The first chat, an opening that boys can’t refuse

1. Pet opening: You: It seems like there are cats in your circle of friends. Boy: Yeah. You: I also plan to raise a cat. Can I ask you about raising cats? Boy: I don’t have any cats. You: Then you must be a cat lover too. Boy: Cats are very cute.

Explanation: I also like cats very much, so I will share some interesting cat videos with him. What breeds of cats do they have, what characteristics and personalities do they have, and how to choose cat litter.

2. Opening remarks for photography: You: Looking at the photos in your circle of friends, I also like the scenes, angles, and styles. Can I teach you some photography skills?

Analysis: Praise + ask for advice, a boy will instantly feel a sense of being admired. Even if he is not good-looking, he will be happy to share it with you. It is effective in personal testing.

3. Clothing-related opening remarks: You: Hello little brother, looking at your friend’s hair tie, I admire your style of dressing. My cousin will have his birthday in a while and I want to choose a suit for him. Clothes, can you look at them for me? Then, send him photos of men’s clothing that he had prepared in advance.

Explanation: A boy will definitely feel happy. Someone likes his vision and will be happy to help you. He will even find a few styles for you to look at that he thinks are good. .

4. Tourism opening: You: I am going to travel soon. I see that your friend has been to many places. I am inexperienced. Can you give me some advice? Him: What specific features do you want? You: I want to go to an ancient town, somewhere along the coast, blah blah blah.

Analysis: Find similar interests and hobbies, or if the other person is interested, you can bring him in and slowly get to know him. If you chat more, you will naturally become friends. It is normal for friends to chat frequently.

5. Food opening: You: Send him the pictures posted in his circle of friends. he:? . You: I want to go to this restaurant with my sister for a dinner date in the past few days. I saw that you have been there in your circle of friends, and I would like to ask you which dish in his restaurant is more delicious. If you have been there, can you recommend it to me? .

Analysis: No matter how boring a person is, they cannot resist the temptation to eat, so you can talk about the dishes, where they came from, the taste, the shape, and how you felt after the meal. It can be a topic for your chat.

6. Movie opening: You: Your friend posted this movie, and I happened to have just watched it. Are there any other good movies like this that you can share with me? Him: This drama is okay. You: What did you feel after reading it? My impression after watching it is blah blah.

Analysis: Many boys prefer movies, and fewer boys watch dramas. You can increase the sense of connection through the movies you have watched (talk about the positive side of the movie and what inspiration it gave you) If you chat well, the other person will feel like you are late and at the same time, it will pave the way for watching movies together in the future.

7. Sports opening: You: I see a lot of fitness content in your circle of friends. Many people around me don’t like to exercise. I want to exercise, but I don’t know which exercises are suitable for me. Brother, I can learn from you. Well.

Explanation: Chat like friends, and the other party will not be too defensive. How to choose exercise that suits you, what things need to be prepared for exercise, what precautions should be taken when exercising, and which exercises are effective What does it do? These are all topics you can use in chatting.

8. Work-related opening: You: Seeing that your friends post all work-related content, you should be a boy who loves work very much. I would like to ask you how to stay enthusiastic about work and what skills you have. Get along well with colleagues.

Analysis: Even if a boy is a boring gourd, he can still chat with you about things he does every day at work.

9. Do not post in Moments type opening remarks: You: I am attracted by this avatar. Him: What do you say? You: This avatar is the same as that of my deskmate whom I haven’t contacted for a long time. AT and I have some experience, and I want to explain clearly, but there is no news yet. Him: What a misunderstanding.

Analysis: Acting! He and I once had a serious misunderstanding because of something, and now I feel very guilty, blah blah... After that, thank him for listening. You have treated him as a friend, and I hope we can chat more often in the future.