But we have to understand that these seemingly lonely times are actually our most precious appreciation period.
Especially for young people, there is no burden to take care of their families. After studying and working every day, they have at least three hours of solitude, which is 90 hours in a month and 1080 hours in a year.
If these more than 1000 hours are used to practice a skill and study a sideline, I will inevitably become a cow after one year.
Cattle people are not born cattle people, they are all in countless lonely nights, repeatedly practicing a certain skill, learning a certain field of culture, accumulated over time, before they become cattle people.
There is no reason to be born in this world. If you want to be famous in front of others, you have to suffer afterwards. And the lonely time left every day is an excellent way to help us become awesome people. The point is, don't waste it.
The 70 little things you can do when you are alone are not difficult. We can choose the ones that suit us best. Let's have a look.
1 Write a letter to yourself one year later and tell her/him what you like about yourself.
Give the room a break and throw away the useless garbage. Tidy the room, that is, tidy yourself.
3, try to make a cup of milk tea by yourself, full of sense of accomplishment.
4. Try to find your best photo angle, a mobile phone+selfie stick, and you can take a good photo at home.
5. Find a classic high-scoring movie and watch it carefully from beginning to end.
6. Go to a restaurant that you have never been to and leave some small eggs for your life.
7 Try to write a diary, unlimited in words and content, and only record the truest thoughts.
Give yourself a facial cleaning and apply a hydrating mask.
9. Greet a friend whom I haven't contacted for a long time and talk to him about the recent situation.
10, contact with a computer skill, such as PS retouching, video editing, PPT production, etc.
1 1, go to the local library and visit the study area, and you will see many people around you who are working hard.
12. Make a general cleaning for WeChat friends circle and delete the negative energy content.
13, watch a favorite documentary in bilibili, and you can know what's going on in the world without leaving home.
14. Go around the supermarket and buy some snacks that you have never eaten before.
15 Search the local travel guide to see which scenic spots you haven't been to before, and then put them on the agenda.
16, learn a foreign language, not necessarily English, but all kinds of small languages of interest ~
17, organize the mobile phone photo album, arrange the photos regularly according to a certain classification, and you can see the pictures at a glance in the future.
18, go to the bookstore to buy a best-selling novel, choose a quiet rest day and immerse yourself in the world of novels.
19, find the hottest TV series at the moment, watch two episodes, continue to chase if you like it, or give up if you don't like it.
20. Learn some mobile phone photography tips. There are many online tutorials, which are basically useful after reading, but very practical.
2 1, go to the market to buy your favorite dishes, and then cook a delicious meal for yourself.
22. Try to do a group of yoga and recommend the "Daily Yoga" APP. Maybe you will fall in love with yoga.
23. If you are still a student party, write down what you want to do most after graduation on paper. What requirements do you still have for this position?
24. A person goes to the cinema to watch a movie and enjoys "loneliness".
25, a person eats a sea fishing, it is said that you can put a bear on the opposite side ~
26. Go to the flower and bird market and buy a nice little potted plant.
27. Try to get rid of a bad habit with 2 1 day, such as "shaking your legs", "never making the bed", "sleeping late" and "swearing".
28, drink a little low degree cocktail, enjoy the feeling of tipsy.
29, buy a blind box, maybe there will be surprises.
30. Visiting the local museum and carefully reading the exhibits are very helpful for increasing knowledge and improving self-cultivation.
3 1, sort out the messy song list and try to listen to some minority music.
32. Go to the offline clothing store to try on clothes and choose the one you like best as a reward for your hard work.
Buy a favorite copybook and learn how to write five words every day. After half a year, your font will be completely transformed.
34. Pick a weekend and travel to the surrounding cities alone. You will know yourself better during the journey.
35. Read the wearing tutorial and think of a set of wearing styles of your own.
Prepare gifts for relatives and friends for the next holiday, and hand-write a greeting card and put it in ~
37. Go to the barber shop and have a care for your hair.
38. Choose an interested sideline, such as photography, new media writing, illustration design and so on.
39. Browse the latest current news and see what interesting things have happened in other parts of the earth except around you.
40. Learn a musical instrument. Playing your favorite music with your own hands, your sense of accomplishment is bursting.
4 1 If there is a mountain nearby, go to the top of the mountain to watch the sunrise and sunset. In the embrace of nature, the whole person's mind will be much broader.
42. Buy a notebook, try to keep an account every day, and never be a moonlight family again.
43. Organize your favorites. Carefully absorb the dry goods that have been collected for a long time and remove the contents that have expired.
44. Buy a bottle of aromatherapy at a moderate price and put it in the room. Staying in a fragrant room will make you feel better.
45. Ask the hair stylist to redesign a set of hairstyles for himself and change to a good-looking hairstyle, which will make him feel reborn.
46, choose a stand-alone game to play customs clearance, and then uninstall. There is no need to exclude video games, just moderate.
47. Enjoy cycling around and you will see scenery that you can't see at ordinary times.
48. Go online to find recipes and learn a new home cooking.
49. A person watching a drama will have a stronger sense of substitution than watching a movie.
50, exercise muscle strength, this is unisex. The increase of muscle mass will enhance basal metabolism and become a physique that is not fat.
5 1, go to my alma mater to visit my teacher and reminisce about my childhood.
52, learn to understand some luxury goods, it doesn't matter if you can't afford it, but at least you should know.
53. Find a pet coffee shop and drink coffee while licking the cat. Life could have been so beautiful.
54, change the layout of the bedroom, the mood will be completely new.
55. When a person watches a concert, he releases his enthusiasm in the face of singing.
56. If you are in a bad mood, pick a tear-jerking movie and cry heartily with the rhythm of the film.
If you are a college student, choose one or two interested clubs to join. Besides learning new knowledge, I can make friends with different departments.
58. Write down the numbers of important relatives and friends and the accounts of social platforms in the notebook, which will be of great use when the mobile phone breaks down.
59. If you are not too busy in the future, you can consider learning a driver's license.
60. Make a review of the past month, list what you have learned, and list the parts that you have not done well. Good maintenance, bad correction.
6 1, clean up the WeChat friends list, and delete those who have never contacted and posted negative energy friends all day.
62. The mobile phone is mute or turned off, and take a quiet nap.
63. Master some basic financial management knowledge. You don't have to invest easily, but you should at least understand the relationship between assets and liabilities. Recommend a book, Rich Dad and Poor Dad.
64. Find a pub with elegant environment and taste a good wine.
65. When a person goes to KTv to sing a song, life needs a unique experience.
66. Replace the three-piece set on the cleaning bed regularly, and you will find that the acne on your face is less.
67. Think about life. Seriously think about what kind of life you want most, and then reach your goal step by step.
68. Try to communicate with a stranger once, either a grocery store owner or a taxi driver.
69. Go around the nearby university town and feel the youthful vitality and learning atmosphere.
70. Writing your life experience into a novel can be done without writing or publishing, which is priceless.