There are three days to go before our second wedding anniversary, which is also our seventh year together.

I always thought I was a lucky girl, otherwise I wouldn't have met you at the age of 19.

Many people are curious about our meeting, and I just simply say "We fell in love at first sight".

when I saw your first face, I felt warm and familiar. At that time, I was silly, unaware of the suffering behind the upcoming three-year long-distance relationship.

on the 1th day I met you, I went back to school. Before I left, I sent you a bowl of hot porridge before you went to work, and then I received your phone call at the airport, without words, only crying in a low voice. It was the first time I heard a boy cry. I don't remember how to comfort you, but I just wanted to hang up the phone and turn around and rush back.

from now on, you are in the north and I am in the south. There is no WeChat, no video, only paid SMS and voice. The short message that wakes you up every morning has become my biological clock, and a "good night" before going to bed every night has become a necessity to comfort each other.

I still remember what you said, "If you leave me one day, I really have nothing."

Our feelings have never been valued by the people around us. According to them, we belong to two worlds and can't be together.

We all fantasize about what he/she will be like in the future, and we won't know what love is until we really meet that person.

naturally, our parents don't agree with us. One works in the north and the other goes to school in the south. Anyone would find it hard to stick to it. But at that time, we seemed to have only one goal. You work hard and I study hard. After I graduate, we can be together.

maybe because the goals are the same, the heart is pure. I don't think, I just want to grow old with my son.

after I graduated, you came to my city. We live in a 2-square-meter small room in a village in the city. You will plant flowers and plants all over the balcony. Remember that there is a pot of osmanthus. When it comes to the flower season, the house is full of fragrance. For a while, because I had a bad stomach, you would be kind enough to get up early every day to make lunch for me in advance and put it in a lunch box for me to take to the company.

it was during that time that we had an argument. You were so angry that you went straight to the balcony without saying a word, and I was alone in the quilt and secretly crying. Even so, the next day you will cook for me as if nothing had happened and put it in my bag.

Later, we came to a seaside town in the north from the south. Parents see that there is no hope of dissuading them, and it is meaningless to break them up again, so they will give up. In the fifth year with you, we got a marriage certificate.

Speaking of it, from proposing marriage, to getting married, to honeymoon, it is not planned in advance.

Maybe because I think the proposal is more personal, you haven't made much moves in public, and it seems that you proposed in our first year together, which really surprised me. After waiting for me for four or five years, no wonder you said, "Without me, I would have nothing".

It also happened that we were both free that day. It seems that it was a Monday, and you took me back to my hometown for 2 minutes, from registration to taking photos to getting the license, and you didn't seem to be too excited. Are we used to each other's existence in our own lives for a long time, so even the matter of obtaining a certificate is so big?

what about getting married? The client looked at the date and decided to take a wedding photo one month later. I also ordered the wedding ring from Tmall. There are no diamonds, just a simple ring.

We didn't have a banquet, only a banquet with our family. Just having dinner with our family, we went to three places before and after. When I was busy with my work, it took only three days to get married and I went straight back to work.

what about the honeymoon? I didn't make it up until after the new year.

** Can you be happy if you are so careless?

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** happiness.

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I still feel that way. Because of many factors, our wedding is simple, but our days are not simple.

You will still plant flowers and plants everywhere in your home, and your relatives and friends will stay on the balcony every time they come to visit, thinking that our home is a big garden.

since last year, I have made love to you for breakfast every day, and I have persisted for more than 2 days in one breath. Every comment below my circle of friends will shout "dog abuse".

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When chatting with friends, they will say, "I really envy your husband, who has a delicious breakfast every day."

I said, "Why don't you envy me? People still cook dinner for me every day, isn't it the same?"

Another friend asked me, "Why do you feel that you are still in love?"

we don't have the same background, but we have endless topics. I will communicate with him on everything from home to work.

There is no sense of distance, mutual understanding and trust, no itch for seven years, and every year is like being in love.

however, we are sometimes confused.

after marriage, two major events happened. For 15 years, I had a miscarriage for various reasons, which was a great blow to you who wanted to have children very much. You didn't say anything and took care of me with all your heart. But during that time, you would go out for a walk every night. I know you are going for fun and don't want to look sad and lost in front of me.

After recovery, we started quarreling because of a topic. You said that your heart hurts when you see a child now, and I couldn't say a word of comfort. A few days later, suddenly one day you said to me, "Let's forget this matter and continue to live our little life."

Another thing is that my mother was seriously ill at the beginning of this year. While comforting me, you bought a plane ticket and flew with me to the hospital the next day.

these two things, like two thorns, stuck in our hearts, but still accompanied each other. Thank you for never leaving me.

In the real society full of material things, we don't keep up with the joneses like most people.

** We just try our best to live our own lives, take care of each other and manage our marriage well.

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** Maybe what I expected at the beginning was not material, so in these seven years, you will continue to surprise me.

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You don't know much about romance. Every birthday and anniversary, I encourage you or attack by innuendo to buy me a gift.

Last Sunday was 52. I thought the breakfast at 52 should be full of love the night before, and I finally set the breakfast. Before I could send a circle of friends, I received your WeChat, a big red envelope that said, "Wife, I love you!"

We are all lucky. We met each other at the best age, bound by affection and accompanied by love.

I would like to dedicate this article to our 7 years.

I love you, too.

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