If there is a choice between loss and lovelorn, I choose lovelorn, because then I can still see the person I love.

The most painful thing in the world is to lose your love, which is unforgettable and painful!

Lu Yao's Ordinary World Sun Shaoping lost the love of his life, Tian Xiaoxia, and Tian Xiaoxia's death was an incurable pain in Sun Shaoping's life.

However, our dear, beautiful and kind Xiao Xia gave his precious life to save a little girl who fell into the water. We outsiders were in tears, let alone Sun Shaoping.

If he had a choice, he would rather Tian Xiaoxia was still here, even if she no longer loved herself, even if she had moved on.

Love is not possession, love is realization! It will clear up if you are fine!

If you have loved, you won't regret it. How many people have never experienced the taste of love in their whole lives! Bitter is sweet!

Nine times out of ten, life is not satisfactory!

It's hard for us to meet the right person at the right time!

Since you loved me, send us our blessing: "As long as you live better than me, nothing will be difficult, and all happiness will revolve around you."

"I don't know what I'm doing, but if I go deeper, the living can live and the dead can die."

"Asking about the world only teaches people to live and die together."

The vast sea of people, true love is hard to find! I was lucky to get it, but I died!

Chen Jiang and Luo Yuzhu. I only live three words in my life, Luo Yuzhu. The true feelings encountered at the end of life have always been with him. For Luo Yuzhu, he can give up his splendor, his charming Yang Xue and his yearning for eight years day and night. I only want you, Luo Yuzhu. Even if you have gone through many vicissitudes, as long as you are here, I don't care to start all over again. I don't care about gossip!

In the end, they grew old together and became a model of love and a fairy couple. The fairy couple won by themselves.

If you really love someone and can't extricate yourself, are you willing to wait! Are you willing to try to give her a bright future and make your love less worldly obstacles?

There is probably little such pure love in today's society, and material civilization determines spiritual civilization.

If you try to make a future, you are so affectionate, as long as one is unmarried and the other is unmarried, anything is possible!

Sincerely, Shikai!

Hard work and deep affection can not only open a girl's heart, but also touch her mother-in-law who wants a house and a car.

Instead of being unhappy, it is better to work hard, rebuild confidence, make your own life plan and move forward step by step!

Thinking: Why do you want to leave me when I love you so much?

Why can't we get the goddess in our hearts?

Hidden rules in love and marriage: Does it conform to each other's core values in the exchange of resources?

In the field of mate selection, there is an unwritten but interesting rule:

A person's favorite and unforgettable person is often someone he doesn't deserve. In fact, there are so many goddesses, all of whom are not worthy of their looks, education, ability, family background and social status.

A person's ultimate companion is often the best person in his optional range. Any long-term relationship is an exact match after the values are sorted.

Like Gao Jialin, Lu Yao chose Liu Qiaozhen in her life, but she is just an ordinary peasant girl. Although she loves herself deeply and is beautiful and simple, she is involuntarily in her career and her thoughts are hard to resonate.

Choosing a Huang Yaping princeling's urban hukou can help him to have a common language in his career, but the temper of Miss Da is unbearable. There will always be some uncomfortable feelings when women are strong and men are weak.

He is so eager to get rid of the yellow land!

When I was a child, it was difficult to understand the feelings of people in the book. I think of a classmate of mine who fell in love with a teacher, a village teacher like Gao Jialin. A girl's inferiority complex prevents her from telling him all the time.

In the ancestral temple in the village, I heard him petition the Bodhisattva: "The Bodhisattva wants me to marry a woman in the city."

However, my classmate only has a junior high school education, looks average, and the rural hukou faces the loess with its back to the sky, and has no idea where the future lies.

Finally, the primary school teacher married a city woman, but unfortunately she has no culture! Have a low-paying job. In the face of poverty, love has to make concessions for material things.

So Lu Yao's life is a portrayal of reality. Everyone has more or less requirements for themselves and their spouses.

It's just that people today are less subtle and more clear than those born after 60, 70 and 80.

Not so obscure.

Give me a lot of money or love, or get out or break up!

Therefore, lovelorn is not terrible. The terrible thing is that you have been lovelorn and frustrated!

Find your own shortcomings, strive to improve, become a better self, and be worthy of better people.

Bye, bye. The next one will be better!

What you can lose will never belong to you!

I wish all lovers will be well.

I have been lovelorn, and I let myself vent through some methods. I have tried it myself, and it feels effective! For reference only!

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Find an empty area and cry freely until you don't want to cry. After crying, you will feel much more relaxed. Science has proved that tears have the function of dispelling emotions!

The goal is shifted, not deliberately missed or forgotten.

What can really bring change and bring you out of the dark is your own confidence and light. You should have your own sense of responsibility and motivation to save yourself, and you should have a good spirit in your heart, so that you can really come out and heal your wounds!

Whose youth is not confused, whose lovelorn is not sentimental! In this life, there is only true love and unforgettable without results. Laugh, hurt, hurt, love is a net, and people in love are in the center of the net. Time is the best test to dig out the flaws in each other's love. One day, love turned into mutual accusations and complaints, which indicates that love has come to an end. After breaking up, reason returns, regretting that we can't tolerate and understand each other, and good memories become an excuse for sadness. I just want to say that people in love must cherish it. Everyone has shortcomings, and only by mutual understanding and tolerance can we achieve positive results. As for the person who broke up, there is no need to be sad because of lovelorn. Because of fate, you won't leave, not you don't need to stay. Out of that net, I believe tomorrow will be better.

In fact, it's not that easy in the adult world, but someone will set sail for you. Sometimes, whether it is love or friendship, don't be so serious. It is good for you to let go of yourself and ta when necessary.

Quiet time allows me to precipitate a lot of things. I have always felt that love is particularly pure and sacred, and I have always been faithful.

As a result, love and marriage gave me a great blow, making myself a mess, always chasing for fear of losing but forgetting to make myself excellent.

Just pandering to others, people can let go of caring, and you can't let go of hurting yourself for so long.

Who really cares about you? Live a good life and everything will be fine. What can you think of if the road is not normal? Live a good life and make yourself excellent.

Put down what doesn't belong to you. You can't hold on to it forever. Let go of yourself and relax yourself.

You will meet your true happiness for the rest of your life.

There is a line in "Later Us": In this kind of fate, it is good to live up to each other, and it is really difficult to live up to this life.

Love is fate, but you need luck when you get old.

We are not children anymore. When a person wants to leave, don't force him. Now that he has decided to leave, can you still sit on the ground crying and lying?

The pain of lovelorn can only be overcome by yourself, and others can't help.

If you spend that painful time alone, you will eventually become a stronger self.

One day, you find that you haven't thought of that person for a long time. You understand that the real letting go is never deleted or hacked, but because you don't care.

Deleting after lovelorn, black, is just a general self-deception, just like those who are clamoring to leave, all want to be retained.

However, the person chatting at the top doesn't belong to you anymore. Even if he doesn't delete it, he won't chat as intimately as before. Even if he is not black, his circle of friends will no longer send content related to you.

A person silently bears, and a person blooms silently. Don't be sad, when you get through it, you will be the most beautiful flower and will definitely surprise the world.

Nothing is absolute, no one can't live without it, just don't want to let go, don't want to lose it. The place they want to go is destined not to belong to them. Open your heart, and there will be something more suitable, more like you, more like you.

Thank you very much for answering this question.

Lovelorn, I believe, is a super painful feeling in this world.

Life is about going through many things. Looking back, you will thank these experiences and make you a better yourself. I believe everything is the best arrangement!

Although I know you are very sad now, when things happen, learn to face them more calmly! Learn to walk slowly, do what you like but haven't had time to do, talk to friends, get along well with your family and live a good life.

You will find that there are still many people around you who care about you. You need to be strong! I believe you will gradually find the center of gravity in life! It takes some time, but honey, it doesn't matter! You deserve better yourself!

Being lovelorn and depressed is a normal psychological reaction, because you are sad because you love and then lose it. Try to save what can be saved, because some things are really impulsive, and it is really unnecessary to think about it later. If it is really irreparable, adjust your mood through these methods.

Sometimes the more you think about it, the more sad it is, which can be solved by diverting your attention. A friend of mine was lovelorn at that time. He abused himself by drinking, smoking and even dieting. He lost 20 pounds in a month. Later, I bought bicycles and equipment, asked for leave with annual leave, and walked more than 2,000 kilometers by bike. People come back healthy and sunny.

The best way to bid farewell to the pain of lovelorn love is to set a goal for yourself and fight for it, because the vacancy of feelings leads to a gloomy life and I don't know what to do. Then find something for yourself to make up for this vacancy, either to start a relationship again or to give yourself a plan to implement it accordingly. I have a colleague who just fell in love and made money to buy a suite. Although it was incredible, he really put all his energy into his work, forgot to eat and sleep, and then paid a down payment for a suite.

Professional things are done by professional people, which is also the fastest and most direct way. If you are sick, you should see a doctor. If you are emotionally ill, you should seek a solution. If going to see a doctor is a bit of a fuss, you can consult a psychological counselor, and you can have psychological counseling through them.

These methods can be operated according to their own situation. After all, everyone's psychological comfort ability is different, and what suits them is the best. I wish you cheer up soon!

Hello, I'm Sister Rui. Negative effects such as negative mentality and depression after lovelorn are all manifestations that you can't let go of this love. Sister Rui doesn't advise you to save this relationship again. Even if it can be saved, the relationship that will continue in the future is still unstable.

1. Concentrate on your work, exercise more in your spare time, and fill up your time, so that you can't be idle when you are tired, and you can fall asleep when you are tired, so that your thoughts don't stay in the shadow of lovelorn.

2. Find a friend to chat with, or speak your thoughts out loud in front of the mirror. Don't keep it in your heart. A love that makes you unforgettable will not disappear in an instant. Only by self-consolation, the passage of time can dilute everything, and time will slowly heal the emotional contusion.

3. In this lost love, we should awaken the reasons for the failure of love and find our own shortcomings. Indulging in lovelorn love is not an option for the wise, but an immature performance.

I hope you can get out of this lovelorn relationship as soon as possible and open your heart to embrace the arrival of the next love.

I'm Sister Rui, a creator who focuses on the emotional field. I hope to walk hand in hand with you.

Old ones don't go, new ones don't come, and new ones love old ones. If you have a new one, you will naturally forget the old one.

Everyone thinks that the old love is unforgettable, and it may be hard to forget for a lifetime. That's because you haven't met anyone new.

When you are attracted to others and start a new relationship, I don't remember what old love you found. Die far away. Think of old love, even a little disgusted. Were you blind at the beginning?

Many people can't help but contact old love. They advise you never to do this, because it will only strengthen your thinking: what you can't get is the best, and you will fall into the abyss of pain.

From now on, start discharging and attract others, right?

I have all these emotions, but it's a bit too much to die, not to die [covering my face]

He's not dead. It's not worth it if I die. Unless he dies, I can still consider double suicide [covering my face]

What can we do? We have no choice but to live a normal life, treat ourselves normally, and leave the rest to fate, so that we can't forget each other in the Jianghu.

Don't always try to convince yourself to overcome it, and don't talk too much. This will only remind you that you have been lovelorn. It is better to rest assured that you can do whatever you want and watch him if you want. Don't deliberately control it, just let it go, and you won't forget it if you can't let it go. [yi tooth]

It is not terrible to be lovelorn, what is terrible is to be lovelorn again.

It must be caused by some reasons. Think about your own problems, where they are.

First of all, you shouldn't go to a woman. Women are troublesome things.

I was joking about that sentence above.

I feel good. My mother is single.

Although I have been in love many times, I have never succeeded.

Finally realized that I am a steel straight man.

I feel inferior, I am shy, I can't talk to girls, and what I say to girls is not liked by girls.

I don't know what is romance, what is a gift, what is humor and what is a sense of ceremony. What is personal charm? What is the economic situation?

What does it mean to improve yourself? What do you mean, after upgrading yourself, everything that should come is here.

Life is always ups and downs. If you can't escape from depression and anxiety, the negative energy of fear, emptiness and loneliness will invade your body.

Let me tell you three ways to forget women quickly.

1, divert attention and build new feelings.

Simply put, there are some nerve channels in your brain. The more you think about him, the stronger that neural channel will be until it occupies a part of your brain.

So you can read more books, watch movies, go out for a walk, exercise and listen to music.

Or establish a new relationship and re-establish a new neural channel, then the old neural channel will be forgotten.

2. Learn to comfort yourself.

If people can't get what they want, they will be depressed and unwilling, and then negative energy will invade your body.

So you may not like him that much, but you are a little unwilling.

You should be aware of the existence of your brain.

Your brain can create the appearance of liking him or easily creating the appearance of hating him.

I think the best way is to indulge in another thing, so that you can not only forget him, but also feel time, pain and depression.

I've said everything I need to say. Take time to improve yourself and you will have everything you need.