My friend Yang Zai told me that he was forced to kiss several times at home recently, but he didn't know what to say when he met the girl. When the girl asked a question, he replied. When the girl asked two people, she began to be silent, and finally the girl left directly. Such a blind date will definitely not succeed. My friend belongs to the kind of person who is shy and honest, and he doesn't know anything about teasing his sister, so he came to me. I hope I can help him with a few tricks. I summarized the following.
1. Know yourself and know yourself
2. Eat, drink and be merry
Nowadays, most girls are foodies, and boys are no exception. You can spend a few days sorting out the food in your city first, so that when you meet for the first time, you can ask the girl what kind of food she likes. For example, if the girl says that she likes Shandong cuisine, you can say that I know a restaurant called xxx, and their Shandong cuisine is very delicious. The best dish is xxx. At this time, you may get two kinds of responses. One is that I have eaten at their home, and it is really delicious, so you can say that it is better to try it again tonight. The second one is true, I haven't been there yet/I really want to try it. At this time, you can say, "I wonder if I have the honor to invite you to this place for dinner." No matter what kind of response, we all get the result we want, that is, continue to increase our emotions.
Of course, as this subtitle says, you can use the same routine to eat, drink and be merry, especially to drink. Don't you notice that now my young sister is holding a cup of milk tea in her hand, so find a quiet place to have a cup of milk tea and eat some snacks in the afternoon, and the girl's weight and affection for you are going up. Here I remind all male friends that you must consult the girl's opinion first when ordering, and don't go straight to the man's cancer to make your own decisions.
Third, be cautious
Don't think about having a meal or two and drinking a cup of milk tea to confirm your relationship, and don't think that once you confirm your relationship, you can go straight to the hotel to unlock your new posture. You should hold the idea of looking for a life partner instead of looking for a sex friend. If it is the latter, you might as well go directly to the big health care, save money and don't bother. We should have the minimum patience to treat love. I have never seen a girlfriend in love for three years. I have also seen people who went out to check in on the first day of confession. I can't evaluate which of these two is good or bad. I just hope that friends who are still pursuing the road of love don't worry. In addition, being anxious can't help you solve any problems, it will only make your things worse and worse. What belongs to you will belong to you sooner or later.
These are the three suggestions I gave my friends. Of course, everything must be based on the premise that both parties will not leave directly at the first sight of each other. On the basis that a few routines are mixed with most sincerity, you can't be all routines, otherwise you will only trap yourself.
I'm a tree hole in summer. I welcome you to make any good suggestions in the comments, and also welcome you to share the topic that you and your current partner met for the first time in the comments area. See you another day.
, do you think it¡¯s reliable?
For example, Yue Fei, Lu You and the like?
Please tell me.