From a modern semantic perspective, "full and warm" is a matter between men and women in a narrow sense.

In ancient times, it was not just the superficial meaning.

"Yin" means excessive, which means that after you are full and warm, you start to think about higher and more excessive things.

In fact, from a physiological point of view, it makes sense.

The related feelings that people have are all based on the signals received by the cerebral cortex, and then the feelings triggered are closely related to the secretion of dopamine, the hormone related to sexual desire arousal.

Perhaps, you can also understand it based on what Maslow said: human needs are like a ladder, from low to high, gradually ascending by level, and the most basic, strongest and most obvious need is physiological needs.

By writing like this, I just want to prove that it is right to be full, warm and lustful.

But in fact, there is no need for me to go out of my way to prove a correct proposition in vain. Thousands of years ago, Master Confucius said: Food, color, and nature.

Today’s literary and artistic young people will also say: Food and love are the only things you can’t live up to.

Wannian Youth Hostel sang like this: Who comes from mountains, rivers, lakes and seas, but is limited to day and night, kitchen and love.

What I want to say is that it is suitable for ordinary people to think about lust when they are full and warm, and conversely, it is not a bad idea to think about lust when they are full and warm.

In "One Hundred Years of Solitude", when Rebecca saw Arcadio and wanted to get closer but couldn't, she lost her self-control and began to eat dirt and wall coverings with her previous enthusiasm, sucking her fingers hungrily.

, there were even calluses on my thumbs.

She vomited green liquid mixed with dead leeches.

She lay awake at night, shivering with fever, and struggling with delirium.

Similarly, Glass' "The Tin Drum" describes the abnormal love relationship between his mother and his cousin. After discovering that she was pregnant, she began to eat fish endlessly, and finally died from overeating fish.

Don't rush to refute it. You will say that even magical realism is just a literary work, and how can it exist in reality?

Yes, this exists.

For many people with eating disorders, most of their symptoms are caused by love.

Divorce, falling out of love, being single, being alone for too long, and being empty and lonely can easily lead to eating disorders, either overeating or not eating enough.

One person said: It feels empty, with nothing to fill it, as if only food can... No matter what, it is too extreme, because a person who is full of emotions will make up for the empty heart in a tortuous way.

, instead of food.

And behind those disordered appetites, there is always a poor person.

And the reason why it is pitiful is that hidden in the out-of-control diet is a deeper helplessness, unrelieved fear, incomprehensible loneliness, never-satisfied emptiness, and lack of love and sex.

Food writer Cai Yao wants to say: Eating can cure all unpleasantness.

Every article in her "Only when you are full can you have the strength to fall in love" is related to food, but also love, which is very small, very certain, and very happy.

Diet for men and women requires both men and women, as well as food.

Perhaps love can only last when the romantic romance fades and a table of delicacies consisting of firewood, rice, oil and salt is presented.

Fireworks make love last forever, and food continuously generates power.

As the fragrance fills the air, forget about innocence and metaphysics for the time being, and look at the person opposite you with concentration and affection. At this point, the dust and bone and blood have turned into fine wine, and the richness and poetry have also penetrated into time.