Method 1: Choose the correct dress.
1, don't wear teenagers' clothes. One of the ways we judge a person is to look at his clothes intuitively. So, what you wear determines what people think of you. If you want to look mature and steady, you must avoid teenagers' style clothes. When buying clothes, bypass the youth area and go directly to the adult area. Clothes in teenagers' areas are often made of cheap, light and translucent cloth, which has the effect of reducing age. You should avoid these cheap fabrics and choose clothes with more exquisite tailoring and materials. Girls should avoid girlish designs, such as buckle shoes with low heels and clothes with small lapels. In addition, don't choose tops and pleated skirts with too much lace and flounces. These clothes look so cute.
Don't wear sportswear. Clothing accessories such as sweatpants, basketball shorts and baseball caps can make people feel lazy and disheveled. These things are usually reserved for young people.
2. Wear clothes that fit you. Put away those loose clothes. Clothes that can modify your figure are more suitable for you. Don't wear clothes other than sacks or sheets, which is not only unsightly, but also gives people a sloppy impression. Besides, tight clothes will make you look younger and more childish, so don't wear them again. Men can choose shirts by measuring shoulder width. If the shoulder line exceeds the shoulder tail, it means that the shirt is too big and must not fit after wearing it.
When choosing clothes, girls should consider whether they can foster strengths and avoid weaknesses, rather than exposing their figure curves. If your crotch is narrow, an A-line skirt can visually enlarge your crotch. Try to wear oval or V-neck clothes. In addition, when buying coats and sweaters, you should also be able to fit the outline of your body.
3. Don't wear T-shirts with words or patterns printed on them. The sign of young people is that they like to wear T-shirts printed with trademarks (band patterns, brand names and logos) or interesting words. If you want to be treated as an adult, put away all these T-shirts. Men can try solid colors or striped T-shirts. Choose brighter colors, such as pale pink, yellow and orange. Dim colors don't mean maturity.
Henry shirts and Polo shirts can show men's maturity and steadiness better than ordinary T-shirts.
Girls can try decorated T-shirts or vests, or choose bright solid colors or printed shirts. However, don't wear fluorescent or neon clothes.
4. Wear high-quality jeans. No matter how old you are, jeans are standard in the wardrobe. However, if you want to look mature, you have to learn to choose jeans-tailoring and quality are the key. In addition, don't choose high waist or low waist design. Men are advised to buy straight pants. Girls can buy slim, wide-leg pants or tight jeans. If you choose skinny jeans, the top should not be too tight.
Replace faded or torn jeans with darker washed jeans. Don't wear jeans with artificial diamonds or other accessories.
5. Wear the right shoes. Of course, a mature dress should end with the right shoes. Don't wear sports shoes or flat shoes, and don't wear fancy shoes. Girls should avoid wearing high heels or shoes that are too fashionable. Men and women are not allowed to wear flip-flops. Practical and conservative shoes are the right choice. For boys, it is absolutely right to wear boots. Black boots are almost versatile. Brown boots with shoelaces are also nice. If you don't like boots, you can try boat shoes and casual shoes. Polished leather shoes can also add a mature charm to you.
Girls can choose high heels. But the heel should not be too high. If you don't like high heels, flat shoes can also wear elegant temperament. In summer, sandals are the most fashionable collocation.
Step 6 dress appropriately. Proper clothes can also make you more mature. Make yourself a well-dressed professional, so that you will look older in the eyes of others, not a naive child. Boys can wear khaki pants or formal trousers with Polo shirts or button-down shirts, and the hem of the coat should be inserted in the pants. Wear a nice belt around your waist and a pair of exquisite leather shoes under your feet. Although tie is not necessary, with it, mature temperament will be more prominent.
It is recommended that girls wear knee-length skirts to show their beautiful neck and collarbone, but not too much chest. Exquisite skirts and loose tops can also match the taste of mature women. Put a cardigan or coat over the coat to add some layering. Finally, don't forget to match a decent pair of shoes.
7. Don't carry a backpack. Don't carry a backpack when you go out. Backpack will only increase your student spirit. Boys can carry a postman bag or a leather file bag. Girls can carry a handbag or a lovely jiaozi bag.
Method 2: Dress up as an adult.
1, get a mature haircut. Cutting your hair or changing your hairstyle can always make you look younger, but no hairstyle can make you look more mature. But you can avoid those hair colors or hairstyles that have age-reducing effects, such as exaggerated colors or highlights, as well as Mohist dry hair, unilateral shaving and dirty braids, which are too sexy. Mature people are more suitable for conservative hairstyles. A messy hairstyle will rejuvenate a boy's face. Well-defined short hair can better reflect mature style. Avoid hedgehog heads, long hair or other hairstyles with age-reducing effects.
Girls can consider bobo head or elf short hair. A smooth long hair is also a standard for mature women. Don't wear too many hair accessories, such as hair bands, hairband, bow hair clips, etc.
2. grow a beard. Boys with beards look more mature and have a sense of vicissitudes. Studies have found that beards make men look at least ten years older than their actual age. If you are going to grow a beard, you must look good. Some adolescent boys want to grow a goatee or a beard, but they can't grow that many beards. Trim your beard often. If your beard looks messy, your overall image will be greatly reduced.
If the beard is sparse, shave regularly and keep your face clean. If your beard is deeper and lighter, you will look younger.
3, light makeup. Make-up has the effect of aging. Draw eyeliner with eyeliner first, and then apply eye shadow. Compared with bright or soft colors, neutral eye shadows such as brown or gold can better reflect mature styles. Finally, apply foundation to make the skin tone more even. Cover dark circles with concealer.
Thick and shiny lip gloss or pink nail polish are all cosmetics designed for teenagers, which are not suitable for you who pursue mature women's style.
4. Cover the acne on your face. Compared with a face full of acne, a fresh and clean face looks definitely more mature. It is recommended to use concealer to cover and fade acne marks and develop correct skin care habits. Try acne cream, cleaning wipes and other acne products, which should be available at the skin care counter in the store. Wash your face with acne cleanser twice a day. Apply moisturizing cream after washing. If you have oily skin, choose an oil control moisturizer. If your skin is dry, choose an emulsion with good water retention effect.
Girls can cover the zits on their foreheads with bangs.
5. Exercise. Exercise can not only effectively reduce baby fat, but also gain muscle and make people look more mature. It is suggested that boys focus on exercising the upper body to make their shoulders wider and their arms stronger. The focus of girls' fitness is to tighten the waist, increase the muscles of the chest and buttocks, and highlight the exquisite curve. Intermittent exercise is a good way to burn fat quickly, and using dumbbells also helps to exercise muscles. You can go to the gym to exercise, or do push-ups or squats to gain muscle.
Method 3: Do things more maturely.
1, confidence. Confident behavior is the best external expression of maturity. Even if your appearance, unique personality or social skills are somewhat different from your expectations, they can't stop you from becoming a confident person. There is a difference between self-confidence and arrogance. Self-confidence means feeling good about yourself, not looking down on people around you. Don't show off your achievements too much, or use words to belittle and despise others. This is a typical immature performance.
2. Change your behavior. Listlessness is a common state of teenagers. You should learn to hold your head high, step confidently and correct your bad posture. No matter where you are, whether you are walking, sitting at a desk using a computer, or waiting in line, you should stand up straight. Correct your posture as soon as you find it wrong. Over time, it will become a habit to hold your head high anytime and anywhere. A person's behavior is closely related to self-confidence. Hold your head up, don't bury it in the ground. When talking to others, look them in the eye.
3. Improve your social etiquette. Don't shout when you speak, slow down and express yourself confidently. Pay attention to polite language and often say "please" and "thank you". When others are talking, listen attentively; Being a loyal listener can also show your mature side. If someone else's voice just fell, you can't wait to start talking about yourself, which will give people the impression of selfishness and indifference. It is suggested to express your views on each other's stories first, and then tell a related event that happened to you to complete the natural transition.
Learn to chat. When chatting, you can ask each other how they are doing recently, whether their family members are healthy or not, or talk about the weather. The key to small talk is to be polite and keep the topic light and pleasant.
4. complain less. If you always complain, you will undoubtedly label yourself naive and selfish. In the process of growing up, you will learn to accept the gains and losses in life and know that everything happens for a reason. Even if you are depressed by a bad situation, things will not get better. Venting to friends may bring you temporary pleasure, and their suggestions may really help you solve some problems, but don't always complain about trivial things, because such behavior is really childish.
5, enhance the ability to choose words when speaking. You don't need to use obscure expressions in daily conversation, others will hear that you are trying to attract attention. The point is to get rid of those childish juvenile words. Think carefully before you speak and speak slowly. Don't talk nonsense, think it over before you speak. Learn to use more complicated expressions. When praising someone's creativity, you can say, "This idea is refreshing." Instead of simply saying, "This is a new idea!" If you expect someone to be honest with you, then instead of saying, "Can you be honest with me?" For example, "I wish we could be more honest with each other." More complex expressions can make you look mature and wise.
Don't abuse spells. Don't always say "just like" or shout "I am dizzy". Don't use meaningless oral conjunctions such as "simple" and "do you know" when emphasizing something. Besides, "cool" and "buddy" can't be said again.
6. Defend yourself firmly but politely. When others don't respect you, say no boldly. In the final analysis, maturity also shows the necessity of respect. You should speak your mind bluntly, but don't be too sarcastic or flustered. Maybe you think you are joking, but those harsh criticisms will still damage your image and run counter to your goal. If someone interrupts you while you are talking, you can say, "Wait a minute, please don't interrupt me."
Stop it. "Hum, you're interrupting me. You really don't know when to shut up? "
Learn to let go. It is inevitable to make enemies in life, and learning to let go is also a kind of wisdom. When you treat others with hatred and malice, you also turn yourself into a naive and ridiculous person.
When others don't mean to offend you, you can ignore their unintentional mistakes. If necessary, you can also clearly point out the harm they have done to you. Both ways respect each other's feelings.
Tips Don't ignore the importance of words and deeds, which can represent a person's maturity to a great extent. Sometimes it doesn't matter what you wear. Only by controlling the momentum of the audience can you be more mature.
If you can't grow a beard, you can work hard on the five senses and show your mature temperament with details.
Sometimes, your behavior should be consistent with your age. Youth is gone forever. Take the time to enjoy your beautiful youth! Don't be old-fashioned all day and worry about giving new words. It's certainly true to keep a steady and elegant posture, but don't miss precious youth in order to pursue maturity deliberately.
You can search for adult fashion trends and matching skills on reliable social media applications, and then choose clothes within your ability according to online suggestions, or choose similar styles and matching from your closet. But don't dress too revealing or cartoon.