"Time can always help you solve all problems."
This is a favorite chicken soup a few years ago. I really foolishly think that time is powerful, and I can get a bowl of Meng Po soup, and all the troubles will be over after I get bored, and I don't have to go through the annoying childhood-perfection!
But experience tells me that people have the real ability to launch the century-old brand "Meng Po Tang" next to Naihe Bridge in Meng Po.
Although Time is a big company, the "forgetting function" has been jointly developed with chicken soup for only a few years, so the curative effect is not good, and it often fails.
Look, if time is really good medicine, will you remember these people?
He hit you in the palm of your hand in primary school, and you completely bowed down after a scratching meal-it really hurt;
Your grades in high school are not very good. She has to ask about your grades every Chinese New Year holiday. If your grades are not good, she will scold you for not knowing your parents' hard work, but if you get good grades, you may not praise you.
You just entered the society, and you finally did a good job. Your boss smiled and said to help you hand it in, only to hear that the praised one became his own nephew.
He or she can bring in the teacher, seven aunts and eight aunts and one of your bosses.
time can't help you forget these unimportant people and things, let alone people you really loved.
movies seem to know this better, and they can always tell everything with lines.
In the movie "Letter of Parting", there is a passage:
Don't comfort me if you leave me, you know that every sewing will also meet with puncture pain.
although you may not want to hear it, I want you to know that you will always be a part of me. You occupy a special place in my heart, and that place will be reserved for you forever, and no one can replace it. John, you are a hero and a gentleman. You are kind and upright. More than that, you are the first person I have ever loved wholeheartedly. No matter what the future is like, it is because I loved you that my life can be better than before.
I hope you will always remember how beautiful the feelings we enjoy, and I hope you know that you mean to me as much as I do to you.
you will always be a part of me, and no one can replace you. Because I loved you, my life is better than before.
In the movie ashes of time, it is even more incisive:
Actually, "let life slip past you" is just a joke she played on me. The more you want to know whether you have forgotten it, the better you will remember it. I once heard someone say that when you can no longer have it, the only thing you can do is not to forget it.
In contrast, the expression in another film by Wong Kar-wai, Spring is bursting, is much more subtle:
When I stand in front of the waterfall, I feel very sad. I always feel that it should be two people standing here.
Look, I miss you even when I see a waterfall. When can I forget you?
if you can't get it, you can't forget it. I owe my life to you.
In Chongqing Forest, the expired canned pineapple has become an unforgettable representative:
I don't know when everything has a date, saury will expire, canned meat will expire, and even plastic wrap will expire. I began to wonder, what else will not expire in this world?
I have seen an extreme example. My friend in college swallowed sleeping pills when her ex-boyfriend got married-she didn't beg for death, she just wanted to sleep.
at that time, they had broken up for nearly five years.
In these five years, two people occasionally greet each other like old friends, and naturally we all think that all this is over.
But she still couldn't face his wedding: "I tried a wedding dress for him once, so can I just watch him get married?"
the answer to this question is simple, but it's really hard to forget it.
Some people, like a seed, take root and sprout in our life, secretly absorb nutrients a little, and gradually grow into a lesson tree. It is too difficult for us to shake a big tree, so we usually live in peace with each other, but when we pass by, there is a shadow.
These stories of her honey are the best explanation:
Why can't you let go of the wooden trees and flowing water
? Probably because it was the first person I met, I liked him, and he also had a good impression on me. Originally, according to the established rules, we could be together. However, I chose to give up when my parents stopped me, but I didn't let go. After all, what you can't get is always in turmoil. Then, the time spent together is short. There is no contradiction! The pictures in my mind are all beautiful. I was thinking that if we were really together. I won't let go. Actually, it's inappropriate. Just not being together beautifies him.
Good, good, good, good
I can't let go just because I love him more than I love myself. Now I live separately and miss him occasionally. If you can't put it down, you can't put it down. No one has an inventory that you can't bear and use.
Qian
He studied painting, and his academic performance was not good. Sitting in the back rows of the class, his adolescent love was always quiet but stormy in his heart. Every time he looked at each other casually, he was really lucky. I believe there are arrangements. I went for a walk on the night of graduation and met him on the playground. It was the first time to talk deeply. He talked about his painting process and I talked about my dream as a writer. Later, I made another appointment in the park. I thought it was the beginning, but I didn't expect it to end. He disappeared like Yu Huai. I didn't look for it as crazily as I did, but I just stood there hoping that he would come to me. After so many years, I've always wanted to ask him why he left without saying goodbye, but it doesn't make sense to think for a moment.
Claire, a free soul
He is a person I like since I was very young, a person who made me fall in love at first sight and fascinated me. His feelings are weak and vague, and we have been through a lot, on and off but never together. I didn't hold his hand or hug him. The closest I got was when I fell asleep on a train many years ago and fell on his shoulder. I like him all these years. He has been with two of my best friends, and recently he has been with one of my primary school classmates. I think this circle is really small. I smiled and said goodbye to them.
She said
Four years ago, I was a very introverted person. After falling in love with him at first sight, I told him heartily, "I am born from my heart, sunshine handsome boy". Later, I found myself getting deeper and deeper, and the longer I spent, the more obsessed I became with him. There is a saying that is right: "If you are serious, you will lose." In those days, I experienced a lot of psychological torture, failed to confess, tried to let go, and finally tried my best to find and see him bravely for love. Four years later, I want to say to myself "to courage, my love!" " In fact, I can't let go of myself who was crazy about love. I am very nostalgic for Cancer.
yuguoguo
is warm and soft. Seeing him makes the whole world quiet and beautiful. Unfortunately, there is ambiguity and no commitment. In the end, it is just my own wishful thinking.
Shadow
From Grade Three to Grade Two, from strangeness to familiarity, from liking to confession, and from being together to being strangers. At the beginning, Ceng Mei was better. So please ask him to go on his way, whether he is dead or alive in this life, it doesn't matter anymore.
Bruce? Yao
can't let go of her, but her rival in love. Burn some paper for your rival. It's worth it.
Bijuan
There is no one who can't let go. Occasionally, I take out my predecessors and comment on them, and find that it really doesn't suit me.
Being together reluctantly is endless. People have really changed in their late thirties. I hope to be more knowledgeable and happy when I get old.
Orange
Yes, I can't let him go in my heart, but knowing that there is no result with him, my friends around me advised me to give up. He is not worth it. However, he is still silly to pay, and he is hurt again and again. He doesn't love me at all, he only loves himself. Why don't you let go? Give yourself a chance, leave it to someone who is worth it, burn him some paper and send him on his way.
CY
today, no more. On the day I happily prepared a birthday present for him, he missed his ex-girlfriend in Weibo trumpet.
A Mu
Then I'd better not talk about it. I really can't let go. I can't let go of the losers. I put it down now, but I don't know when I will remember it again, and I can't help dreaming.
Xiaoyue Peiwen
I can't let go of an uncle I've admired for a long time. He is twenty years older than me. He is divorced and I am single. But for various reasons, he and I can only be together secretly. Or, not together. He has an ex-wife and many girlfriends. I may be just one of them. But love is such a strange thing that I am attracted to it and let it hurt me. I love to think, I love to be swayed by considerations of gain and loss, and I am often tortured by myself. I think these days need to end!
Liu Jing
No matter how well he is, he won't miss you on Tanabata, and he won't forget you in July and a half.
warm heart
there must be people who can't let go! My predecessor is with my junior high school classmates! It turns out that friends who have been sending friends will really die quickly, and they will be coveted before they break up! Watch them do what we used to do, eat the food store we looked for together, sleep in the bed I slept in, drive the car I drove, and sit in my exclusive co-pilot! That must feel great! It's half past July. Burn him some money and send him some white chrysanthemums! Rest in peace! Amitabha.
MSL
I can't let go of a boy all the time because I feel that I didn't do my best in our relationship. Because I was afraid of being hurt in the future, I drew my sword and hurt him first, saying a lot of things against my will and doing a lot of things against my will. Later, we separated as I expected, but now I always think of him from time to time for more than two years. I could have let him see my better side and left more beautiful memories ...
галинаааа
The person who can't let go just said goodbye half a month ago. Six years ago, he ran away from me in the same way. I like it very much, but I still dare not be with me. Probably because there are too many differences between us, and he never has that much self-confidence. And I suddenly understood that sometimes letting go is also a manifestation of love. So I'm going to let him go and help myself.
In the evening
He is the first person I like and the only person I have ever liked at present. When I first met him, he stood on the stage and sang beautifully. He was not handsome at all, but he attracted me because of his eyes and singing!
Fafa
I got a drunken phone call from you that night, and you said you were sorry for me, but I didn't really understand. You're not sorry for me. I let you go a long time ago, but it's hard to let myself go. If I still like you and become your burden, then from now on, I don't like you at all. Don't look back at me. Let's go. The mountains grow high, but don't meet anyone who likes you so much. I just accompanied you through this section of the road, and I became the road you passed by. From then on, there was a sea of people and never came back.
The wind is light and the clouds are light
Two years ago, my husband cheated and forced a divorce. I left my child and went to Beijing, where I met him for further study. I was desperate at that time, and he accompanied me through the most difficult time, but we met at the wrong time, and he was already planning to remarry. Later, he met a little setback when he remarried. He said, let's go together, but I didn't dare to agree because we met for a short time. Later, he remarried successfully, and I didn't divorce. We returned to our families separately. But I have never forgotten him, and I regret it when I think about it. Today, we agreed to delete WeChat for mutual benefit and never contact each other, but my tears can't stop ... I think we are very much like the Korean movie "Men and Women". I really like him and can't let it go, but we all have children, and children need a sound home.
Feng Jiuer
I ... can't let him go. Actually, I don't know whether I put it down or not. But when I saw that his WeChat only had an avatar and a background picture with her smiling sweetly, there was nothing below. I knew it was time to burn him as fireworks, and there was nothing left. He, the deskmate behind him in high school, has always been a wooden and introverted person. No matter what I say, he always listens silently. He went to college again, and I was hugged for a year. I was finally defeated by his silence, and I had no idea at all. Only after I left did I find out that I had lost him blankly, and my heart was sad for a long time. He should have graduated from the police academy this year. I wonder if I can meet him in the same city. I even think that if he gets married, I want to go, but he is willing to invite me. No new love can't forget the old love, my friend advised me.
dark sunflower
he never explicitly refused me, and then he had a one-night stand. I thought it would develop into a relationship, but he never thought about it. I refuse to be his booty call, but I still think of him often and dream about him. I know very well that he is not suitable for me, and maybe it will make people feel good if I can't get it. From now on, I will burn him some paper in my heart and send him on his way. Hang yourself with a hook for a hundred years and don't change!
It's so hard to forget someone that we have to try our best to forget when we know it.
what if you have to forget someone? Which of the following methods would you choose in order to love someone with no distractions, to live well and not to torture yourself:
1. Go to see him and see the side where he shakes his legs and smacks when he eats.
2. Introduce him to a girlfriend, so as to embarrass himself.
3. Find a man to take him to baiwan.
4. bungee jumping, surfing and diving, what is exciting to play, use excitement instead of memory.
5. Wait for death.
6. I really can't forget it. Whatever, get this man back!