Many people feel that their love is like an early spring that is delayed, always going through the cold of winter, but unable to see new hope. So many people think that people like me are not suitable for dating. Although many people will have this idea, I think this idea is very bad for this person. So why do so many people still feel that they are not suitable for dating?

First of all, it’s because I don’t have a very clear goal for my love. This means that in his current state, his life goal is not whether he is in love or not. Maybe he chose to do something that he felt was more meaningful at the moment. For example, to further your studies and learn more new knowledge. Or enter the society in advance and accumulate experience so that you have enough skills to face future life. There are also other things he wants to do. He will feel that his energy and time have already been invested in the things he wants to do, so he has no more time and energy to invest in feelings. Secondly, it is because I have had several bad love experiences, or I have seen or heard about some love affairs with bad results. This will lead them to think that love is something that is good for you, and as a result, you will bring pain to yourself. They don't want to believe that they can meet someone who truly loves them. You can accompany yourself through your life and live a happy life. They will only feel love, but the result will be painful and even make them fall into some bad memories. Therefore, they no longer want to believe in love, so they feel that they are not suitable for falling in love.

So I think that whether you don’t have love in your plans or you have no hope for love, I think you can’t give up on the role of love in your life. Because there will always be a moment when you realize what love truly means to you. Maybe it comes relatively late, but winter has passed and spring must come. You have to believe that the spring of your love will come slowly after going through the test of cold winter. So don’t feel like you’re not suitable for falling in love just because it hasn’t come yet.