Behind all the glamour, there are pains that you can't endure.

Li Ziqi, who has millions of fans, is a versatile woman.

She can grow vegetables and chop firewood to make mouth-watering food.

you can also tie-dye and sew, and design beautiful clothes and dresses.

You can even make four treasures of the study in China.

She is not only popular all over the country, but also has many foreign fans, and even received by the President of Malaysia.

So many people envy her and try to imitate her, but the result is this:

A netizen originally wanted to cut bamboo like Li Ziqi, but the third time the sickle fell, he had a red cut on his hand and cut it directly.

It turns out that it is almost impossible to shoot a crisp and even accurate knife action in a short time without the foundation and foundation of doing farm work for many years.

A netizen originally imitated Li Ziqi and dyed the cloth with grape skins. When the cloth dried, it turned denim blue, but Li Ziqi didn't.

It turns out that plant dyes are unstable, and they will change color when they meet acid and alkali, and the individual differences are also very great. Without many attempts and experiences, they can't be done well at all.

There is even a netizen who wants to rub the heat of Li Ziqi, and digs a swimming pool with an excavator, pretending to dig it himself, but he is ashamed after being exposed.

It turns out that, whether it's building bricks or building houses, if you don't have the skill and skill of a craftsman, you can't get it at all, and you can't get it.

Maybe Li Ziqi's style can be followed, but what you will never learn is her bumpy growth experience, her nearly 3 years' experience in rural life since childhood, and her seriousness and concentration in one thing for eight years.

many times, we always envy the success of others.

in fact, behind all the glamour, there are hidden pains that you can't stand, tired and difficult.

in fact, behind all the fame, there are hidden sadness, pain that you can't taste and unbearable pressure.

In fact, behind all majors, there are hundreds of frustrations and failures, as well as persistence and persistence for ten years.

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Don't overestimate your amateur ability blindly.

There was once a program called Crosstalk with Newcomers.

A couple of doctors from Shanghai Jiaotong University brought a self-created concept "Formula Crosstalk".

Originally, they had a well-thought-out plan and even wanted to challenge judge Degang Guo.

However, from this video, we can easily find that although the two couples have high academic qualifications, they are not only arrogant, but also the level of their cross talk, which is not even amateur.

After their performance, Degang Guo didn't let them pass, so the man angered Degang Guo and said,

"Are you sure you won't let us pass today? Let's wait and see. If you don't let us pass today, the person sitting in that position tomorrow may be us. "

Although there are many ways to speak cross talk nowadays, the most important thing to evaluate whether a person can speak cross talk is whether he can Shang Yan.

It is obvious that Degang Guo is now a leading figure in the music industry, and his Deyun Society is not only very popular at home, but also very popular abroad, even full of people.

However, the crosstalk between the two couples seems to be unique. In fact, not only does it not have too many audiences, but even their baggage is too embarrassing and rigid, which can be said to be completely unsuitable for this business.

Later, Degang Guo replied in an interview:

"Our line didn't become famous overnight. I studied storytelling at the age of seven and crosstalk at the age of nine. After more than 4 years, I failed. Why should I let a person who only says that he likes crosstalk but has no strength pass?"

General Patton once said, "A fool is conceited, which is rarer, more beautiful and more exotic than talent, and that is self-knowledge."

Sometimes, we often overestimate our amateur ability and always challenge others' ability to eat and survive.

In fact, no matter what line of work, there are no people who become famous easily. What you see is the dazzling fame of others on the stage, but you can't see the hard work of others off the stage.

in fact, no matter what you do, you want to be a leader in an industry, not by your mouth, but by your ability and skill that are hard enough to convince people.

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Don't underestimate anyone who is more professional than you.

the writer Han Han once mentioned these two things in an article.

Han Han likes playing football since he was a child. He won the championship in the class league and played as a striker and goalkeeper in the school team. He once felt good about himself.

When he was 2 years old, a student website organized a charity ball game, and he and several excellent friends of the school team were invited to participate.

The opponent of the game turned out to be a children's reserve team of a professional team in Shanghai, all of whom were students of grade five or so. At that time, he also teased about giving way to some children.

As a result, in the first half, his team only touched the ball once, and was filled with nearly 2 balls in primary school.

Later, when serving the gateball, his team scored goals, passed the ball less than 1 times, and the pupils took the upper hand at other times.

Han Han also likes to play billiards, and he was called "Ding Junhui at the racetrack". At that time, he was a little proud.

He once played with China professional billiards player Xiao-Ting Pan. At first, he thought that although he was not as good as her, he still had a chance to win with his years of professional racing training.

At that time, they agreed that whoever lost would kick off. Originally, Han Han thought about a lot of coping opportunities and wanted to do a good job in defense. When Xiao-Ting Pan made a mistake, he sealed his throat again, but the result was that he was basically doing only one thing that night, that is, kicking off.

Actually, the so-called major has nothing to do with a person's age, experience or even status.

Sometimes, we always take our own three-legged cat kung fu to challenge others' unique skills, and in the end, there is almost no room for winning except making a fool of ourselves.

Sometimes, we always underestimate other people's majors and wait for their mistakes with luck, but we forget that majors mean there is no possibility of making mistakes.

Sometimes, we always exaggerate our abilities and ignore that there seems to be a thin piece of paper between amateurs and professionals, but in fact there is a very high mountain.

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Don't use your spare time to challenge other people's majors.

there is a saying: "36 lines, each line will be the champion. But it won't be you. Why? Because you think you can do everything, but you can't do anything well, at best. "

everyone's life time and energy are very limited.

if you want to show off everywhere, you may end up mediocre everywhere. If you think of achievements everywhere, you may end up hitting a wall everywhere.

yang LAN, the host, founded sunshine TV in 2, but because she was not good at the operation of business model, although she spent a lot of manpower and financial resources, she finally ended in failure. finally, she decided to be a host with peace of mind and returned to the peak of her career.

Mark Twain, a writer, once sold books for publication in order to get rich and earn more money.

but in less than two years, he not only got into debt because he didn't have the business skills, but also neglected his writing. Later, he returned to his old job and became a world-class master.

In life, we think we can do more because we have made some achievements in a certain field.

as everyone knows, just doing one thing well in our life is enough to stand on our feet, stand on our feet and even achieve great success.

Sometimes, we are jealous of others' success, want to get a cup of soup, and even want to take all the benefits.

sometimes, we are jealous of others' Excellence and want to do what others can do and achieve what others have achieved.

In fact, anyone who is a master in a certain line must have a reason to become famous. As the saying goes, without Jin Gangzuan, one should not blindly speculate and play tricks.

Everyone has different talents and potentials, as well as different strengths and weaknesses.

you only need to keep on doing what you are good at, and keep on cultivating, so that you can reach a height that others can't reach with an absolute advantage.

But if you are too greedy, too competitive, and even keep trying things that you are not suitable for, you will not only get twice the result with half the effort, but even lose more.

encourage friends.