First, Miss Li herself is afraid of taking responsibility.
In essence, Mr. Li's handling of this matter is completely wrong. Fighting is a trivial matter, but if you teach your child a value that does not distinguish between good and evil, it will have a negative impact on your child's future life. Judging from her age, Miss Li should have been engaged in teaching for many years, so it is by no means the first time that she has encountered a child fighting, injuring or even destroying public property. For her, dealing with this problem is to minimize the impact, so the most generous person to take responsibility is the person who hurts others, joy chen. It has always been the principle of some people to accept resignation. Fighting between children was originally a small problem, and I was afraid of making a big fuss with the parents of injured children. I have criticized joy chen many times and asked Yu Huanshui to compensate for the equipment, but I just hope this matter can be settled as soon as possible. The whole thing, joy chen is really a kind, honest and brave boy, but because he didn't get any harm, the troublemaker became the victim instead, and the real hero was repeatedly reprimanded. Mr. Li's whole handling method only considers his own future development, and never thought about how much psychological shadow these involved children will have under such a handling result. It is wrong to hit people, because no matter what happens, try not to use violence to solve the problem. But as the play says, we can't let what we bravely do become a wrong thing. If Zhang Ziming was bullied at that time, without the protection of joy chen, the school violence in childhood would easily make a person's character introverted, timid and timid. And if the world is really like what Teacher Li said, as long as fighting is wrong, then when it comes to violence, no one dares to come out to help, which is the greatest indifference.
Second, the root of solving contradictions is to let the people concerned really realize their mistakes.
In this incident, joy chen's fault lies in hurting his classmates. In addition, the child's fault lies in bullying classmates and destroying classroom equipment, while Zhang Ziming's fault lies in cowardice and dare not stand up. Putting the blame on joy chen will only encourage the bad atmosphere of bullying classmates in the end. In a sense, the victim does not mean that he is innocent. Sometimes, he may be the perpetrator. A good teacher should make them aware of each other's responsibilities, praise appropriate behaviors and criticize inappropriate behaviors, instead of blindly putting the blame on one person. Such a person is not enough to be called a teacher or a teacher. Ultimately, it is important to preach, establish the correct three views of children, and then influence the code of conduct of children throughout their lives. Teacher Li's approach is too biased. She wanted to solve the problem as soon as possible, so she subjectively chose the person who should be responsible for it. In this case, the injured child needs compensation, and the school equipment also needs compensation. The head teacher must know the family conditions of the children in the class. Zhang Ziming's parents make compensation to appease those parents who are dissatisfied with their children's injuries, and then criticize joy chen for hitting people, and all parties concerned will get satisfactory results. And miss Li herself does not need to bear any responsibility for this matter. I have to say that she is really a shirker and a delicate stakeholder.
Third, satirize reality, small things expose big social problems.
The matter was finally settled because Zhang Ziming's mother chose to settle it privately. Yu Huanshui and Zhang Ziming's mother walked out of the school gate and saw her ex-husband driving a luxury car with a gift behind him. Her ex-husband shook hands with others harmoniously. This will only be a trivial matter between children, and it will directly rise to social reality. In life, there are always some things that words can't solve. In this society, it is easier than pursuing fairness and justice, human relations, intertwined interests, and even making good use of power and money. If the child fights, only joy chen will take part. With Yu Huanshui's temper and family situation, what will happen in the end? Through this irony, it reveals that the essence of society is a human society, and also implies that different classes have different ways to deal with things. There is justice and kindness in joy chen's character, and he can deeply see through the real relationship of family. Living in a family where husband and wife are at odds has a negative impact on his character, but it also affects his chivalry in his bones. After all, not all children have the courage to stand up for their friends, are not afraid of being bullied and are willing to fight for inner justice. For such a teenager, the most cruel thing is to meet an irresponsible and unprofessional teacher like Miss Li. The bondage of dogma and unreasonable reprimand will make this kind boy lose his sense of justice in his bones. Those edges and corners that are opposite to life will be erased in this irony again and again, and eventually everyone will disappear and never dare to stand out again.
The word "responsibility" runs through the whole incident. A teacher does not pursue the real fault of things, confuses the truth, and even puts pressure on parents as a teacher, hoping that things can be solved as soon as possible. For students, her behavior is irresponsible, and for herself, her behavior is sorry for her career and inner morality. Zhang Ziming's family is really rich, but it doesn't cultivate a strong character for children, which has a lot to do with the divorce of husband and wife and the father only using money to help children solve problems. Perhaps, Yu Huanshui was not a successful man in the early stage, but at least in the role of father, he kept the heroic dream of children and the innocence and kindness in Chen Yu's heart, while Zhang Ziming's father was too unqualified.
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