These two days, I was screened by a short video titled "After three days in the village, my uncle cured my mental internal friction", and my friends praised the hero "My uncle" for being too cured.

I watched this short video again and again. The video was 11 minutes and a half long, but it condensed my uncle's life. My second uncle is a young genius, but he is disabled for life because of the misdiagnosis of quacks.

at first, he was facing this misfortune and was very painful. He stayed in bed for more than a year. But now that he is alive, life has to move forward. He thought about this and began to struggle.

Learn to be a carpenter, support yourself and try not to be a burden to others; Working hard day and night, I want to take good care of my mother and adopted daughter Ningning; I once had an uncertain "love" and longed to form a complete small family, but the woman's attitude towards herself was a mystery after all. (With the woman's departure, this ethereal "love" no longer exists.)

"My Uncle" has attracted so many people's attention because our parents are very similar to him, and we are more similar to him. Parents devote their lives to their children, raising them when they are young, and middle-aged and elderly people worry about our marriage and career, and they are afraid of becoming a drag on their children when they are old. Seeing "My Uncle" brings us more thoughts about our parents.

and thinking is not limited to parents, but also to ourselves. At present, many young people's lives are not like "my uncle", struggling and struggling. Struggling to pursue the life you want, but it is inevitable to encounter all kinds of unbearable. Instead of feeling sorry for my uncle, we might as well feel sorry for ourselves, or even say that we are not as good as him.

The author who sent this short video said that his mental internal friction was cured by my second uncle, but can it really be cured forever? I don't think it's possible. The healing effect is doomed to be short-lived.

Nowadays, young people, especially ordinary people like us, are almost all facing mental internal friction. Just talking about myself, "my heart is higher than the sky, and my life is thinner than paper." Always eager to do something, take care of everyone at home in life. But then I discovered that I was small.

I don't think I don't work hard, but in life, we may encounter not only "natural disasters", but also "man-made disasters" from time to time, just like "my second uncle".

at work, I am eager to have friendly communication with leaders and colleagues, but it will not be as you expected. You will have differences with your colleagues because of some things, and you will hate each other or be hated by each other; You will be dissatisfied because the leader has arranged a lot of things for you, but you can't help it.

In my life, I hope to take good care of my parents, my lover and my children. But sometimes it just takes care of one thing and loses another, and even "the whole line collapses." The life of "chicken feathers in one place" seems to have lost the meaning of life.

I don't have enough time, money and capital to stop and "do nothing". I am eager to become the kind of Excellence I want, but I find that it is just a "desire".

However, one thing I found is true. People do change after experiencing some people and things, become silent, and become less forced. I think "my uncle" is also unwilling, but he chose life and faced the reality bravely.

I still remember that his note said, "Make up your mind, be not afraid of sacrifice, overcome all difficulties and strive for victory". This is his previous life belief, but it has also become his later life belief.

Actually, if you think about it carefully, the background color of life is ordinary. The reason why we suffer from mental internal friction is that everyone wants to have an extraordinary life. How to choose your life depends on yourself.

it may be the main theme of life to spend a lifetime growing up and perfecting yourself.