First, never be easily moved by simple details.

Don't think he is kind to himself just because someone is caring and attentive to him. He really likes my idea. If he treats you like this skillfully at some moments, it may be because he treats other girls like this at other moments. Practice makes perfect, and some details can be performed. Remember.

Second, learn to let nature take its course in feelings

The best way to avoid falling in love is to learn to let nature take its course in feelings. Don't force a relationship, but learn to get along with nature and make love a icing on the cake. If love makes you feel hard or laborious, stay away from it and don't be led by the nose.

Third, it is your problem to be too fond of someone.

If you are a person who easily falls into the love pit, even if the person you like is not very good and excellent, your love brain will automatically add a beautification filter to him. Think about it another way: Is this person really that good? What does he look like in the eyes of others? Try to change your thinking to the third dimension, and he is just plain.

Fourth, always put yourself first

In any relationship, always put yourself first. Do I want to? Am I happy? Do I like it? Never wronged yourself, your own emotions are the most important. Relationships that make you feel uncomfortable, be swayed by considerations of gain and loss, and insecure should be abandoned in time. If you always can't figure out whether the other person loves you or not, it is not love you. If you think he doesn't love you, he just doesn't love you.

Fifth, learn to think independently.

If a girl wants to avoid becoming a love brain, she must have the ability to think independently and think calmly as much as possible when she meets anything. Don't lose your job or study because of love, and don't lose yourself because of love. It is best to warn yourself before you fall in love that you must not regard love as the whole of your life.

Six, don't study each other's behavior and emotions.

Don't study each other's emotions and behaviors too much, it's easy to indulge in them and lose yourself. And if the other person doesn't want you to know, it's a waste of time to guess again. I really don't love you if I don't take the initiative to contact you, I really don't love you if I don't spend money on you, and I really don't love you if I don't spend time on you.

7. Don't dwell on "Why doesn't he like you?"

Why doesn't he like me? Is it because I'm not good-looking? Not good enough? Or am I not good enough? Why does he like others? Yeah, I really don't have that girl, okay You know, even a big star can't make everyone like it. In terms of feelings, fate is a wonderful thing. Being loved is accidental, and not being loved is the norm. Stop internal friction! Try to accept it in this matter.

Eight, ask yourself what is good about each other and what do you like about him?

You can't like him for no reason at first. You should always ask yourself what you like about him. If you like him handsome, do you still like him if he doesn't look like this anymore? If you don't know what you like about the other person, then you probably don't really like him, but you may just like the feeling of ambiguous period or the imaginary one in your mind.

You are trapped in a relationship just because your circle is too small.

Because you are in contact with the people around you, your object will probably be the people inside. If you are trapped in a relationship, it only shows that your circle is too small and there is no better and more suitable person to replace it. If you know someone better, maybe you won't have this kind of distress.

10. You can live well without intimacy.

When you are good enough and strong enough, you can accept that no one loves you in this world. If you think you can't do it without love, it only means that you are not strong enough to give yourself what you want. Before that, you should keep learning and improve yourself to become better. Only when you are good enough can you be more confident.

XI. Pay attention to whether your emotions and needs are met.

Love should make people happy and cheerful, and make you feel affirmed, valued and loved. If you feel denied, ignored, hit, or even cheated, then you must pay more attention to your emotions if you want to stop in time.

Twelve, get rid of the "love brain", the key is to learn to love yourself.

Learn to give yourself a sense of security. When we have the ability to love ourselves, we will understand that loving ourselves is the highest romance in life. Therefore, always choose yourself first and care about your emotions and feelings. Only you are the only protagonist in life.