I chatted with several best friends and found that three of the five friends had saved private money, and quite a lot. When asked why, they said that women feel safe when they save some private money, even if their husbands still owe some debts; one

My best friend said that she saved her personal money. Whenever her husband had financial difficulties, she couldn't bear it, so she took it out and gave it to him. So, every time her husband had no money, he would ask her for it. She really had no money. Later,

No more personal money saved.

When the economy improved, her husband bought her various insurances, and then she bought some pension insurance privately. She said that by saving her private money, she wanted to have money to spend in her later years without relying on her children.

The only one, Fangfang, has never saved any personal money. Her salary card is given to her husband. She has been married for almost 20 years and she has never stopped going to work. She has paid five social insurances and one housing fund in her workplace, and her social security and other things are all over ten.

In five years, all housing provident funds have been withdrawn.

She also thought about not withdrawing the provident fund and using it as private money, but the family expenses were too high, so she withdrew it all.

Apart from work, Fangfang really has no other income, but Fangfang feels that it is much better for her to have a job than to save private money. Work can generate money every month.

But everyone advised her to save some private money, but she just couldn't. She took the initiative to hand over her salary card to her husband, because when the salary card was in her hand, she was very generous, including relatives, friends, aunts, and six mothers-in-law.

She spent money to buy gifts and visit once, and then her mother's brother and sister persuaded her not to take the money. After she got married, she became a family, so don't spend unnecessary money.

So she handed over her salary card to her husband. He bought groceries and cooked meals. Her husband did all her food, clothing, housing, and transportation. He even bought things like sanitary napkins. All she could do was go to work, and her children were also her husband.

In the tube strip.

Slowly, Fangfang's life functions deteriorated. When her parents' relatives gathered together, she couldn't even wash the dishes, let alone cooking. Her sister said that she could do anything except go to work. She would not spend any money or gifts from her parents.

My husband bought it. Fortunately, my husband opened a shop, was free, and could take care of the baby and make money. He put a thousand cash in Fangfang's bag and more than ten thousand in WeChat on his mobile phone, which he hasn't touched in several months.