I agree with the writer Han Han:
"How far a person can go depends on who he travels with; How good a person is depends on who gives him advice; How successful a person is depends on who he is with. "
Don't underestimate the power of osmosis and hearing. It is in this power that people are slowly shaped.
Being with someone is really important.
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Learn from the master the way to see the world.
Everyone has a different perspective on the world and everything.
Some people look straight ahead, but they are easily blocked by the entanglements and troubles in front of them.
Some people look up, but stand in their own happiness to find happiness.
The reason why the master can "not be afraid of clouds to cover his eyes" is because "he is only at the highest level."
They are well-informed, well-informed, good at seeing problems from different angles, and their horizons are naturally broad. See far and think deep in anger.
More contact with high-level people is to see a broader and more transparent world through their eyes, get their guidance, and learn their long-term thinking in a subtle way.
At the end of the Eastern Han Dynasty, Monroe, a famous soldier, was persuaded by Sun Quan to realize that she needed more study when she was in power and managing political affairs.
So after some efforts, his talents and strategies were qualitatively improved, which not only made Lu Su sit up and take notice, but also laid an indispensable foundation for his repeated meritorious military service.
It is said in "Augmented Xianwen" that "listening to your words is better than reading for ten years".
Sometimes, a word or two from a master can get through a person's troubled and tangled thoughts, and make people suddenly realize that the road ahead is gradually clear in the fog.
How important is the long-term vision?
A young man once asked a master, "What is the truth of life?"
Master took a stone and asked him to go to the vegetable market to see what price he could buy. The highest bid is 20 yuan.
Master asked him to take it to the jade market, and the bid this time was as high as 500 thousand yuan.
Master asked him to take it to the diamond market again, but someone offered 50 million yuan.
Young people still don't understand, the master explained:
"This is a diamond, but its value can only be seen with eyes that can understand diamonds. Different eyes see different truths about life.
If you want to live, you must exercise your eyes first. "
As the poet Tagore said with emotion: "We read the world wrong, but say that the world has deceived us."
No matter where you look, it is the height of a person's life.
Keep in touch with experts and learn how to look at things. Only in this way can we be more insightful, more aware of our goals, more aware of our own shortcomings, and gain motivation for the future.
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Learn how to do things from competent people.
An able person refers to an elite with a skill.
Tang Hanyu once said that "there is specialization in the art". If you have the opportunity to learn from the masters in your favorite field, will you seize this rare opportunity?
Some people will say, "No way, isn't this teaching fish to swim?"
This reminds me of Hua, a world-renowned mathematician, who has always advocated: "If you make an axe, you will reach the door."
Why?
Facts have proved that it is not good for people who don't know how to do things to show off their skills.
However, if you can get the guidance of industry masters, you can make faster progress, and if you are lucky enough to be affirmed, you can increase your confidence in climbing the peak.
Why not do it?
A capable person also refers to a person who can do things well.
A person who can properly handle big and small things must be a talented, responsible, reliable and emotionally intelligent person.
Everyone can do things, but not if they are done well.
"Success is not enough, but failure is more than enough" is a well-known idiom, which refers to those who can't do things well and screw them up.
Capable people do things in every way, slowly and steadily, which makes people feel at ease, comfortable and happy.
Cai Kangyong's father is such a person.
When he entertains guests, he will take care of every guest and make them feel at home, for example, telling jokes to make them happy, and choosing seasonal food for everyone so that everyone can get along happily and comfortably.
Li Ka-shing is also such a person.
In the early years, when Ma Yun, Feng Lun and others were still unknown bosses, they were invited by Li Ka-shing.
At first, they were all nervous, but they didn't expect Li Ka-shing to wait for them at the elevator door early, then shake hands with everyone and arrange a lottery to avoid the embarrassment of the seating culture.
Not only that, Li Ka-shing also specially prepared a pair of chopsticks at each table, so as to communicate with people at each table in turn.
It can be said that all the problems that worried people before have been solved in Li Ka-shing.
Thinking about others and things is an eternal accomplishment.
If you work hard with talented people, you will find that their way of doing things is very level:
What others have not considered has been taken into account, and both sides can solve all kinds of unexpected problems with ease and control the situation in their own hands.
It is of great benefit to people's lives to work hard with talents, learn from their "more than enough" wisdom and improve their ability to solve problems.
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Learn from Fu and be optimistic.
Blessed people have good eyes, light in their eyes and sugar in their mouths.
As long as you are near, it will make people feel warm and bright. If they meet the morning sunshine, it will dispel the darkness.
If you often get along with the blessed people, you will be infected by their positive energy and your actions will become positive.
A scholar went to Beijing to catch the exam. Before the exam, he had two dreams: growing vegetables on the wall and wearing a hat and an umbrella.
After talking with the first person, the first person advised him to give up, because it was futile to grow vegetables on the wall, and it was unnecessary to wear a hat and umbrella.
The scholar was very unhappy after hearing this, and later told the second person about it. The second person said that growing vegetables on the wall is a "high school", and wearing a hat and umbrella is a preventive measure.
Hearing this, the scholar can't help but feel refreshed and actively prepare for the exam. Finally, he actually won the flower exploration.
If you often get along with the blessed people, your heart will become clear and bright, just like being soaked and washed.
Recently, my friend's depression before morning was swept away, and the whole person's mental state improved by more than two times, and his eyes became brighter obviously from the previous eclipse.
I'm curious that she recently went to her grandparents' house.
Grandpa likes to copy some interesting pictures. In the meantime, he is copying the painter Da Zeng's limerick paintings. Grandpa often reads to her while painting:
"Life is too short to cherish, and the number of health and happiness comes first. Hanging on the wall after a hundred years, making money is just a game. "
"A fool met a little fool, and her life partner was her. Cleverness often bears the fruit of trouble, while confusion blooms happiness. "
When she was planting flowers and grass, she laughed with her grandmother.
Chen Chen said that grandparents have an invisible power to help her get rid of unnecessary troubles and let her go into battle lightly.
Isn't that what the so-called blessed people are like?
I can always make all the unhappiness disappear in laughter.
Can always heal the wounds of people's hearts between words.
You can always convey the power of peace inadvertently.
It's hard for people to see themselves clearly. Only when they look back on themselves in the process of getting along with others and dealing with things can they understand.
Keep in touch with high-level people, learn how to look at the world and see a wider world.
Work diligently with capable people, learn how to do things, and cultivate more comprehensive thinking.
Always get along with lucky people, learn to be optimistic, and get a little peace and tranquility.