Jay Chou lost his temper, and the reason turned out to be that his wife took her children out to play, but she didn't take him!
Not long ago, Hannah Quinlivan took a beautiful picture of a trip with her children. In the photo, Hannah Quinlivan was dressed casually, her daughter was dressed in a blue princess dress, and her son was dressed in a cool black suit. The three of them walked hand in hand on the boulevard covered with fallen leaves. I saw Hannah Quinlivan looking back and smiling, and the camera caught the best moment.
Just as netizens are guessing, is Jay Chou's dad sitting in the mirror in a crouching position or sitting on the ground? As a result, a message from Jay Chou made netizens laugh: "Why do you always go to interesting places when I am working ..."
Jay Chou was a little depressed: Wife, why don't you always take me out to play?
The old mothers were very sad to see Jay Chou's little grievance: What about a good family of three? Why is it always so difficult to make it when it comes to the end?
After "widowed parenting" and "fraudulent parenting", "widowed traveling with baby" is quietly becoming popular among old mothers. Where did dad go? Helpless, or the mother took the baby to walk!
why is it always mom who plans to travel? Why is it always dad who runs away when he gets cold feet? Why does a family of three always become a big headache? The appearance of two girlfriends, I think, tells the true feelings of many families.
"He is too busy to spend time with us. Forget it, my husband can't drag it, or drag the baby away! "
Xiao Hui, a best friend, is a practical mother. Before her daughter went to primary school, she saw her traveling with her baby at two ends every three days. It was far, near, short and long, which really looked enviable.
once I met her, I said, "You're amazing, taking your baby around the world alone!"
Xiaohui smiled helplessly and spread her hands: "It's more difficult to ask her husband to be a driver than to ascend to heaven. I have to go to work during working hours and work overtime after work hours. I also have friends to play football and play games on weekends. Every time I tell him we're going to travel, he's particularly troublesome ... "
Indeed, being bored and tired is the main reason why many dads don't want to go out for a trip. My husband of the pig team often says to me,
" After driving for such a long time, we have to punch in a scenic spot with a group of people, carry a bag, take pictures of you two, and have to wait in line to spend money on a meal ... "
For a family of three, the preparation before going out is enough to drive men crazy, not to mention dealing with all kinds of situations that appear at any time during the trip. Traveling is really something that men don't want to actively participate in.
another best friend, Pepe, whose family is in a different situation: I really feel bad about money because I don't have time.
Pepe's husband is also busy. Other people's holidays are their working days, and they have to take turns on duty from time to time on weekdays. Although you can also take a long vacation, it is really a test to take a long vacation. In addition to properly arranging your own work, you should also coordinate the work of your colleagues, and even more deadly, it is linked to the assessment at the end of the year. Between full attendance and non-full attendance, the income difference is obviously a lot.
Pepe's husband said, "Wife, I am responsible for making money, and you are responsible for showing the baby the world!" "
Pepe said that since she took her baby out for the first time, she gradually got used to the mode that mother and son went out alone. It's also quite good. Every time I see my wife and son go out, the man feels a little guilty. While the mother and son are outside, they will also feel bad about their husbands who make money at home.
men are most afraid of being bound, while women are most afraid of being ignored. If mothers take their children out alone, they can reach mutual understanding, and they will live in peace and be grateful to each other.
"will you take your baby on a trip alone?"
I have asked many mom friends around me this question, but I don't want many of them to calmly answer me:
"If you have the first time, there will be a second time, and you will definitely love the feeling of being close to your child on the journey."
Xiaohui shared with me her first experience of taking her children out.
When her daughter was two years old, Xiaohui took her children out alone for the first time. It is an objective reason that the child's father is busy. In fact, in Xiaohui's heart, she is eager for a few days, and the mother and daughter can get along in the most intimate way. There is only mother in the world of children, and only children are in the sight of mother, and each other has each other in the purest way.
resisting the pressure of her in-laws and bidding farewell to her busy husband, Xiaohui took her children on the bullet train and went to a city hundreds of kilometers away. Xiaohui said that in those few days when she was away from home, she found that the pampered and spoiled child had so many bright spots that she had never found on weekdays.
The child spends a long driving time in a variety of ways. She paints, reads and sings.
Children learn to make friends with friends at the next table, share their toys and snacks.
The child tried to ask the uncle around him for help to help his mother take down the heavy box on the luggage rack.
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It was really tiring to travel alone with the child. The process of the child running to the hospital was even more frustrating for Xiaohui, but when she saw her daughter insisting on waiting for her mother to take a shower and eat the newly bought food together, when she heard her daughter lying in her ear, she said, "Mom, I used to love you so much, but now I love you more. Xiaohui said that everything is worth it.
Many people say that children's childhood memories are all blank in the end, so why bother to take them so far?
Really, it's not cool to take children on a trip alone: you have to prepare a lot before going out, and you have to deal with more on the way. However, even so, there are still many things that you need to face.
then why are we willing to take our children out?
Life makes us so hurried. Only with children can we be willing to slow down and feel well. Although we accompany our children to go out to see the scenery, in fact, it is the children who accompany us to get back to our original mood.
There are also many mothers who have no confidence in themselves, although they are looking forward to it. There is a mother in the group. She said: My activities are limited to taking my children around the community. When I leave the community door, I am worried. How can I take my children alone?
a few travel tips for mothers who need to travel alone with their children.
when the mother takes the child out alone, the child's belongings must be complete.
drugs: cold medicine, gastrointestinal medicine, band-aid, antipyretic plaster, wind oil essence and mosquito repellent. These items are necessary. In case the child has a headache and brain fever, the mother can solve the emergency on the spot.
Clothing category: If children have enough clothes, bring an extra set and put it in the carry-on bag. There are too many accidents when going out, and children's clothes are dirty and wet, all of which happen from time to time.
other categories: carry a small schoolbag for your child, put some snacks, toys and light picture books, and don't forget to bring simple picture books and brushes. These small objects can let children pass the long driving time and adjust their mood during the monotonous driving time.
mothers travel with their children alone, and parent-child self-help tours are more suitable for children's work and rest rules. When children are tired, they can sleep more. When the weather is bad, mothers can adjust their travel strategies at any time, so they don't have to go to scenic spots.
for the first trip with children, the travel time can be considered shorter, about 3 days is appropriate, and the trip is not in a hurry and the time is not too long.
as for the choice of travel destinations, we can consider city tours and seaside tours with mature travel routes. Wait for the children to grow up slowly, and then travel slowly. Don't rush to the scenic spots, just walk one a day.
when it comes to accommodation, try to arrange it near the scenic spot, either early or late. Children are young, and most of them have the habit of taking a nap. The scenic spot is near the accommodation, which can ensure that children have plenty of energy every day.
Being a mother's ability is like beating monsters and upgrading them. Whoever sharpens and grows again and again. Looking back on the road, I suddenly found: originally, I can; It turns out that I can go further! And every moment when those children travel together will be the best memory in our lives!
(Nuoma/post-8s mom, a baby boy, calls herself Nuoma. The world is big and the ideal is small. Read, write, walk the baby, laugh at things outside the window, and write quietly in Chinese. )