But is the love of pine nuts really love? Not really. Pine nut's love is a kind of bribe, and she is very likely to give all the bribes to the people she loves-just as she bribed her father with the clown's posture since childhood-just because there is an irreparable black hole in her heart. This black hole is hunger for love, in other words, emotional hunger.
What is emotional hunger? Emotional hunger means that a person does not get the most basic love from his parents in his childhood, and then he has an obvious unattainable desire for love in his later life. Because this kind of desire comes from the early stage of life, psychological counselors also call it primary emotional hunger.
There are many things that she says pine nuts are sad, and no man loves to work; There are many men who say that I would never want such a woman with no self-esteem. But all this is not the selection of pine nuts. The hole of love produced in childhood swelled even more in the subsequent surrounding experience. If there was not a body at the support point, pine nuts would have been swallowed by the hole very early. If we can temporarily leave a person's body and go there to find out, the rest of the pine nuts will be just a dead silence, and it is very likely that we will continue to smell the collapse and helplessness.
Therefore, many fans' thoughts are really cruel. If pine nuts can be chosen, with her face value and talent, there will be no wrong hands in her feelings, and there will be no chance to make you judge her self-esteem. She can often give up her self-esteem because her demands for love and trust have never been met, and she has been hollowed out and trampled by others many times.