Because of their inferiority, they are eager to pursue an equality. But what is equality? In their eyes, equality means that after marriage, they hope that two families can live almost the same life.
But use your head. Besides trying to change the family conditions yourself, why should the other party help your family unconditionally?
0 1, born in rural areas, studying in cities.
Wang Kai is actually what people call the Phoenix Man.
Wang Kai's hometown is a small village in a remote village. There are more than 100 people in the whole village, but usually only women and children are at home. Most men go out to work together to support their families. Wang Kai's father is one of them.
As a child, Wang Kai thought this was a normal phenomenon. Adult men in the family go out to work, while women stay in the village to look after the house, do some farm work and take care of the elderly and children. The children go to primary schools in the village, but most of them go to work in the city right after graduating from junior high school, because the tuition in the county is really too expensive.
However, Wang Kai is lucky. His family members are relatively open-minded and think learning is very useful. Wang Kai's uncle, in particular, worked hard in Shanghai for many years, starting from scratch, and finally gained a firm foothold in Shanghai, which also provided a lot of help for Wang Kai's study.
Wang Kai is a clever man. He studies well. After entering the junior high school in the city, his academic performance is still top-notch. But at this time, he still didn't understand why only he came to school in the village, while many children of the same age were at home to help with farming.
Once, Wang Kai was admitted to the top ten of the school, and his uncle took him to the city center to play, watch movies and eat delicious food. It was his first time to go to the movies, and then he realized that the world was so beautiful and prosperous. At this time, he knew that only by studying hard could he change his fate and live in a tall building. At the same time, he is very grateful to his parents, and he wants them to live a good life.
02. Love that comes quietly.
Wang Kai, a college student, saw the gap between people in the world. Roommates eat, drink and have fun every day, pick up girls and go clubbing. The conditions at home are good, so don't think too much. Only he needs to worry about his future job.
But fortunately, many things happen. After graduating from Wang Kai University, because of his good grades, he successfully entered an internship in a big company, and because of his good performance during the internship, he successfully became a full-time employee and became the fastest person among his classmates to find a good job.
At work, Wang Kai is afraid to relax. He knows that he has become a social person, his burden has become heavier, and his identity has changed a lot. If something goes wrong at work, he must pay for his mistakes, so he is more diligent and cautious, and just wants his parents to live a good life quickly.
In the eyes of colleague Xiao Jing, Wang Kai is a very hardworking person. Although Wang Kai didn't talk much, Xiao Jing could see that he was pragmatic and diligent, while Wang Kai was handsome, and Xiao Jing gradually fell in love with such Wang Kai.
Because of the need for some cooperation at work, the two gradually became acquainted. In the end, it is impossible for anyone to lift the veil first. Anyway, they are together.
After being together, Wang Kai discovered an amazing secret: Xiaojing's family is very rich.
It turns out that he is an insatiable Phoenix man.
Xiao Jing is a relatively low-key person, usually quiet but not talkative. But after being together, Wang Kaicai knew that Xiao Jing's car looked ordinary, but it cost more than 500 thousand.
After a period of understanding, Wang Kai also found that Xiao Jing actually lived in a small villa with her parents.
Since Wang Kai knew that Xiao Jing's family was so rich, his self-confidence was gone, but he became inferior. Xiaojing seemed to see Wang Kai's concern and immediately told him that he didn't value your family conditions, and neither did my parents. As long as we love each other, you are a good person and you are very kind to me.
But after all, how did Wang Can Kay's inferiority complex get rid of in this way?
Two years have passed in an instant, and they are ready to get engaged. But when it comes to marriage, Wang Kai has many conditions. He believes that marriage is not about two people, but about two families. Since he is getting married, as a son, he must take over his parents and live in the city.
Wang Kai believes that even if they get married, their families will look down on them because of their origins, especially if their parents are rural people in their hometown. Only when their parents come to the city, after a long time, can we bridge the gap.
In this way, Wang Kai repeatedly proposed to take over his parents, and hoped that his father-in-law could give him a suite.
But isn't this a joke? I didn't ask you for anything when I married my daughter, but now you ask again and again! Finally, Xiao Jing's parents couldn't stand it. At first, they wouldn't agree if it weren't for their daughter's love and Wang Kai's good performance at work. Now that Wang Kai has made such excessive demands, they are naturally angry.
However, under Xiao Jing's persuasion, the two sides calmed down. After Xiao Jing's lobbying, Xiao Jing's parents agreed to let Wang Kai's parents live in the city, and they were responsible for the residence.
Wang Kai was very happy, but he didn't expect to be arranged in a small bungalow on the first floor when his parents came. It was originally reserved for the nanny aunt at home. Later, the nanny aunt was taken home by her own children and has been idle. Now Xiao Jing's family has renovated the small bungalow, which is actually quite good, with a large area and good decoration.
If you ask me, it's nice to be here. My parents came to this city, and the place where they live is well decorated. But Wang Kai was determined, but he was angry with Xiao Jing: "Your parents live in a villa, and they have two suites, but they let my parents live in a small bungalow? Why, when I look at your family, I just look down on ours. Since I look down on us, why are we still married? Let's dissolve the marriage. "
After Wang Kai said these words, Xiao Jing finally had enough of Wang Kai's unreasonable behavior. She thought it was no problem to arrange her in-laws' residence, but she didn't expect Wang Kai to be adamant. Finally, Xiao Jing fulfilled him and terminated their engagement. When they came, it was all over.
Later, Wang Kai became famous in the company, and everyone was talking about him. Unable to stand everyone's comments, Wang Kai had to resign and change his job.
You said a good future, so ruined?
At first, Wang Kai's life was very legendary. I was born poor, but through my own efforts, I reached a height that most people can't reach, and because of my own efforts, I was attracted by a colleague with good family conditions, who didn't care about the conditions in Wang Kai.
In fact, if Wang Kai can seize this opportunity, the future will be even better. But because of his dissatisfaction, he repeatedly made things difficult for the other family. Who do you think can stand it? Therefore, all this in Wang Kai can only be said to be his own fault, and no one can blame him. what do you think?