Sitting in front of a bag, I struggled for a long time. Throw, or don't throw, or don't throw. Not usually. The milky leather has turned yellow, and I can't carry it any more. Throw it here. I bought it with money and didn't use it many times. I can also put something in. When I look at this bag, its shape is quite hard, occupying a space on the shelf, which is neither beautiful nor practical. Then throw it away. It's a shame to throw it away. I gestured with my hand and shook my head. I can't recite it, but I can't throw it away If I don't throw away the things piled up at home, there will be more and more. Who told you to buy so many useless things? If you can't put it down, you will still buy it. Yes, if you don't buy it, you won't have the trouble of wanting to throw it and being reluctant to throw it.
Get rid of, cut off unnecessary things, abandon redundant waste, and get rid of obsession with things.
The obsession with things, from the Buddhist point of view, is the hungry ghost mentality. The so-called hungry ghost mentality is that you feel lacking and dissatisfied inside. It is because of the lack and dissatisfaction that I want to buy from buy buy. If you realize that your life is rich, all the expenses of life can satisfy you, and too much material is a burden, then you won't buy it indiscriminately and repeatedly. When you see what you want, you buy it. What you buy is not necessarily useful, but what is useless is rubbish.
The hungry ghost mentality is a kind of hungry mentality and a kind of spiritual hunger. Generally speaking, it is lacking. Lack of money, food, clothes, bags, looks, luxury houses and luxury cars, all types and levels of people show different degrees of poverty. Winter hasn't arrived yet, and I have already started to buy cashmere coats on the grounds that the price is good. I'm going shopping with my sisters. This dress is very good. It suits you very well and suits your career. Then take it off. Friends in the WeChat circle of friends do Japanese generation, and photos are introduced one after another. Nice mask. It is not too much to apply three tablets a day. Ten years younger is not a dream. Let's accept it. Carrying all the human flesh back, you really only earn a little. Husband's clothes, parents' health care products, books, there is always a time to read, there is always a time to recite. When I really used it, it was out of season and I didn't like it. Not appropriate. In short, money is wasted and things are piled up.
Breaking up is an afterthought. What we really need to do is to prevent beforehand, that is, to change the mentality of hungry ghosts. Tell yourself I'm rich. Remember not to say I don't lack, I don't lack. This is a negative word. The foothold is still lacking. To change your mind, you must talk about wealth by changing your own language. After establishing the idea that you are rich, look at the things in your life, focus on what you have, and express gratitude for the things that appear in your life. Slowly, you will find that you already have so many things. If you have money, you won't buy things you don't need for no reason.
The irrational addition of unnecessary flashy things is the root cause of the accumulation of things in life. Because there is not much to add, the space is getting more and more crowded and messy.
Before breaking up, change your hungry ghost mentality!