puppy love, my future mother-in-law treats me as a "fox". My husband Mumu and I were high school classmates. At that time, we were in a provincial key middle school in Hunan, and our grades were good. We belonged to the type that parents and teachers didn't have to worry about it. At that time, there were several couples in the class who were in love, and we were one of them. We are all good students, and we never hold hands in public. Only once, in a remote street, we couldn't help holding hands, and the teacher happened to bump into us. Next, we were told our parents. Soon, the news of our love reached the headmaster's ear, because Mumu's parents knew him very well. Only then did I know that Mumujia was a local rich man. However, parents, school, life experience and college entrance examination are not the reasons to stop us. Our relationship is even better. Once, I called Mumu's home, Mumu's mother intercepted the phone from another extension and scolded me, telling me not to pester her son and not to affect Mumu's future. I was very angry at that time, said into the microphone, told your son to leave me alone, and then hung up. Later, Mumu ran away from home to find me, and we passed the time with a computer in the Internet cafe. That night, we vowed not to part. I went to Huazhong Normal University to study, and Mumu was arranged by his family to go to Singapore. When I called Mumu, he was at Guangzhou Airport, and Mumu's mother could be heard calling him to hang up. His mother thinks I'm a fox who seduces her precious son. I don't want to embarrass him. I'll hang up. At that time, it was not convenient to surf the Internet at school. The first thing I did when I got to the university was to wait for the computer in the library to come out and tell Mumu my mobile phone number in Wuhan. He was in Singapore and I was in Wuhan. I wrote emails and made phone calls every day. The longest time I called for 13 hours, I fell asleep and woke up the next morning, but the phone was still open. This is not the way. Mumu insists on going back to Changsha to study and transfer credits. After three years, he can go abroad to continue his studies. Three years, he won another three years for our love. After all, he is the only son in the family, and his mother has to obey him. In the winter vacation of my sophomore year, Mumu took me to his house to pay a New Year call. I prepared some gifts to take to his home, and Mumu mother returned them all to me. I stood downstairs in Mumu's house, tears turned into ice. Mumu held my hand and whispered in my ear, hold on, hold on for a while. My heart is colder than that winter. My parents divorced when I was five years old because of the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. I don't think a person as good as my mother can handle the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, let alone me. At that time, just because I was a girl, my grandmother put pressure on my mother, and she wouldn't let my mother sit for the next month, and she wouldn't even eat what my grandmother gave my mother. Are all the mother-in-law in the world demons? When I came home, my mother-in-law turned her back to the door and squatted on the windowsill to see if I had come back. I held cakes and flowers and brought gifts. My sister also took out her gifts and gave them to her mother-in-law together. Mother-in-law's eyes were red at that time and she said thank you again and again. It is rare for my father-in-law to have a smile on his mouth. My heart is full of sweetness. It's not just a special day. When I visit the supermarket, I usually buy something my parents-in-law and sisters like to eat, buy some good hangers to help my father-in-law dry his pants, put some sachets in the cupboard, buy a beautiful and easy-to-use fruit knife, and help them collect clothes and fold them. Of course, this is done according to my own interests from the heart, just like I don't like cleaning, hehe! My father-in-law doesn't like other fruits very much, but likes plums and peaches. So when I go shopping and see something good, I always buy it back, although it is heavy, although these peaches and plums will crush my beautiful bag. In a word, treat it as your home, treat them as your family, and don't hold grudges. People's hearts are full of meat. Who will refuse a person who is really good to you? Melting ice makes me more afraid of ghosts. Mumu thinks I'm pestering Mumu for money. I want to tell them with practical actions that I am not that kind of girl! Mumu's English is not very good. His family is engaged in foreign trade, and he planned to send him abroad since he was a child. I became his tutor in the summer vacation of his junior year. Mumu has the inertia of being rich and young, loves to sleep late, and his mother dotes on him very much. I am a little stricter with him, so his mother said, leave him alone and let him sleep. I was wronged in my heart, so I went to the bathroom on an excuse and cried. If mywood doesn't cooperate with me, is there any point in my persistence? As soon as I came out, I saw Mumu meekly bow to me and admit my mistake, and I saw hope again. Mumu has a younger sister who is ten years younger than him. At that time, she was only ten years old, named Yiyi. Yiyi likes me very much and clings to me. Because of my arrival, she volunteered to stay at home and do her homework that summer. Yiyi and her parents and brother have nothing to say, and they are alone with me, as if they have endless words. Mumu dad loves his daughter and wants me to stay and spend more time with Yiyi. In the evening, I share a bed with Yiyi, and Yiyi will chat with me until the early hours of the morning. Mumu's mother was jealous and asked Yiyi, what do you have to say with that woman? She thinks I'm a calculating woman, trying to curry favor with Yiyi. The taste of being misunderstood is really uncomfortable. When I went to Mumu's home for a New Year's greetings during my winter vacation in junior year, Mumu's mother sent me a red envelope, 1 yuan. Red envelopes are not big, but in the custom of our hometown, new prospective daughters-in-law should give them red envelopes. The more this time, the more I don't want the Mumu family to think that I am interested in their money. This kind of nervousness sometimes makes me cope abnormally. Once Mumu's father came to Wuhan on a business trip and asked the driver to call me and say that he would have dinner together. After meeting, he gave me 5 yuan. Said to give me a taxi fare. I won't accept it, blurt it out, and give it as a red envelope in the New Year. Now give me the money. I don't want it. This is really bad. In Mumu's father's heart, he may have deeply written down what I said about giving a red envelope next year, and he probably hates me for it. If I report back home, won't it make the relationship between my mother-in-law and daughter-in-law that I finally eased stiff again? Others say that when I entered the giants, I was as deep as the sea, and I had already choked a few mouthfuls of water ... I mean, people's hearts are all fleshy.' Senior year, Mumu's parents really acquiesced in us after seeing us talking for so many years. In my senior year, I didn't go to the internship, and I accompanied Mumu to apply for a study visa at home. During that time, Mumu's parents were busy at work, and I got up every day to cook for Mumu and Yiyi. Mumu and I were in a hurry to get a marriage certificate before he went abroad. He has gone abroad, so I just want to go back to my home and spend some time with my mother. But my grandfather wants me to stay at home and take care of Yiyi. Yiyi is relatively silent and doesn't like to talk at home. She used to get good grades. In the rebellious period, her grades declined, and her mother-in-law received many books for reading romance novels. My father-in-law knew that Yiyi was very close to me and listened to me, so he said to leave her in my charge. She was making up lessons and asked me to follow her every day. Early in the morning, she made up lessons, and I was reading novels there. To this end, I read the complete works of Jin Yong again, and after class, I brought her back and cooked for her. In the afternoon, before my parents-in-law came home, I cooked a meal and waited for them, or they went out to socialize, so I ate with Yiyi at home. I always thought that my husband had left and I was alone with my mother-in-law, and my bitter days came ... The fact is that our relationship is getting better. It can be said that it has been seen for a long time. My parents-in-law have no other hobbies, so they like playing mahjong. When they are not busy, they invite their good friends to play mahjong at home. My responsibility is to pour them water, cut the fruit, and then go to the room to surf the internet. It is estimated that the words of those uncles also have a great stimulating effect. Those uncles said that it is very rare to meet such a daughter-in-law now. Girls nowadays usually do nothing at home. Those uncles like me very much. They don't call me by my name. They just call me daughter-in-law. My mother-in-law's birthday is coming. My husband mentioned it to me before, so I remembered it. I buy gifts for my mother every year, so I think it's time to buy some gifts for my mother-in-law now that I'm married. When I ask my sister, she and her husband have never given any gifts! Remembering that my mother-in-law said her hairpin was not beautiful, I took my friends around for a day and bought a beautiful one. I also ordered a cake and a bunch of carnations, and went to Estee Lauder to buy a bottle of skin care products for my mother-in-law. I went out after 6 o'clock on my mother-in-law's birthday. I asked my sister to keep my mouth shut, but there was a traffic jam on the road and I came back late. My parents-in-law found that I was not at home, and they were in a hurry. Overseas, two hearts are closer to her husband. Soon after going abroad, I will go abroad. When I applied for a visa, I did it entirely by myself. This made me add points to my mother-in-law's heart. Once my mother-in-law chatted with me while watching TV while knitting, and said a lot of heartfelt words. She said that at first she saw that I was a child raised in a single-parent family, so she strongly opposed it. Later, through contact, I felt that I was optimistic and sensible, not like what she imagined. After that, she looked at me with a smile. In fact, I don't blame her opposition at that time. What mother doesn't think about her children? And puppy love itself is also wrong. Because of understanding, my mother-in-law and I, once enemies, are getting closer and closer. When my husband first arrived in Australia, he made videos with us every day. My parents-in-law always left me the time after chatting for a while. This harmonious relationship has made my feelings with my in-laws deeper and deeper. On the day I went abroad, my mother-in-law didn't go to bed until 4 am. Early in the morning, she insisted on going to Changsha with my mother to see me off. That day, I had mixed feelings and cried like a crybaby. What I didn't expect was that I called my mother later, and her mother said that her mother-in-law and she exchanged phone numbers and said that she would contact my mother more in the future. They hit it off very well. Later, my mother took the initiative to make cotton shoes for my parents-in-law. Now my husband's family treats my mother's shoes like treasures and wears them every day, regardless of the image. This year's snowstorm, especially cold, these cotton shoes really come in handy. Once in a video, my mother-in-law told me that my position in her heart was more important than her daughter's. Regardless of whether this is true or not, I am very happy that she can say so. Mumujia asked us to reissue the wedding when we went back from Christmas break in December. Now, I'm looking forward to December. When shopping in Australia, I always want to bring a copy to my mother-in-law. Just like I went shopping today, I still want to buy it, Mumu said. You can't be mistaken, can you buy it from now until December? He won't understand that once a woman sincerely likes someone and is liked by others, she will go all out to repay her kindness. Although many people may say that I am a sheep, my husband's family is so rich. In fact, it is especially uneconomical to buy things here with RMB. I am working in a gift shop, working for more than five hours every day, practicing my spoken English and making money. The money earned every day is equivalent to RMB, more than 6 yuan. After earning Australian dollars, it is more meaningful to buy gifts for my husband's family. What makes me even more proud is that my mother-in-law tells me more than Mumu every time she videos or makes a phone call, because we have a lot of the same topics, about Mumu's daily life, about Yiyi's study, about when I will be pregnant and have children, and about beautiful clothes and cosmetics. Sometimes my mother-in-law will complain to me that Yiyi is naughty and disobedient at home, and ask me to call back and tell her. My mother-in-law said that Yiyi will listen to you. Think about it, how many mother-in-law and daughter-in-law can get along like us? Back then, when I was eating at home in China, I would take the initiative to fill all the meals and pour a glass of water for my parents-in-law. I wonder if my parents-in-law can get used to eating without me. Everyone's happiness is actually made by themselves. After the 8s, the daughter-in-law gradually convinced her mother-in-law. 2 It is much better to tell the ugly story ahead than behind. Before her mother-in-law came, let her husband communicate well with her mother-in-law, and make it clear beforehand. After her mother-in-law came, she would be psychologically prepared, at least there would be no big friction. If some of your mother-in-law's practices make you unbearable, don't have a confrontation with her mother-in-law. You should first discuss with your husband and let him communicate with her mother-in-law. After all, it will always have some effect if a son tells his own mother. Suggest to yourself that filial piety to your mother-in-law is what you should do. Love me, love my dog. Since you love your husband, you should naturally love your husband's mother, which is nothing more than a matter of more love and less love. After all, my mother-in-law gave birth to her husband and raised him hard, so we should respect his mother with her husband, chat with her more and make her happy, and her husband will naturally be happy, and he will be good to your mother. How nice it is to have the best of both worlds! Don't show your love to your husband in front of your mother-in-law. The old man's thought is still very traditional, and there is still a big gap with our young people. To recognize the fact that there is a generation gap with his mother-in-law, we feel that we can be casual in front of our family, but if we are too affectionate, the old man can't accept it. The mother-in-law may think that if you take all the love from his son, the consequences will be unimaginable! In front of her mother-in-law, she must be obedient to her husband. Her mother-in-law certainly doesn't want to see her son being bossed around. You think, if she can't bear to be bossed around, how can she allow others to be bossed around? Of course, when you go back to your cabin or when your mother-in-law is away, your husband will be willing to listen to you! In the future, in front of your parents, your husband will be very obedient to you, and your parents will look comfortable, won't they? Be generous to your mother-in-law. Usually, buy more small gifts for your mother-in-law to make her happy and let her know that you have given her more than your own mother. She must be happy, but how much money you gave your own mother behind her back, she doesn't know! On the issue of money, don't be too stingy, especially when it comes to major events, such as my father-in-law's illness. Even if you don't give money, my husband will certainly borrow money everywhere to treat his father. So since you can't escape, it's better to take the money simply, show a willingness, and give it to your mother-in-law. This will please her mother-in-law and satisfy her husband, and I will think more about you in the future. Try to treat your mother-in-law as your best friend and leave your hometown. There are fewer people talking, so you are definitely not used to it, so you usually talk to your mother-in-law and listen to her, even if you pretend to listen carefully. Pay more attention to her daily life, understand her preferences, and take care of her appetite when eating at ordinary times. She will certainly feel these casual little details, and she will feel that her son is lucky to marry you! Then do you still have to worry about buying food, cooking, washing pots, washing dishes and cleaning?