It was a very bad experience. I don't know if you have heard of the "cat and dog deism". If your family has cats and dogs at the same time, what would they think? The family I live in is really kind to me. They feed me, let me live in a clean and warm place, caress me and take good care of me ... Well, they must be God! ?

this is the idea of dogs, so they are loyal to their owners. The family I live in is really kind to me. They feed me, let me live in a clean and warm place, caress me and take good care of me ... Am I God? This is the cat's idea, so they regard their master as a shovel officer with contempt.

When projected into real life, people's reactions and thoughts will be different from "cat thinking" and "dog thinking" when they treat others' help and kindness. Your brother probably belongs to a typical "cat thinking". He takes the goodwill from his parents and you for granted, and if he fails to meet his ideal requirements, he will resort to verbal or mental violence. For such people, I only have one suggestion-stay away.

of course, don't show excessive hostility, for your own safety. You can ask your parents to help you with the computer, but it's really no good. Tell him about it a few days before you leave, at least there will be less opportunities for friction and conflict. Even if you can't get it, it's no big deal.

The two types of people in the "cat-dog-god theory" are just a typical label. In fact, most of us can't "repay a drop of water with a gushing spring" or "return evil for good". The interpersonal truth is mostly "give me a peach and return it with a plum". Most of the time, we can still get sincere feedback. Please don't be disappointed in the world. You deserve better.