Family style grows with me

Family style is a moral standard of a family, just like food, it is an essential component of a family. In our family, there is also a family style, which is how to be a person.

to be a man, you must be kind. There is a saying that "the heart of hurting people is indispensable, and the heart of preventing people is indispensable." And my parents taught me this way since I was a child. I remember once, when I was a child, I deliberately threw small stones at a path. Although the path was narrow and remote, my father saw it and quickly stepped forward to stop me and taught me, "How can this be?" "What's the matter ..." I felt my father was angry, but I said with grievance. "You may make the cyclist fall, which is equivalent to setting others up!" Dad said excitedly, and I listened silently and slowly realized my mistake. Seeing that I seemed to realize my mistake, my father's tone softened and continued, "son, you should remember the pain of falling down last year, right?" It hurts more to fall by bike than that! " I subconsciously covered my left hand, and that injury made me unforgettable. At this time, my father became as kind as before and said, "Pick up those pebbles quickly." "good!"

a lesson, let me know that I should do every detail carefully, for I am afraid that an inadvertent action will hurt others.

When people are punctual, although my mother didn't tell me this truth, she always told me this truth with actions. Every time, when making an appointment with others, my mother always arrives a few minutes early. She said, this way, we won't let others wait for us. On one occasion, I joked, "I would rather teach me to wait for the world than teach the world to wait for me." However, over time, I also learned from my mother and developed a good habit of punctuality!

some actions of parents can always affect children. Excellent quality is cultivated from it.

This is the family style of my family, from which I have developed many good qualities. This family style is worth spreading!

the family is the nursery and the children are the seedlings. Family style is like raindrops, which sneak into the night with the wind and moisten things silently. Only under the moisture of rain and dew can seedlings grow up healthily. Only under the influence of good family style can children excel. Recently, with the word "family style" getting popular, I can't help but see pictures of my grandparents educating me.

When I was a child, my grandmother always told me a few words before going to school: "Son, don't grind your teeth with your classmates when you go to school (Bozhou proverb means quarreling or fighting). If someone bullies you, come back and tell me, and I'll find your teacher." ! Grandma is afraid that I will have conflicts with my classmates at school. She always gives me a "political lesson" when I have nothing to do, tells some classic stories, and teaches me to be magnanimous when things go wrong, get along well with teachers and classmates at school, and don't always have conflicts with others. Under grandma's inculcation, I basically have no conflicts with teachers and classmates.

Grandpa loves to tell me a lot about his experience in military service, and admonishes me: "Few young people nowadays can bear hardships and stand hard work. You must learn to endure hardships from an early age, otherwise you can't do anything great! " Grandpa also taught me: "You can be a master only if you eat bitterness." Only by experiencing an environment that ordinary people can't stand can we cultivate real talents and excel in their future work and life. Perhaps this is "the day will drop to a great post, so people must first suffer their minds, work their bones and muscles, and starve their bodies and skins ...", I think.

Now, I have entered senior high school and become a senior high school student. I have already developed good habits such as being helpful, hard-working and plain living. Come to think of it carefully, all these have an inseparable relationship with our family style. Grandma still gives me a "political lesson" before going to school every time, and grandpa still talks to me about the traditional virtues of the Chinese nation, such as thrift and hard work, from time to time before and after meals. I am very happy to listen to their words, because that is the good family style of our family.

I have been thinking that it is a national culture worth promoting to establish a correct family style and inherit excellent family rules and family training. Nowadays, some bad habits in society have gradually withdrawn from the people's sight, and "positive energy" has been passed on. If we add a good family style to build it, the atmosphere of our society will be purer, the people's life will be better, and the country's future will be more prosperous!

the school launched a family style survey. "What is the family style?" On the elevator home, I couldn't wait to ask my mother.

Mom smiled and said, "Watch carefully. In fact, every day, your behavior reflects our family style."

why don't I remember? I scratched my head hard and looked at my father doubtfully. My father smiled lazily and said, "Go back and ask grandpa."

I rolled my eyes helplessly, knowing that they would definitely not tell me. Have to observe for yourself!

when I got home, grandpa had cooked delicious food, and I took chopsticks first, ready to launch a strong attack on the food. At this time, my father frowned and said, "Did you go for a family trip?" Grandpa hasn't served yet, so how can he eat first? "

oh, it suddenly dawned on me that this is the family style! I quickly put down my chopsticks, went to the kitchen to help grandpa bring out the last dish, and sat upright at the table. When grandpa sat down, grandpa said, "It's time to eat." I started my chopsticks and ate the food with a big mouth. At this time, my father patted me on the head and said, "Yes, this is a filial and polite child!" "

"What family style does our family have?" I munched on the food and said vaguely.

Dad said, "Eating without talking and sleeping without talking is also a family style! However, there are other family styles that you can experience when you practice. " Dad said, the thief's insidious smile screamed twice, and I suddenly got chills in my back and fell out with goose bumps. How terrible!

It will be 8: 3 soon, and my mother said, "Son, it's time to practice." This voice is as gentle as the voice of an angel, but I really feel like the devil is calling me!

“O,no!” I gave a groan of pain, reluctantly put down the book in my hand and slowly began to change clothes.

after half an hour of kicking, bending down and splitting, I have met the ultimate test-splitting against the wall! This pain came out from the bottom of my heart and ran into every pore of my heart. I was so painful that I couldn't speak, and I couldn't even scream. I just wanted to end this devil's moment quickly! But my mother said, "There are still 5 minutes. Hold on, the art troupe is waving to you!"! Do you want to listen to a song to relax? " Her voice is gentle, but I am really in pain! In order to enter the art troupe, I have to grit my teeth and insist, I will endure! I began to take a deep breath, adjust my mood, and asked my mother to play a song for me. Slowly, I didn't feel any pain. I knew I had exceeded the limit of tonight-my legs were numb!

At this moment, my father pushed the door and came in. He smiled and said, "Today is good, and it's been getting longer and longer! Judging from your appearance, it is possible to persist for another 8 or 9 minutes! Didn't you ask me what family style is? This is our family style, eating hard and having perseverance! "

a spring breeze blows in my heart, and occasionally, it turns out that this is also a family style. I did a good job!

that's our family style. what about yours?

the family has its own rules and state-owned laws; No rules, no Fiona Fang. These warning words are the most basic embodiment of education. The quality of social atmosphere and the establishment of family rules are very helpful to the development of the whole society.

family style is subtle. Specifically, starting from small things and giving up your seat to the old, the weak, the sick and the pregnant can be found everywhere. You can always do it from childhood, but there are also examples of bad education that don't give up your seat. As parents, children should be taught from an early age to be kind to others, to value harmony, to be sincere, to do things seriously, not to covet enjoyment, not to compare too much with others, and not to go beyond the boundaries of law and morality. They are often warned to be useful people to society, to care for their parents, to respect their teachers, to unite their classmates, and to stand up and be courageous when people need help. You should be polite when you meet your elders, and you should take the initiative to say hello. When you do something wrong, you should be brave enough to admit it and not lie. If parents know that their children "correct their mistakes", they should also warn them that "a dutiful son is born under the stick", and don't wait until it can't end, so that they can learn the truth that "near Zhu Zhechi, near Mexico is black" from an early age.

In a word, the cultivation of intangible good family style is the transmission of positive energy and the feedback to our own education in the future. We should pass it on from generation to generation, guide and give our children a good traditional education, and don't spoil them too much.

hope to adopt it.