When we eat together, there are always some taciturn people around us, not pretending to be deep, but sometimes they are thinking about problems. My colleague is such a person. Whenever he eats, he seldom talks, and so does life. Moreover, speaking on the wine table is polite and gives people a very comfortable feeling. This colleague is an activist by nature and likes to prove himself with practical actions instead of so-called rhetoric.
Of course, joking on the wine table is also a form of entertainment, and it is harmless. It's just that people who don't like to talk prefer another way, and they usually do the same when they attend wine fairs. I was not used to it at first, but as time went on, I got used to it. I know my colleagues very well. Although he is quiet, he always wins the house when he speaks. This is their charm.
Their life creed is: if you talk too much, you will lose. If you talk less, you can save a lot of trouble. Even at dinner, in life, such people don't ask the process, just ask the result. Let's give a very simple example. Suppose someone is in the hospital. From a normal point of view, we will definitely say hello when we call, but quiet people usually come straight to the point and ask the address of the hospital directly. These are two different ways of expression, but also highlight the character.
Obviously quiet and quiet people, they will not be polite and greet, but will directly point out the cause of the problem. Even sometimes, leaders feel humiliated, but such people who tell the truth are also deeply liked by leaders. Especially at work, quiet and quiet people will never kiss up. And some polite words on the wine table are just out of courtesy, otherwise they won't say it. These are their personalities.
If the taciturn people suddenly talk more during the dinner, then this time, it must be about business. Otherwise, they will still keep the original state. Of course, everyone's living habits are different, so their performance at dinner will be different. Whether it is quiet and quiet, or? Lulu? Everyone has his own way of life. It's just that people who rarely talk give people a feeling of being inaccessible and not easily seen through.
Of course, this is closely related to their own personality. Usually, these people are reticent and don't like to express their opinions directly, but if they are really needed, they will stand up. However, in the dinner, they will be more introverted, know how to respect each other and know the sense of distance. This is the charm of being still. They will be down-to-earth and belong to the down-to-earth type, and they will always save face for each other.