I am Su Yan.

After dinner, my son came back from outside and said that he had a good material for me, and then he told me about his eating mala Tang outside. Diaozui's son ordered spicy mala Tang, but the mala Tang served was sour and sweet. The son was dissatisfied and asked the proprietress. The proprietress is very unhappy: the last bowl is sour and sweet, and this bowl has no sweet and sour seasoning. Do I have to wash the pot once when I make a bowl? In a word, my son was questioned, and he couldn't think of anything wrong at the moment, so he let it be settled by adding some noodles. The proprietress refused, saying that the cost was not enough. Finally, the boss came forward and added noodles.

The son who told this scandal with a smile was emotional. He was very angry that he had met such a woman and lost his words for a while, as if he had caught someone so cheaply. Obviously, it was his fault.

Educate him with a passage just written in another article: If you meet someone who is better than you, you will suffer if you try to be brave. When you meet someone with your strength, you care about wasting time. What's the point of winning when you meet someone who is not as good as you?

Obviously, this woman's pattern is below yours. If you are angry, you are on the same level as her. Instead of being angry, it is better to smile indifferently. If you can eat it, you can eat it. If you can't, you can pay and leave. Then think about it, if this happens to your employees, will it affect your reputation? You might as well take this story as an example and tell it to the employees at the meeting to see how they will deal with this kind of thing.

once, a university asked a family to eat in a restaurant, and a young mother took her daughter to eat at the next table. On the way, the young mother went to the bathroom, and the active daughter fell off the stool and cried. The college counselor quickly helped the girl up and comforted her. Hearing her daughter crying, the woman rushed out of the bathroom, swearing at the university counselor without asking questions, accusing the boss of bullying a child. People around her couldn't listen to it, and they criticized her for a dirty lie, and she just shut up and left.

During the period, the university questioner calmly came back for dinner without arguing a word. The friend was puzzled and asked him why he didn't argue a thing or two. The university counselor smiled a little: instead of defending, it will lead to disputes. It's really unnecessary to waste time on such a trivial matter. We still have to enjoy this delicious meal today. Say, "two people smile at one another, a toast * * * drink, talk more huan.

In life, we meet many different people with different human natures. Some people, influenced by environment, education, pattern, level and other factors, have limited their cognition to a certain point, have no ability to think of others, and only do things for their own interests, which is one-sided and intuitive, and deeply dislikes people. However, he is not convinced and proud of himself.

people who have dealt with it around suffer greatly, and the theory of desire can't be said to be long or short. If he can realize that his behavior is biased, he won't do it. If you can do it calmly, you naturally think that you are right, so you are confident and arrogant. It is exhausting and thankless to compete with such people. Instead of wasting time on these trivial things, we should concentrate on doing something more meaningful.

a person's pattern determines a person's future. Don't argue about trivial matters, treat the people around us as a mirror, and wake up to see if the lights are dark. The same problem exists. If something happens, we might as well put it on ourselves. If we are the parties, how should we deal with the problem more rationally and solve the dispute?

talk.an excellent idea is to jump out of the worldly circle of right and wrong, stop being a right and wrong person, and let others disturb the world one after another, and I will stand still.

In our short life, there are so many interesting things, and there is still leisure time to waste energy and time on trivial matters. With this time, you might as well do more meaningful things. Just like Xu Sanduo said in "Soldiers Assault": We should live well, and live well, that is, we should do meaningful things. The meaningful thing is to live well.

live well and do something meaningful. To do something meaningful is to live well. Encourage you who can read and understand.