In today's society, this kind of hospitality has become more and more deformed. The wine table culture is becoming more and more ugly, probably to persuade wine, to be proud of drinking more, and to have complex motives. They are all a kind of "friendship kidnapping", completely losing the elegance of previous literati. In my opinion, in fact, high-level people never need to seek their own value on the wine table
In fact, neither wine culture nor toast culture is a bad habit. On the contrary, the essence of eating is not eating and drinking, but socializing. Contact feelings and enhance friendship, which is its original intention.
And drinking is just an entertainment means to enliven the atmosphere. The 5,000-year-old wine culture has continued to this day, forming a wine culture with China characteristics. There is no denying that drinking can enliven the atmosphere and enhance feelings. China's wine table culture is both a kind of etiquette and an art.
Reasons for the ugliness of wine table culture;
1, face psychology, swollen face and fat man.
Everyone knows to drink moderately. However, many people can't stop once they pick up their glasses. Our current wine table culture advocates "being able to drink" which means being a hero. A good drinker is frank, and a poor drinker is timid. China people have a good face. On the wine table, many people will choose to earn back their "face" by hurting themselves.
2, power thinking: you will be punished if you don't toast.
It is also a remnant of feudal thought to always want to rule others in his bones. People with this mentality often think that wives have to listen to their husbands, sons have to listen to their fathers, and you have to drink when you propose a toast on the wine table. They like to put their will on others. Once rejected, they feel that their authority has been challenged, so toasting has turned into persuasion and even forced drinking.