My mother-in-law's love

Open the yellowed photo album, and all the photos in it have happy memories of my childhood. The picture of my grandmother with a pale face and a sickly face, but smiling like a chrysanthemum, brought my thoughts back to the age of seven.

My parents took my seriously ill grandmother to live with us that year. At that time, raw pears were cheap, tender and juicy, which made me fall in love with this fruit at once. Every day when I have time, I will go to the hospital to see my grandmother. As long as I smile at her, my grandmother's pale and ill face will turn into a brilliant chrysanthemum.

Grandma loves me very much. In the eyes of her old man, I am a very clever girl. She often gives me all her delicious food. With the love of my grandmother, I grew up day by day, but my grandmother was aging day by day, like an oil lamp that was about to burn out, and finally I was bedridden. Looking at my healthy grandmother getting weaker and weaker, I feel extremely uncomfortable. Grandma doesn't want to eat anything, but occasionally she mentions my favorite raw pear. My mother bought raw pears for my grandmother in her busy schedule. At that time, it was already the season when raw pears fell into the market, so the price was very expensive. My mother reminded me never to tell my grandmother, or my frugal grandmother would never eat it. In order to prevent my mouth from falling, my mother also bought some for me, and repeatedly took care not to eat grandma's.

One day, my grandmother called me over and took my hand with her bony hand: "Have a pear!" " Looking at the big yellow pear, I swallowed. I can't eat grandma's food: "Grandma, help yourself!" " Grandma smiled: "Today, the doctor said that I have diabetes, so I can't eat anything too sweet. Help me and eat it for my grandmother, so as not to waste it."

Maybe it was my trust in my grandmother, but I couldn't resist the temptation of the pear. I ate it and saw that I was very happy. My grandmother showed a bright smile on her long face.

It wasn't until my grandmother died that I realized that she didn't have diabetes at all. It was just a white lie, but my grandmother wanted me to eat my favorite raw pear.

Now every time I see it, I will think of my grandmother who is far away in heaven, the grandmother who loves me very much. Her pale and wrinkled face will remain in my mind like a brilliant chrysanthemum.

thoughts on reading "heart for heart"

today, I read an interesting book in our home called "heart for heart", which impressed me deeply.

the article "heart for heart" mainly says: "I" was born, and it was unfortunate. I have a congenital heart disease, and the doctor said, "I" will not live beyond twenty years old. At the age of three, my mother died to take care of me. Later, my father married a beautiful stepmother. She also gave birth to a little sister, who can sing many beautiful songs. She has been clever and clever since childhood. And a very delicate face. When I saw her, I became more and more jealous of her and hated her, hating that the world was unfair to me, but my sister never cared about my bad temper, but she was only devoted to being good to me. After several years, "I" actually lived to be nineteen. "I" also came to the end of my life. My sister has just entered the most beautiful years of her life. My sister became the highlight of everyone's pursuit in the ward. Every four o'clock in the afternoon, when she finishes school, there is always someone who cares more about whether she will come today than "I". One day, she was at a nearby intersection and she was run over by a wheel. After careful and hard examination by the doctor, I told my stepmother, "Hope is very small, and the brain injury is very serious. Even if it can be rescued, it is probably a vegetative state or paralysis, but her heart has not been damaged ... "When I woke up, the nurse said to me," Your stepmother saved your life by taking her own daughter's heart and your sister's hope! " When I read this, tears welled up in my eyes. This great mother, this selfless act shocked me, and this selfless brother and sister feeling made me ashamed. I remember that when I was in the first grade, there was a donation ceremony in our community, and many people took out money to help those children who were in trouble. Among them, there is a child who is very poor in her own family, but she also took out 5 yuan money, and my family is better than her, but I still didn't take out a penny. Today, I read the article "heart for heart", which made me feel ashamed. I was reluctant to give up a few dollars, let alone donate blood and give my life for others.

after reading the story of "heart for heart" today, I feel that "sister" and "mother" have the noble quality of selfless dedication. She is like a torch to guide my future life.

Daughter, since the birth of your life, you have always touched your father's heart. Thousands of children are born every day in the world, but you were born in our family. It should be said that we are predestined friends. I am happy because I have a daughter who makes me proud. You are lucky because you have a father who cares for you with all his heart and soul. Our hearts are interlinked, and our destinies are linked.

you are the life flowing in my blood. For you, I will give everything to love and love you at all costs. I spoil you, but I won't spoil you blindly, which will only hurt you. I want you to know how to cherish everyone and everything in your life. In life, we are relatives, but we are friends. You can talk to me freely, just like a bosom friend who talks about everything. We don't have the so-called "generation gap" between the two generations, but only have a friendship on the basis of family ties.

sometimes, I may lose my temper with you, but I want you to know that it's all for your own good. More often, I will have a heart-to-heart talk with you, tell you the truth of life, and talk about being a man. Children, remember: it is easy to do things, but difficult to be a man. How many obstacles do you have to go through in life, but you must be strong and take every step of your life step by step. Son, I may not be the best when you grow up, but I can do better. Do you believe me?

I hope you can live a healthy life. Life lies in exercise! You should consciously stick to exercise and develop good hygiene habits and scientific living habits. You should know that a healthy body is the foundation of survival and the guarantee of achieving the goal of life.

Dear child, I hope you are a down-to-earth person. Don't despise ordinary people, don't be opportunistic, and don't demand what you can't do. Treat people and things around you with a kind heart. We must have a tough perseverance and a spirit of continuous progress and perseverance, and do not bow to difficulties. We should not be arrogant in winning, be indomitable in losing, and have a healthy and peaceful mind. Only in this way can we calmly face the complicated world. You will grow up year by year, and you will gradually meet people who are stronger and better than you. You will find that there are many shortcomings in yourself that you are not aware of, which may make you depressed and feel inferior, but you must face it squarely, don't avoid it, correct it little by little, and overcome the arduous task that yourself is more important than conquering others.

In concrete life, Dad hopes that you will gradually cultivate a sense of responsibility, instead of always thinking about what others should do for you, think about what you can do for others. Do your own thing, and help others. People who have no sense of responsibility can hardly achieve great things, have no real friends, and are even more difficult to be recognized by society. The sense of responsibility is reflected in all aspects of family, school and social life.

You should learn to communicate with people. Communicating with parents will deepen family ties, communicate with teachers will understand things, communicate with classmates will enhance friendship, and communicate with the outside world will better understand society. Good communication can make you get rid of the depression in your heart, and good communication will make you feel the beauty of life.

You should know and cherish your feelings, have a grateful heart, be grateful for the care of your parents, the teaching of your teachers, the friendship of your classmates, and the help of society. Love yourself and others, understand yourself and others. You know, love is selfless. If love asks for a return, it only hopes that you are a sound person, a person who has achieved success in learning, a grateful person and a person who is useful to society. Your healthy growth is the best return to your loving parents, teachers, classmates and society.

Dear child, Dad is very proud of you. Your academic performance has always been very good, which is the result of your efforts, and it also embodies the teaching of parents, teachers and the care of classmates. Dad wants you to be an all-round person, which is not only reflected in excellent academic performance, but also in ideological progress and healthy body. Therefore, my father hopes that you can actively participate in class affairs, participate in various sports activities and be a glorious three-good student while doing a good job in your studies.

The above is what Dad said from the bottom of his heart. Your healthy growth is Dad's endless happiness. Dad will be proud of you!

Reading is fun

As the ancients said, reading is like writing. I know this sentence backwards, and only recently did I really understand its realm.

in the past, although I read a lot of books, my composition was not so good. Maybe it's because it hasn't broken ten thousand volumes yet!

I started reading a lot of books again in the past year, and I learned and chewed every book carefully. Reading green hills and blue sky, I understand the strangeness of nature and the freedom of everything; I read society and life, and I have seen the ugliness, goodness and beauty, struggle and harvest of the world. I was surprised to find that I can read teachers, friends and life through the window of books. I was surprised to find that this world is a big book: strange, wonderful, sad, ugly, beautiful and rich in knowledge. The sour, sweet, bitter and spicy in the world are very real and brilliant. What makes me happier is that my composition level has become higher and higher since then. Although you can't talk about it, you can also speak it out. At home, I look like a scholar, even worse, blowing my parents to squint. On the literary field, I, Bo Gu, talked about the present, and I was praised by teachers and students many times, and became the leader of the school's "top composition". Such a big gain is probably due to "reading thousands of books"! Indeed, reading has brought me great changes and enriched the "ink bottle" in my stomach. It has changed my original "swearing into a chapter" into a "speaking into a chapter".

the book is a mystery; Books are strange, and books are happy; Books are our eternal life! Who doesn't say that the good life now is piled up by books? Why did great men such as Yan Zi in the Spring and Autumn Period and Ji Xiaolan in the Qing Dynasty have extraordinary talents? It's books. It's books that have made their talents and cast the pillars from generation to generation! Then let's "read thousands of books and build a new life"!

clouds, flowers can't be without butterflies, mountains can't be without springs, stones can't be without moss, water can't be without algae, trees can't be without vines, and people can't be without addiction. Another cloud, teenagers reading, such as peeping at the moon in the gap; Reading in middle age is like looking at the moon in the court; Reading in old age is like playing the moon on the stage. All of them are shallow and deep in experience, and they are shallow and deep in income.

reading and writing, for me, should probably be regarded as a kind of "addiction". Is it a addiction? In modern social life, there is a simple measurement method. When you meet a steady and free time, such as festivals and long holidays, if your friends ask you what your plans are, if you are at a loss to answer, and finally say that you don't have any plans, read books and write articles, maybe you are addicted to reading and writing.

most people who study are lonely or bored at first. They just turn to a book and have a casual look. At this time, because there is no distraction, the energy and emotion are completely invested, and reading is quite delicious. The predecessors said that "going to the toilet, beside the pillow and immediately" are the three best scenes for reading, and this is the essence.

But the function of a good book is far more than just entertaining people. Teenagers are ignorant, reading is like peeping at the moon in a gap, and they don't ask for much understanding, but their minds are full of free and magical imagination, and they suddenly can't extricate themselves. When studying in middle age, it is like looking at the moon in the court. The face is like water, but the heart is full of waves. The world is gradually immersed in its own blood and bones, achieving a kind of temperament. The so-called "belly is full of poems." To get old, reading is like playing the moon on the stage, the joys and sorrows of spring, summer, autumn and winter, etc., all of which are just a process, or a kind of reincarnation. People are facing the boundless universe with a limited life, and everything in Dou Yun is indifferent, except listening to the wind and playing the moon on the stage, and it seems that there is no need for it.

Writing is an active gesture. The writing in literature is essentially a performance of heart music. No matter what you remember, express your feelings, elaborate, or argue, what you finally outline is "yourself". The virtue of writing itself is closely related to the life stage of the writer. When I was a child, I often neglected the expression of true feelings, but attacked the use of words and sentences. Of course, the result was that I was not satisfied with it. When I have a little longer life experience, I know that "the article should be made from time to time" and I should boldly express an "I", and the article will begin to have a little style. Further development, the article lost the meaning of grandstanding, and realized that "plainness is the ultimate in splendor", and the lines between the lines were gradually filled with wisdom and calmness, and they were not in a hurry.

It is only now that I agree with a friend that prose is the most difficult to write. The capture of inspiration has made poetry; The construction of grand propositions gave birth to novels. Only prose needs a specific opinion, supplemented by profound writing skills, calm psychological atmosphere, and distinctive writing personality. The success of prose is a realm. Just imagine, how many essays are satisfactory to those who write and write, looking back at their past writings?

reading

the light is still on and cannot be put out. A few bugs surrounded the light. For those bugs, everything that shines brightly is their ideal paradise and their god. Simple worship, so desperate. If I can, I'd like to be a little flying insect and fly to a light source that attracts me the most every night. Play there, pray there, and run to another world there.

From a distant dream to reality, I am still faced with a mountain of materials and exercises. Through tonight, you can escape from the book and return to this world. Roaming in the sea of books, to the extent of disillusionment, can draw thoughts from the book and let the dull brain rest for a while.

I, I don't understand. In this day and age, how can we say that as long as we read good books, we will make a fortune? This idea makes me feel so stupid. Is it certain that you will make a fortune as long as you read a good book? Then people all over the world will study, I believe.

I love my father and my mother, and I don't know if you are really good to me. I said so much, do you understand? I'm not trying to resist anything. I just want you to see my dissatisfaction. Don't just focus on yourself. Do you think everything is right? Are all your thoughts the best? Don't quarrel with each other. It seems that it is the same as the Cultural Revolution. Anyone who doesn't have a plan will be shoveled. Don't you feel tired? I feel so tired, so tired …