"It doesn't matter whether you are born noble or humble, but you must have a way to be a man."

as the saying goes, seven points depend on being a man and three points on doing things.

whether a person is worth making friends with or not depends on these two words. Honesty

In the TV series "Parents Love", Jiang Defu, the "head of illiteracy", took a fancy to Angie, a young lady of the bourgeois family. After a very bumpy pursuit, Angie finally had a good impression on Jiang Defu and gradually accepted this "lout".

However, Jiang Defu, who returned to the dormitory, was not happy. He told his roommate, "I never told her about my divorce, but I always felt uncomfortable."

The roommate immediately told him, "Don't say anything. If you say anything, you'll be finished. Wait till you get married. What can she do then?"

Jiang Defu listened to his roommate's words, but according to his own thoughts, he found a time to seriously tell Angie about his marriage and divorce.

Mark Twain said, "Confession is the product of honesty and courage."

at first, Angie couldn't accept it, of course, and turned around and ran away on the spot. But later, in Anjie's "judgment" on this man, Jiang Defu's honesty added a lot of points to himself.

When he could have cheated, he risked losing his beloved woman, dragged out his "old base" and gave her the right to know and the right to choose.

This "frankness" of Jiang Defu is even more valuable in a society where everyone will measure gains and losses and seek profits only.

Therefore, Angie is not only willing to marry her, but even if he returns to the field, he is willing to go with her. I have to say that he is also moved by Jiang Defu's sincerity and true nature.

Yang Shi, a philosopher in the Northern Song Dynasty, once said, "If you are not sincere, you will be tired, but if you are sincere, you will not be tired." If a person is dishonest, his heart will inevitably be tired by him. If he is honest, his heart will be open and he will have nothing to worry about.

Lu Xun: "The quality of a great personality is an honest word." Only sincerity can break the sky, but reality can break the sky.

No matter how excellent a person is, once his moral character is flawed, it is like food that has been left for a long time. It still looks delicious, but it is disgusting to savor it carefully.

The greatest attraction between people is precisely the sense of sureness that you convey to each other, which makes them feel that you are reliable and trustworthy. Kindness

During the Chinese New Year, Jamlom, a classmate who just divorced last year, took her 5-year-old daughter back to her family. Seven aunts and eight aunts took turns to visit, saying that they came to visit, but it was more like a joke.

Their words are always full of pity and regret, which makes Jamlom particularly uncomfortable. For example,

"How can I live with my children alone?"

"I didn't expect your husband to be such a person. You were really blind."

"I advise you to remarry. There are no perfect men in this world. Don't pity the children."

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Samuel Johnson said, "The road to hell is usually paved with good intentions." True goodness, if not expressed in a proper way, becomes evil.

During World War II, the whole Europe was in a state of chaos, and people who fled often could not eat.

Every time an old German lady sees someone wandering outside the door, she knows that she is hungry and embarrassed to come in and beg. Because this dozens of miles in Fiona Fang, sparsely populated, it is not easy to find a place to eat.

In order not to hurt others' self-esteem, countless times, the old people asked people outside the door to help them move the wood from one end of the yard to the other, and then took the opportunity to invite them to have dinner together, and the other party happily agreed to continue on their way after eating.

The old lady leaned on these logs and skillfully expressed her goodwill, giving it just right, secretly warming everyone in need.

yes, when kindness is put on a coat and kept quiet, it is really good.

Gorky said, "Remember, always give more to others happily and take less from others."

john ruskin, a British writer, once said, "Do your best for others, and finally do your best for yourself."

Kindness is the compass of the soul, which makes us never lose our way. No matter who you hurt, you will hurt yourself in the long run. Maybe you are not aware of it now, but it will definitely come back.

so, always remember: what you do to others is what you do to yourself.

As Mr. nan huaijin said, a person should have a kind quality, an indifferent state of mind and a benevolent thought. Look at the world generously, and a broad and broad mind can stand on this world. Persistence

To be a person, it is not enough to be honest and kind, but also to have certain ability.

As the old saying goes, "If you don't take care of your elders, you will get into trouble." If you don't be strict with yourself, there will be disaster.

People are expensive and persistent. You should have determination, perseverance and patience in doing anything, and have the spirit of persistent pursuit, which is the key to success.

In an issue of An Appointment between Lu and Yu, Lu Yu asked Lang Lang, "How can I practice the piano every day in a busy schedule?" Lang Lang replied, "I'll practice after a while, and that's what I do. I just practice every day. If I work late, it doesn't matter, or if I practice for 2 hours in the morning, not practicing is tantamount to chronic suicide."

He learned piano at the age of three. Since the age of seven, Lang Lang has been practicing piano for nearly six hours every day, and he has doubled his practice on holidays, winter and summer vacations. Almost all the time is occupied by the piano! Even at this age, she is internationally renowned and still insists on practicing piano for at least 2 hours every day.