Aunt Zhen was very angry about something recently.

It turned out that she was considerate of the poor financial situation of her in-laws, so when she married her daughter, she did not ask for a penny in betrothal gifts, and the three gold coins were also waived. She felt that the betrothal gifts and three gold coins did not mean anything.

At the same time, she also gave her daughter 160,000 yuan, along with a car and household appliances and furniture, totaling 300,000 yuan, and married her daughter in a glorious manner.

She originally thought that her consideration for her in-laws and a qualified dowry would enable her daughter to be cherished and respected by her husband's family.

Turns out, she couldn't have been more wrong.

One day, Aunt Zhen made a chestnut cake that her daughter loved to eat on a whim. She hurriedly delivered it to her daughter as soon as it came out of the pan (the two families are an hour apart). She was in a hurry to go out, so she didn’t bring her mobile phone, and she didn’t notify her daughter or her in-laws.

As a result, as soon as I walked in, I heard my in-laws and neighbors talking loudly in the backyard.

One said, "My son has been outstanding since he was a child. I have never had to worry about his studies, and his work is going smoothly. Before it was my turn to worry about his marriage, he had already captured the only daughter of their leader." Aunt Zhen's

The in-laws rushed to say, "What's the point? My son is capable. He didn't spend a penny on marrying his wife, and the daughter-in-law's family even gave her 300,000 yuan. My daughter-in-law is also an only child. The couple of in-laws don't want to enjoy themselves. They just save money and they will lose money in the future."

It belongs to my son and grandson!" Upon hearing this, Aunt Zhen's heart felt like it was being stabbed in the sea. She felt indescribably depressed and uncomfortable, and had difficulty breathing.

Everyone booed, "I've never heard of you talking about it before! Your daughter-in-law is well-educated and good-looking. She can ask for a high bride price, but why is her demand so low?" Aunt Zhen's in-laws continued, "The demand is low? Her family is not stupid.

, Of course, I knew that my son was in demand, so I would not have agreed to let her in if she had not been so close and sincere." This statement shocked Aunt Zhen to the point of being stunned, because it was simply not true.

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Everyone continued to chat. Aunt Zhen wanted to argue a few words, but she couldn't save her face. After putting her things down, she left without saying a word.

When the in-laws found the things and called Aunt Zhen to be polite, Aunt Zhen, who was always gentle and soft-spoken, changed from usual and said sarcastically, "The things are for my daughter to eat, not for you. Don't touch a piece of it."

, That mouth of yours is not worthy of eating!" However, even if she retorts, Aunt Zhen still trembles with anger every time she thinks of what her in-laws said, and she cannot forgive her no matter what.

Aunt Zhen said, "I would like to warn all parents with daughters in the world, don't think that you are noble because you don't want a bride price, and don't think that the groom's family will thank you. People will only think that your daughter is a cheap thing picked up for free. Don't blame your husband's family, who

Who knows, there is no regret medicine! "The biggest feeling that Aunt Zhen's story gave me is that no one can fight against the vested interests.

The reason why Aunt Zhen couldn't swallow this breath was because she had lost forever. The repayment had become a fact. The in-laws had received real benefits, and the benefits they had eaten would never be spit out and given back to her.

She underestimated the vulgarity of human nature and was completely hurt by the white-eyed wolf.

Regarding betrothal gifts, I have always held the view that they are necessary for three reasons.

First, the betrothal gift is a war without gunpowder. This war must be fought in order to truly know oneself and the enemy.

A female reader once shared her experience with me.

She brought her boyfriend home. Her parents were not satisfied with the young man and had no way of understanding his true character, so they asked for a 100,000-dollar gift.

She was petrified at the time because her boyfriend's family was not rich and her love would definitely be ruined by her parents.

As a result, what she didn't expect was that her boyfriend took the train back to his hometown the next day, and brought his parents and 100,000 yuan to formally propose marriage on the third day.

Her parents changed their attitude 180 degrees and said to her privately, "This man means what he says, which shows that he values ??you very much. His parents are also reasonable, love their son deeply, and are willing to respect your requests for their son. This

My husband, you won’t suffer any loss in your marriage.” Although her parents said this to her, they remained calm on the surface and accepted the gift with a “hard-hearted” attitude.

She was given 80,000 yuan as a dowry, and she took the 100,000 yuan away with her.

When she left, her parents told her, "This money is your own little treasury. You can't spend it randomly or use it on your husband's family. You have to plan it carefully. Especially after you have children in the future, if there is a cash flow problem."

, this is the emergency fund." After her marriage, she lived happily.

If he really loves you, especially loves you because he understands you, and knows that the union between you and him will lead to a happy life, he will have to collect the money even if a knife comes from the sky.

This is also his military spirit to spend the rest of his life with you!

A man who is confused, unclear, and has no life plan has no idea what marriage is for. He only marries a wife to give an explanation to his parents.

Not only does he not understand you well and cherish you, because he doesn't even understand himself.

Such a man looks good at ordinary times, has no major problems, and can have a lot of happy times when he is in love. He is very deceptive.

But such a man cannot stand the test of betrothal gifts. If you ask him for a penny, he will find it verbose, philistine, and exploiting him and his parents.

Only a man who truly loves you can understand how valuable it is to win a lifetime of happiness with a mere gift.