Recently, Junyan Jiao, who participated in the variety show, is very popular with her true and fresh style.
In the latest variety show, she got together with her college classmates to talk about "the current situation of 30-year-old actresses" and teased herself like a vegetable, with old leaves and stale colors, being picked and picked, showing helplessness.
Soon after, she posted a post on Weibo, emphasizing what she said in the program:
Being old is not a mistake, but ability and mentality are more important.
After reading it, I realized that Junyan Jiao, who is in her thirties, still has invincible strength, which is inseparable from her good attitude. She doesn't have any idol baggage, but, like ordinary people, she admits her troubles, but she can adjust herself and move forward.
In her body, every ordinary person can see the shadow of sighing and beating chicken blood.
In daily life, 30-year-old is really a hole, parents began to urge marriage to give birth, and finding a job was also unreasonably restricted. It is really a feeling of lying in a basket waiting for others to choose, unwilling, but helpless.
But that's life. Who doesn't work hard while worrying?
Age is a paper tiger. The more you care and fear, the more arrogant it becomes. The more relaxed you are, the easier it will collapse. In the end, who wins and who loses mainly depends on the mentality.
There is a line in the movie "The Expendables 3" that says well: "Age is just a state of mind. Only when you surrender, when you give up, will you really grow old. "
30 years old is actually just the right age, not too late at all.
Just like when Yi Nengjing was 50 years old, he gave himself a pair of reading glasses and admitted that he was getting old. At the same time, enjoy the charm of mature women, love yourself, cherish yourself and enjoy the "just beginning" life.
The real age is never the number of laps the clock has traveled, but the mentality of people.
A positive attitude, age is the cost, dowry can help people look gorgeous and transparent; The mentality is decadent and stagnant, and age is both a creditor and an enemy. It is aggressive and makes people old.
Mentality is a person's anchor, regardless of age or appearance, only listen to the call of willpower. If you have a good attitude and overcome it, you will be able to cut off demons and get rid of them.
A few days ago, in the Voyager program of Phoenix Satellite TV, Dong Mingzhu responded positively to the tough label put on her by the outside world.
In the program, she said that she was gentle and shy since she was a child, and those who were strict and tough just emphasized the working principles and rules. She said:
"Calm down, don't care, you just need to ask yourself, do right and wrong. The more they talk, the happier they laugh. "
There is only one Gree in China and only one Dong Mingzhu in Gree.
In addition to excellent management ability, the leader's mentality is very important, which is related to the morale of the whole group. If the president is a little suspicious and hit, he will panic, doubt himself, and even adjust the management order every three days, then the whole enterprise will face turmoil and collapse.
Only with a firm mind, smiling at the labels randomly attached to the outside world, turning resistance into motivation, and becoming more and more happy, can enterprises develop steadily.
In its place, seek its administration. As an executive, you are inevitably strict; As a kindergarten teacher, you should talk to your children carefully and gently. As a waiter, you must meet the needs of customers with a smile.
But no matter what you do, there will always be people who are dissatisfied with you, find fault with you and make you uncomfortable. We are not RMB, so it is difficult to be loved by everyone. In that case, there is no need to be too serious.
In "Lovely, Touch Your Head", Da Bing wrote: "The mind goes with the heart, and the body goes with the fate. You can't live by your mood, but by your mentality. "
When I was a child, happiness was a candy, sweet in my mouth; Later, happiness was 90 points, which was measured on the test paper; Now, happiness is a state of mind, which is understood in the heart.
Don't use someone else's ruler, measure your own length, have a good attitude, everything is natural and sound.
These two days, a 98-year-old grandmother in Chengdu swiped the screen. Because she used to be a Chinese medicine practitioner, she not only didn't pay attention to hygiene, but also ate and drank, not spicy or unhappy.
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Granddaughter shared in the video, grandma's mentality is very good, she is like a child when she is angry, she never spends the night, and she doesn't care about everything.
Netizens have left messages to express their blessings, and more are envious of grandma's simple and open-minded attitude towards life.
Traditional Chinese medicine has always paid attention to cultivation and conditioning, long-term self-discipline and habit formation. As a grandmother of traditional Chinese medicine, she dares to break the authority and be loyal to food. She won't pretend to be reserved because of her identity, and she won't worry about physical shock, so she enjoys it.
Grandma loves to drink, not spicy or boring, likes coke, hamburgers and sweets, is willing to share the skills of drowning, and is full of curiosity and love for new things, as if she had the whole world with a pair of dentures.
It seems that everything goes in one ear and out the other. They were forgotten when they were blown out and never entered grandma's heart again. Her generosity is always used only for food and satisfaction, and she never leaves any room for trouble.
In a word, I have a good attitude, never embarrass myself, never embarrass others, and live very comfortably.
I often hear people say that they want to find happiness. But in fact, happiness can't be found, because happiness never goes far, it lives in our hearts.
If you have a good attitude, happiness will naturally show; If you have a bad attitude, happiness will fall asleep. We should learn to throw away all hypnotic and happy emotions, and constantly subtract from life to make more room for happiness.
Everyone has their own troubles, just like this 98-year-old grandmother, she will also worry that the hot pot is not spicy enough, the wine is not full enough, and the false teeth are not strong.
But the difference between people lies in this kind of worry. People with bad mentality will be troubled by troubles, while people with good mentality will not worry about the night.
But in fact, all the troubles in the world are much ado about nothing. When you relax, you will be able to laugh often.
Mentality is the mirror of life, and what is in your heart will be reflected.
The heart is full of beauty and the world is a smiling face; The world is sad when there is crying in the heart.
As long as you have a good attitude, everything will be fine.
30 years old is no big deal. Being that formidable female leader is just being loyal to her duties. Eating and drinking should be decided by the wallet, not by others.
Victory is not that you beat everyone, but that you beat yourself spiritually.
Honey, win yourself. Are you ready?