When it comes to patriotism, Lu You is the most talented person who cannot be ignored in the history of Chinese literature, but for such a great poet, he is a "villain"! As a public figure, Lu You is also well-known. In other words, he can be regarded as a writer with both virtue and skill. But for such a great poet, his words are like celebrities posting delicious food on Weibo, which is not useful. This is what he said to his woman Tang Wan in his life. And mothers who have given birth to children often use deception. Throughout his life, Lu You has written "blank checks" to the two women who are most important to him. As the saying goes, "How can you sweep the world if you don't sweep one house?" How can a person who has not even cleaned himself up talk about important matters for the country and the family?

Let’s talk about our great “little man”!

In Lu You's life, there are two marriages recorded in history. In today's society, he is a second-marriage person who has received two certificates. In ancient times, based on the marriage of the Ming matchmaker, divorce was completed with a "divorce" document! If it were now, you would have to get a divorce certificate before I can safely give you a marriage certificate. The law is very strict. In ancient times, three wives and four concubines were considered bigamy now. According to unofficial records, Lu You also had a beautiful woman from Sichuan as his concubine! Look, she is already in her sixties, in her sixties, and yet this little girl has fallen in love with an old man who is similar to her father. This seems unbelievable in today’s enlightened society. I don’t know how the society back then understood it and thought it was a “talented man and a beautiful woman”!

I believe that Lu You is true to Tang Wan. If you say that he is unfaithful to Tang Wan, I agree with both hands. The song "The Hairpin-headed Phoenix" won the hearts of the world and also took away the soul of the talented Tang Wan. In 1144 AD, a talented man married a beautiful woman. Now in our twenties, we are studying in college and falling in love at the same time. It's not very beautiful either. Of course, single people can only stand aside. The two of them are so sweet after their marriage, and they really don't want to give in to each other every day. Just let it go, I can't help but keep doing it year after year! After three years of this, in the end, even my mother-in-law, my mother, couldn't stand it anymore.

It should be noted here that Lu You's mother's surname is also Tang, and Tang Wan is her niece. He said, "Ahem, son, how can you not have the ambition to indulge in women's sex?" The original concept was very hurtful, "There are three types of unfilial piety, and the worst is not having children." It happened that Tang Wan had nothing to do in the past few years, that is Said she didn't even have a child. In modern times, if you don’t have any skills, it will be difficult to survive. In ancient times, what good was a woman without a child? It is equivalent to saying that women at that time were just child-bearing machines! Lu You was also Mother Lu's proudest son at the time, so when she saw her son acting like this, she said: "If you still recognize me as your mother, you will divorce this woman!" What? Before your son was allowed to marry, she was just a young lady. Now she has been married to your Lu family for three years. Why don't you want her? It's so unreasonable. At this time, Lu You was definitely a filial son, but Tang Wan was his confidante, and he was reluctant to let go! So Lu You told Tang Wan, "I will never abandon you, but my mother pushed me too hard, so let's have a fake divorce first, and then I'll find a place for you to live first. I'll come see you as long as I have time!" Tang Wan believed it at that time. Then there is Mother Lu, "Mom, I have divorced Tang Wan, don't worry!" She learned from Emperor Wu of the Han Dynasty and built a "love nest" with Tang Wan, but after all, "paper cannot contain the fire."

Mother Lu found out! Can you imagine what it would be like if your mother found out about your puppy love when you were a student? If force doesn't work, start crying! "Is it easy for me to give birth to you and raise you? Now that you are rebelling against me for an outsider, are you worthy of your father lying in bed? Are you worthy of me?" According to historical records, Lu You's father died in 1148 AD, and Lu You Tang Wan divorced less than a year ago, and Lu Zai was a bibliophile. Think about it, how tiring it would be for him to spend all his mental, manpower, and material resources searching for books every day. So I think I must have spent my later years in bed. Now, Lu You compromised, "Hui Xian'er (Tang Wan), I'm sorry, my original alliance can only be given to you in the next life!" This is not nonsense, if you can find me in the next life. ? Even if you find it, I, Tang Wan, will still be the original Tang Wan. Do you think you will still be the original Lu You after six reincarnations? So, it’s better not to say such unreasonable things! If there is music, there should be a song for Tang Wan called "Falling in Love with Someone Who Never Goes Home": "Falling in love with someone who never comes home, waiting for a door that does not open, fickle eyes, tight lips, Why bother to ask and ask questions again?"

Lu and Tang finally separated. In order to make Tang Wan give up, Lu's mother asked her son to marry the Wang family again. As mentioned before, Lu You's mother is Tang Wan's aunt, but this does not change the fact that they are divorced. Lu You's maternal uncle, Tang Wan's father, is also not happy. My daughter is so outstanding, but she was sent back by you? Not to be outdone, he found someone for Tang Wan, namely Zhao Shicheng (a descendant of the royal family at that time). It’s worth earning enough face! What a pity, everything is in vain.