babies are by no means as "cute" as they appear on the surface. Psychologists also believe that 3 years old is the beginning of the first "resistance period" in a child's life.

Having lost her celebrity aura, Chia Jingwen, as a mother of three children, behaves very down-to-earth in the show. In the daily care of her daughters Bibi and Ponniu, she will also interact with ordinary people. Like the mother, she often feels "crazy" and is helpless with her child.

The 3-year-old Bibi is a little older than Ponniu, and should be more sensible, but relatively speaking, she is more "difficult to manage" than Ponniu——

When it was nap time, Bibi refused to go to bed and went to the living room to eat apples;

Faced with the delicious food carefully cooked by her mother, Bibi showed no interest and refused to eat;

"Complaints" that the mother's carefully braided hair looks like straw;

Bullying her sister from time to time, and even taking the opportunity to lose her temper...

It can be said that the Bibi in the show is simply a "bear" The 3-year-old baby not only drove her mother Alyssa Chia crazy, but even netizens who watched the show lamented: A 3-year-old baby is so scary! It's simply a trouble-making machine!

On a foreign website, a questionnaire survey was conducted on "What age are children the scariest?" The final results showed that about 20 parents voted for Terrible 2, and about 50 of parents voted for Horrible 3. It can be seen that whether a child is an "angel" or not cannot be concluded until he is 3 years old.

1. Like to talk back

3-year-old babies have stronger language expression ability. At the same time, they are also keen to express themselves. Children understand and understand things that they do not understand. They will all show a strong desire to express themselves.

In addition, the self-awareness of babies at this age has increased, and they want to have a stronger sense of control, so they become more "rebellious" at this time.

2. Dilly-dallying in doing things

Among the behavioral habits of 3-year-old babies that trouble parents the most in an online poll, dilly-dallying in doing things was ranked first. Parents cannot stand their children's " "Poor concept of time", but in fact this is related to the psychological development characteristics of children at this stage. Children pay more attention to the experience of the process.

3. Like to lose temper

Children in this age group are in the stage where emotions dominate their psychology. Children are more likely to "act on impulse". When negative emotions occur, children are the most Direct expression means venting, so at this time they prefer to rely on crying to solve problems.

A 3-year-old baby has shown a preliminary sense of resistance to parental discipline, and is also going through several sensitive periods in its growth. At this time, family education really needs to be treated with care by parents. Find the right method to avoid mistakes.

1. Give children more understanding and respect

When parents can try to look at what is happening from the perspective of their children, parents will find that their children also It is not "unreasonable". Only when parents treat their children as an individual relatively independent of themselves can children gain respect from their parents.

2. Pay attention to the development of good habits in children

When children reach the age of 3, they already have the ability to understand the rules. At this time, it is necessary for parents to start Pay attention to the development of good habits in children. Although there is still a long way between children's understanding of the rules and their compliance with the rules, parents should also provide early guidance.

3. Be more patient with your children and talk about education after calming down.

3-year-old babies have a stronger sense of imitation, and they will learn from the emotional expressions of adults. Yes, if adults cannot restrain their emotions well, they will undoubtedly set a wrong example for their children. Only when parents are not coerced by their children's bad emotions can they truly provide educational output.

This stage of education is a great challenge to parental education. Parents must master more scientific guidance methods and correctly face the parenting problems of their children.