This year's workplace drama has exploded, and the writers are trying their best to teach you to be a workplace person. From the dilemma of just entering the workplace to the tricks of the old hand in the workplace, I tell you that the workplace is like a battlefield, so don't mess around.

However, when you peel off the layers of decorations that wrap the topic of the workplace, all that remains is similar and serious and boring.

Finally, another drama, My First Half Life, which was watched by everyone, gave us a slightly sexy topic in the workplace. This topic, of course, is not a minor problem that makes keyboard players angry, but a lifelong happiness problem of all single dog in the workplace-whether to talk about office romance or not.

People are emotional animals. When we were young, the people we had the longest contact with were classmates, so when we were young, our partners were usually born from classmates. After growing up, this circle of birth partners seems to have changed from classmates to colleagues. Although everyone knows the truth, after entering the workplace, colleagues become the people who have been with us for the longest time. Even if we start to despise each other, over time, even the worst dates feel sweet.

But when I really entered the workplace, I found that the workplace circle was much more complicated than the classmate circle. Falling in love in the office is no longer a matter for two people, but a matter for the whole company.

So, let's put aside the influence of mistress, and take a serious look at several couples' office romances in My First Half of Life. The screenwriter wants to tell you in all directions: forget it about office love.

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The boss said: It's not that I don't trust you. I don't trust your dopamine.

As for the boss, he doesn't care whether you are in love or not, and who you are in love with. What the boss cares about is not to affect your work.

but falling in love in a space, if it doesn't affect efficiency, it means that we don't like each other deeply enough.

It is said that when you are in love, everything about your partner will be magnified countless times. Imagine that your side is designed to be high, and a man (woman) walks by you in a hurry, and you are suddenly immersed in the air full of his (her) flavor. After you come to your senses, you have forgotten what that wonderful idea was just now. Regret.

In the play, Lolo, a young girl, falls in love with her boss, Lao Zhuo. Although the age difference is quite wide, Lolo still hopes to stage a gourmet version of The Killer is Not Too Cold with her boss. During my work, I stared at Lao Zhuo when I had nothing to do, and even forgot to serve. What Lao Zhuo said to her at most was: "It's none of your business. Go to work."

You see, falling in love has already affected your work. If you really take down the boss, it is estimated that this Japanese restaurant will become a Shanghai restaurant, which is so sweet to customers.

2 single dog's colleague said: This is a workplace, not a dog slaughterhouse ...

The office romance also affects single dog colleagues in those companies. Single dog people are innocent, and they are abused at work, which affects their mood and work.

In the play, He Han and Tang Jing, two old fairies in the workplace, are a pair of good dogs. Their way is very civilized. For two people with high intelligence, dog abuse is a business crush. The so-called men and women are not tired of working together, and their opponents can only recognize it.

In TV series, the civilized way of dog abuse has not caused substantial harm to colleagues. On the contrary, in reality, some true feelings of office couples can always make a group of people sick.

When you are in love, you always want to see what the other person is doing, hold the other person's hand and chat if there is anything, and so on. However, when putting these "eighteen martial arts" commonly used in love into a serious workplace, have you ever thought about your colleague Xiao Zhang who is sitting on the side trying to concentrate?

He was trying to figure out how to write this code here.

A sentence floated on the left: "Baby, what shall we have for lunch?"

"Baby, I bought you the bag you said yesterday."

"Baby, let's go to XX to play with water on Sunday."

"Baby"

"Baby"

Do you think Xiao Zhang finally wrote that line of code?

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Lovers themselves: They all discriminate against me

Talking about office romance is actually the lover himself who is most hurt. The experience of Chen Junsheng and Lingling perfectly explains this sentence.

People who gossip after a meal

like gossip best, and love is undoubtedly the most popular chapter. Talking about office romance is just like hitting a gun, and it spreads at an unimaginable speed.

In the play, the whole company, even the neighboring enterprises upstairs and downstairs, are discussing this matter before the two things are revealed. Even a busybody interviewed the parties in person.

If the status and rank of the two lovers are similar, the gossip content may not be too much. But once your identity and rank are very different, rumors about family background, identity, status and other content will be very unconstrained.

Although some spices have been added to everyone's boring and complicated workplace life, who knows the feeling of being seriously injured by rumors.

promotion and salary increase are investigated

If your lover is a leader, then being questioned will accompany you from now on.

Just like Lingling, because of her relationship with Chen Junsheng, she was suspected that the speed of salary increase and promotion was faster than others. Chen Junsheng went to HR to argue that his ability was obvious to all, and it was normal for him to get a promotion and raise his salary faster than others. HR said that he was helpless.

this is embarrassing. This kind of thing is difficult to judge, but because office romance should be avoided, it will be judged to be problematic.

Being treated strictly can be the fate of office romancers, who feel countless "monitors" around them every day. These terrible "monitors" not only stare at your work, but also link it with the leader's love as long as you get a promotion, a salary increase, an annual leave, or a little specialization, and pack it up and send it to the boss to report it.

So, this seemingly cheap behavior actually makes you farther and farther away from the promotion and salary increase.

You may have seen countless successful cases of office romance on the Internet and in magazines. Murdoch, Wendi Deng, Bill Gates and his wife Melinda, Gao Yuanyuan and Mark Chao ..................................................................................................................................

so, be obedient. Although love is innocent, but put on the love under the cloak of the workplace, let's take 36 measures as the best.