Recently, Zhu Lingling, the mother-in-law of Guo Jingjing, the "diving queen", was invited to attend the meeting of Hong Kong Sister's election judges in 221, dressed in black and white skirt.

Zhu Lingling was born as a "Hong Kong elder sister", and then briefly set foot in the entertainment circle. Because of her legendary experience of marrying into a rich family twice, she is still a hot figure in the media.

Although most of the actresses who married into the rich and powerful families ended in misery, there are many outstanding ones who can achieve three harvests of career, family and love with their unremitting efforts, and Zhu Lingling is one of them.

Throughout her life experience, although she is always in the spotlight, every decision is extremely free and easy, and she doesn't care about outsiders' opinions at all, which naturally requires great courage and wisdom.

When other actresses try to live a rich and luxurious life, they do not hesitate to compromise and even lose themselves. How can Zhu Lingling marry two giants and become a winner in life?

First, a daughter of the Zhujiajian family grew up

Zhu Lingling spent his childhood in Myanmar, where the Zhujiajian family was engaged in timber business, and it was not until Zhu Lingling was 9 years old that his family moved to Hong Kong.

Zhu Lingling, a talented person, quickly adapted to the life in Hong Kong, and at the same time showed a high language talent. She soon became a talented woman who mastered Cantonese, English and Burmese, and successfully entered King George V School to study for college preparatory classes, adding a little talent to her natural beauty.

If nothing happens, Zhu Lingling will be admitted to a university, choose his favorite photography major and embark on a completely different life path, but his fate is often so unpredictable.

In 1977, Zhu Lingling learned that the "Miss Hong Kong Beauty Contest" was being held, and she entered the contest on a whim.

I never thought that Zhu Lingling, with her charming beauty and unique temperament, would win the "Most Photographed Miss" and the overall championship, become the first double champion in the history of Miss Hong Kong, and be crowned "Sister Hong Kong" with applause and flowers.

There was no difference in popularity for a while. Not only ordinary men regarded her as their dream lover, but even the rich and famous people in Hong Kong were no exception.

Danny Chan, an idol singer who was very popular at that time, had been kind to Zhu Lingling, but he had to quit silently because of too many suitors.

Among the suitors mentioned by Danny Chan are two men who have been entangled with Zhu Lingling all their lives in the future, namely Huo Zhenting, son of Henry Fok, and Luo Kangrui, founder of Shui On Group.

As soon as the award ceremony was over, Huo Zhenting immediately launched an offensive, immediately sent exquisite flowers to express his love, and later praised his charming demeanor and was worthy of being the champion of Hong Kong Sister.

Zhu Lingling, who is still wet behind the ears, is helpless in the face of the pursuit of a rich boy, and after a while, the two of them gradually get to know each other.

Luo Kangrui, on the other hand, sees everything in his eyes, but at this time, his fame and strength are far less than that of Huo Zhenting, so he has to secretly hide the seeds of his feelings in his heart, hoping for another chance to bloom in the future.

Second, step into the giants

In April 1978, Zhu Lingling, as a newcomer in the entertainment circle, participated in the filming of the TV series "Mary Off July 7th", and the crew specially held a press conference for her. After learning this news in the newspaper, Huo Zhenting specially drove to Zhu Lingling's downstairs to pick her up and go to the press conference.

Under a flash of light, the two men slowly got off the luxury car, which surprised the reporters around them, and Huo Zhenting seemed to want to announce this fact through the reporter's mouth, so he faced the camera calmly and did not shy away.

Zhu Lingling's mother was worried after learning that her daughter was in love with a Hong Kong tycoon.

Although the Zhujiajian family is not rich and expensive, they are well fed and clothed. The old couple don't want to have the reputation of climbing the dragon and attaching the phoenix. Therefore, they advised Zhu Lingling to be careful of such a rich boy, so as to avoid being deceived and being played with feelings in vain.

But at this time, Zhu Lingling had already been carried away by love and began to look forward to a happy life in the future. Under her arrangement, mother Zhu and Huo Zhenting met.

In the face of serious questions from the old man, Huo Zhenting vowed that he would give Zhu Lingling happiness. His actions were finally recognized by Zhu's mother, and he never stopped his relationship with Zhu Lingling.

On September 25th, 1978, after nine months of love, they ushered in the highlight moment of their wedding. The Huo family spent a lot of money on this wedding, putting on 36 tables of banquets. All the celebrities from all walks of life in Hong Kong were present, almost comparable to the royal wedding, and immediately grabbed the front pages of major media in Hong Kong. Zhu Lingling smiled like a flower in the crowd, immersed in the ocean of love.

But at this time, she hasn't realized that all the gains and losses in this world have already been fixed. What you choose must be borne, and what you get will be lost accordingly.

Third, I am tired of socializing all my life.

After marriage, Zhu Lingling began to live a luxurious life. Not long after, Huo Qigang, the third generation eldest grandson of Huo family, was born. As the saying goes, the mother depends on the child, and Zhu Lingling's status in Huo family has become increasingly stable.

As a father-in-law, Henry Fok is also very fond of Zhu Lingling. Whenever he comes to the mainland to meet leaders, Henry Fok will come forward with his son and daughter-in-law, and Zhu Lingling, who is outstanding in temperament and natural and graceful, really adds a lot of color to the Huo family.

In 1986, when Queen Elizabeth II visited China, Henry Fok and the Queen met in Guangzhou, accompanied by Timothy Fok and Zhu Lingling. With the recognition of Henry fok, Zhu Lingling's position in her family is unshakable.

Fok Ying-tung thinks highly of Zhu Lingling. In an interview, Fok Ying-tung told the reason why Fok Zhen-ting married Zhu Lingling.

At that time, the Huo family was running around for sports membership, but the eldest son, Huo Zhenting, was not well-known, so marrying a "Hong Kong sister" was helpful to carry out sports diplomacy.

And things developed just as Fok Ying-tung expected. After their marriage, Fok Chen-ting's career went smoothly, and he was successfully elected as a member of the Olympic Council of Asia in 1989, which made great contributions to Beijing's successful bid for the Olympic Games in the future.

But at this time, Zhu Lingling is getting tired of this kind of entertainment. Although she has no worries about food and clothing on weekdays and attends high-end places every day, Zhu Lingling still feels that this kind of life is not what she wants.

She thinks of herself. She likes photography, dancing, traveling and badminton ... but she doesn't like communication. She also wants to have her own career, hoping to become an independent woman in a new era, not just a vase around men.

But in the Huo family, she can't do all this.

Fourth, strict family rules tie the knot

In 1991, Zhu Lingling took the opportunity to accompany her son to study in the UK and secretly opened a jewelry store in the UK. Although the clue of the store has not been clarified, the joy of taking the first step still excites her, but a phone call from Huo Zhenting completely poured cold water on her.

It turned out that women were forbidden to go out to do business in the family rules of the Huo family. Although Zhu Lingling was wronged, she had no choice but to hand over the store to her sister.

After this incident, Zhu Lingling gradually realized his reality, gave up his illusions about his career, and focused on caring for his husband and educating his children. Unfortunately, the tree wants to be quiet, but the wind does not stop.

In 2, Huo Zhenting, who had been busy socializing for a long time, was reported to have an affair with a female host in the Mainland. Zhu Lingling angrily confronted Huo Zhenting, but Huo Zhenting replied lightly: "Men, this kind of thing is inevitable."

Zhu Lingling collapsed. She couldn't think of the man who cared for her at the beginning and regarded her as a treasure. Now he has done such a thing behind her back. Zhu Lingling moved out of Huo's house with his youngest son in a rage. This time it became a hot event in Hong Kong, and the whole city talked about it.

Seeing that things were getting worse, Henry Fok had to personally persuade Zhu Lingling, hoping that she would consider the overall situation and not affect his career.

At last, Zhu Lingling couldn't bear it anymore. The emotion he had suppressed for more than 2 years broke out at this moment. After a big fight, Zhu Lingling completely moved out of the Huo family.

In September, 25, Huo Zhenting and Zhu Lingling signed a divorce agreement, which ended the 27-year marriage.

after the divorce, Zhu Lingling gave up the division of property to avoid attracting media attention because of the struggle for property, and tried his best to save the face of the Huo family at the last minute. Therefore, even though Zhu Lingling had left the Huo family, he was still respected by the Huo family.

When Henry Fok died in 26, Zhu Lingling specially saw off his former father-in-law, dressed in black to accompany his family, and still looked like the hostess of the family.

After the divorce, Zhu Lingling was free from the restrictions of rules, and finally she could do whatever she wanted. She resumed her hobbies in her youth and took photography and charity activities as her career. Luo Kangrui was very supportive of this and specially held a photography exhibition for her.

Zhu Lingling once again feels spoiled, and her relationship with Luo Kangrui is no longer secretive. They often go shopping arm in arm and attend activities together.

Six, get married again

In 28, Zhu Lingling and Luo Kangrui, who had been secretly in love for eight years, decided to get married. Luo Kangrui wanted to hold the wedding in Shanghai or Hong Kong, but Zhu Lingling planned to keep a low profile in order to protect the face of the Huo family, so he set the venue in Singapore. At the same time, in order to avoid the interference of the media, they only invited a few relatives and friends to attend.

After a lapse of 3 years, Zhu Lingling married into a rich family again. Different from the first time, Zhu Lingling was not carried away by love this time. She clearly knew what she wanted.

it's not money or fame, but someone who can really care for and support her.

I'm afraid Luo Kangrui's mind is also full of thoughts. Recalling the beauty contest 3 years ago, a young and beautiful figure on the stage instantly captured his heart, but the barrier of reality could not bring them closer. He could only choose to accompany her as a friend.

But I didn't expect that the pointer of fate turned to him again after more than 2 years, and he finally had a chance to marry the goddess in his heart.

Just like the song "Red Rose" says, "What you can't get is always in turmoil, and those who are favored have nothing to hide ..." Luo Kangrui is willing to pay any price for the "Bai Yueguang" in his heart.

On their wedding day, Luo Kangrui declared Zhu Lingling's wife status to the Hong Kong Stock Exchange, which was equivalent to giving Zhu Lingling half of his property. It is said that Luo Kangrui's net worth was as high as 16 billion at that time, which shows his deep affection for Zhu Lingling.

VII. Husband and wife love each other and everyone admires them

After marriage, Luo Kangrui is very tolerant of Zhu Lingling's career, accepting all her preferences and ideals, and often takes time out to go shopping with Zhu Lingling, or enjoy the photos she shared, or listen to the public welfare stories she met. In short, Luo Kangrui can satisfy all the things that Huo Zhenting can't do.

Although Zhu Lingling dresses elegantly when attending activities, her private life is simple and frugal, and she often visits discount stores. However, Huo Zhenting never goes shopping with her because of her face, but Luo Kangrui doesn't care. She often goes shopping arm in arm while chatting.

Zhu Lingling doesn't like frequenting high-end restaurants, and she also wants to eat some special snacks. She once asked people where the snacks are better, and then suggested to Huo Zhenting that they try them together, but Huo Zhenting always turned a deaf ear to this, but unlike Luo Kangrui, he was able to put down his status for Zhu Lingling and enjoy the food at the food stall with her.

As can be seen from the photos, after remarriage, Zhu Lingling smiles more and exudes happiness all the time. And such a beautiful life is indeed worthy of the envy of all people.

Conclusion

As a legendary woman with two wealthy families, Zhu Lingling explained a simple truth all her life-women should live for themselves at all times.

But it's not easy to do this. It requires enough wisdom, ability, emotional intelligence and courage, all of which are indispensable.

From Zhu Lingling's experience, we can see that she is very decisive. In the face of a loveless marriage, she did not wronged herself for the sake of her present wealth, but boldly separated herself from her past and bravely took the first step.

At the same time, she can continue to maintain a good relationship with the Huo family, avoiding secondary injuries to both sides, which is enough to show her wisdom and emotional intelligence, which is why she can still be respected by the Huo family after divorce.

Moreover, she can choose to marry Luo Kangrui when her career develops smoothly, which not only frees her from the reputation of being attached to men, but also establishes her position in this marriage.

As she said in an interview, "Happiness depends on yourself."

being alive, I am most afraid of being confused. As a woman, we should know our own direction clearly. Only by maintaining our love and independence for life can we protect ourselves best.