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Lao Duan said, I like chatting with old people, listening to their past events and experiences, and some views on life.

There is a grandmother Lu in the old residential area. She is an old man who loves beauty. She always wears clean clothes, and Li Lisuo; The collocation of that suit of clothes, the color takes into account the calm temperament, but also highlights the dignity and propriety, and the posture is suitable, which is not obtrusive at all. He is particularly talkative and physically strong. He is 76 years old and walks in the community every day. Sometimes, Lao Duan will talk to her about things between 61 and 81 years, which is also very interesting.

When it comes to the future and the future, Grandma Lu said, I'm not afraid of death. I'm afraid I'll leave before my husband. We have always had a good relationship and get along very well. He likes reading at home, and I like singing, dancing and making friends outside. For so many years, there has never been any dispute, and he always listens to me when he meets anything.

Xiao Duan, tell you, when I was young, people laughed at my husband for being afraid of his wife and being a hen-pecked wife. He felt very proud, and he came back to tell me that it was a very happy thing to listen to his wife and have a harmonious family. Xiao Duan, look at me. I am also a reasonable person. Of course I won't bully him, right?

I am knowledgeable, but I am a teacher. I can say that he is speechless with rich and informative knowledge. He is no match for me except for his professional knowledge. Of course, I won't get involved in his major, and I'm boring myself. Every time he won, he smiled and said, my wife is still good, so she didn't marry the wrong person.

But my husband is not a stuffy jar. He was very handsome when he was young, and he is very energetic now. Especially at work, it is particularly attractive and can be liked by little girls. When he was forty or fifty years old, he was also confessed by a little girl in his twenties. He was so scared that he came back to tell me and asked me to help him with his advice. It was interesting.

(Grandma Lu's husband is an engineer, and Grandma Lu is a teacher and a retired primary school principal)

Grandma Lu is very confident. She is humble when she sings or dances in the park. However, whenever she needs to stand up and perform, she always shows great pride and self-confidence. Maybe she is not the most skillful one in the group, but she is definitely the most expressive one.

Grandma Lu and her family have a son and a daughter, and now they have all gone abroad.

grandma Lu said that we were supposed to go there together, but we couldn't stand the lifestyle of foreigners, no old friends, no teahouse and no fun. We stayed in Shenzhen, and the children were afraid that we couldn't do a lot of work, and they couldn't be around to be filial, so they invited two nannies to come in rotation, which was not bad. We don't need to cook rice or clean sanitation. At home, all the housework is done by the nanny. My husband's health has not been very good in recent years. Over the years, minor ailments and pains have never stopped. My husband goes to the hospital for a follow-up visit, and the nanny can also help a lot; Now the children are at ease.

When we are older, we will go to a nursing home. I've found it. It's in my hometown of Hangzhou, and there are relatives there to look after. Listen to pingtan, sing a ditty and eat some delicious food, and this life will be almost the same.

When Lao Duan asked about love, Grandma Lu said: We don't want too much wealth in our life, but we just want to do our best in this life. It is the best state to have someone worthy of love and the company of the other person.

The sense of ceremony mentioned by those young people can't be left behind this festival or that anniversary. Actually, in my opinion, year after year, day after day, husband and wife sit at the same table, which is the ceremony of marriage life. This kind of ceremony is the most appropriate and stable.

In recent years, although she has been paying attention to diet and insisting on taking medicine, Grandma Lu found that she was a little overwhelmed, and her husband was getting worse and worse. Frankly speaking, I don't know when, who will leave first, and how can I live if I leave myself or my husband alone? Now, at least we can take care of each other and talk to each other.

grandma Lu said that in old age, people didn't realize that only their partners were the most reliable, and they didn't realize how happy it was to have someone to accompany them for life. When people reach a certain age, they are afraid of getting a serious illness, and they can't handle it themselves, and they have to trouble the younger generation to come and take care of it.

Grandma Lu said that we can only keep ourselves healthy so as not to cause trouble to the children, and their lives can be smoother. We are most afraid of implicating children; Money is saved. As for several houses, I wrote my will early for fear of disputes in the future.

and, Xiao Duan, don't laugh. My husband and I agreed that no matter who goes first, the other person can't find a wife again. I'm afraid this house and money will cause trouble. In the future, my husband and I both left, and the rest of the money from the house and pension was given to the children. No one was biased, and each person was half.

grandma Lu said, live one day at a time, have a happy day, and don't think too much. Good food, good drink and good sleep, well, good!

Lao Duan said that such an old man deserves respect and love.

I hope that all the old people are in good health and have a harmonious family!