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Many years ago, when I was working, I went to play games as a substitute, started to contact online games, and played by myself in my spare time.

Sometimes the numbers on hand are high and the equipment is not bad. When you meet some relatively low-level monsters and hit yourself, you will hardly lose any blood.

At this time, I just want to skin it, deliberately walk around the "active monster", around and around, and behind me, a large group of monsters are attracted.

These guys keep attacking behind them, but they don't hurt at all, so they will be proud to see that they are in vain.

After a while, I felt bored, so I used several group attack skills to drive these guys out at one fell swoop.

Sometimes monsters of the same level are also pulled to upgrade, and people need to cooperate.

Soldiers with long blood will bear many strange attacks when pulling monsters, and then wizards with group attack skills or other professions will be responsible for standing by and killing monsters.

This behavior of deliberately pulling a bunch of strangers to beat themselves is called "pulling hatred."

Later, I found that the word "hatred" is more vivid and appropriate in real life.

For example, people who watch Friends in the middle of the night and have dinner will be accused of stirring up hatred.

At this time, I should go to bed, but I was tempted by food. Let's go out for dinner, not everything can come true.

Even if you don't go out to eat, you will be reminded by those photos that you are hungry, so you may run into your kitchen to find something to eat.

As a result, I fell asleep with the chagrin that I had to gain a few pounds after I finished.

At this time, you need to find a place to blame yourself, so you hate the guy who sent food pictures.

For another example, you work hard all day, even overtime, and you may also work hard on weekends.

Despite this, the income is not much, and the wallet is dry.

At this point, you take another look at your circle of friends. All my friends sent beautiful scenery, all kinds of games, domestic and foreign, mountains and rivers.

At this time, your friends and relatives are taking pictures on a pleasant trip.

At this time, their hatred adds another one to you, and you may be more or less bitter and envious.

Or, you are lovelorn, you are divorced, your relationship with your partner is tense, and your relationship is not smooth, but all you see in your eyes are photos or videos of relatives and friends expressing their love.

At this point, you will also feel that they are "pulling hatred."

Of course, such hatred is naturally not true, and sometimes it is similar to coquetry, that is, the kind of "you are too much, I am so sad that you still stimulate me in front of me."

In this case, it is also suitable to tell people who are closer to you, let them comfort you, or conversely, deliberately stimulate you more proudly.

Just as Yang Mi, who was pregnant for four months, said when she was drying her weight online, "I passed 50KG for the first time in my life, and by the way, I would like to commemorate my hatred." .

Soon, many fans came to ask: Who wants to be angry with S? "

In fact, most of these seemingly offensive, angry and resentful acts of hatred are aimed at sharing their beautiful or interesting things with friends and relatives.

Whether it's teasing or showing off in a fun show, whether the sunbather says he is pulling hatred, or the person who replies to the comment says you are pulling hatred, it's a slightly teasing interaction, an indirect laugh and joke.

However, whether everyone can be kind to your hatred may depend on what your hatred is, its weight and purpose.

If it is really melodramatic and self-righteous, you should pay attention to the hatred you bring.

If it is just a simple life sharing, there is no problem.

If the purpose is to show off wealth, drying cars, houses and swimming pools every day, and drying watches and famous brands without restraint may lead to some real jealousy or contempt, and even cause trouble.

Or it is possible to deliberately show love to the ex of the object, stimulate others, quietly retaliate, or do something that destroys your relationship.

Because of excessive stimulation, it will really attract hatred.

Even the "weird" behavior mentioned at the beginning of the article is actually risky.

For example, I happened to meet your enemy on the way to drag the monster. I lost PK with you before, lost my equipment, and still remember yours.

Or if you are not kind, he may take you to a group of monsters with high level and strong attack if you play with them everywhere.

Then you enjoy it all the time, and suddenly you become overwhelmed and even die.

If you drop your equipment after hanging up, he will pick it up and run away, or he will give you two more knives when you are surrounded by monsters and almost hang up.

Therefore, people who are low-key and introverted are safer, and some high-profile people may be profitable.

But some people just want to attract others' attention, find a sense of existence or satisfy vanity.

People like this are very easy to get involved in "true hatred", and people who don't like it are also very likely to make a little trip.

Then watch the fooled person fall down, so that he can laugh at each other in turn and say in his heart, "I will make you laugh!" " "

Everything is measured, you can't or don't have to keep a low profile, but you can't pull hatred in a big way. In this case, it may be similar to the idea of Versailles.

In short, we don't have to live quietly, but we don't deliberately perform. It should be a smarter attitude towards life.