I was just about to mop the floor when I saw the question asked by the questioner. I know you are in a hurry. One person is short and two people are long. I see that several people have answered you. I am anxious to answer you, but I can’t. See how other people give you advice.

I probably know your situation. The economy is relatively tight right now. I have to pay off my car loan every month. I only have my husband as my salary, and my relationship with my family is not harmonious.

Let’s see if you like my opinion, or if I can give you a heads up.

First of all: From an economic perspective, you must not let your husband come back from work to wait for you. You are now talking and talking, and you have to pay off your car loan even if you don’t eat. Besides, find a job now. It's not easy to get a decent job. If your husband takes a month off, he may not be able to keep his position.

Instead of letting your husband not go to work and go home to take care of you without any salary, why not use his salary to hire someone to take care of you at home? Just treat it as if your husband has worked in vain for a month, but at least he can keep it. job, and people will take better care of you than your husband.

Or hire a part-time worker to come for about two hours a day to give the baby a bath or something.

While you are still able to move around ① Prepare maternal and infant supplies, including feeding bottles, diapers for newborn babies, appropriate clothing, appropriate size towels and bath towels for babies, bathtubs, and small basins (for baby washing) , wash the buttocks), hygienic cotton wool (use a small amount of cotton wool to wet your index finger with cold water every day to wash the baby's mouth), baby shower gel, etc.

② Prepare rubber gloves (it is not advisable to get wet during confinement, for fear of causing problems in the future). As for eating and drinking, different places have different habits. It’s up to you. If you can save it, you can prepare it first. Or buy more.

③ This point is probably universally understood regardless of region, that is, don’t get wet during confinement. You have to believe it even if you don’t believe it. If you don’t believe it, you won’t regret it in the future.

④ Prepare more boiling water every day for washing hands and children (because you are not suitable for getting wet with raw water). For others who cook and wash children's clothes, you can wear rubber gloves.

⑤ During the confinement period, if you want to wash your hair or take a bath, boil the water before washing. When boiling, add a few slices of ginger to the pot (or crush it to make it easier to smell). This will Dispelling wind has a very good health care effect on pregnant women. If you don't pay attention, it will gradually show up in the future.

⑥ If it is really inconvenient for you to do it, leave it to your husband to do it when he comes back from get off work. Of course he will have to work hard too. A month goes by so fast, and everything will be easier to do after the confinement period.

I’m sorry for you. I wish you all the best and may your mother and child be safe! [Prayer][Prayer][Prayer]

You are about to give birth to a baby, which means that you have your own small family, and the child of love seems to be happy and happy. Since you can’t afford a nanny, confinement period will be You need your husband to take care of you. Because most of the children who have children at this stage are only children. They have been pampered since childhood and have poor ability to live on their own. In addition, they have the care of two parents. If they are financially well-off, they can hire a nanny or confine themselves in a confinement center. They cannot hire a nanny and come to the confinement center. Those in confinement centers must overcome difficulties and solve problems by themselves. The husband is the first to bear the brunt of family responsibilities and take good care of the baby and mother. In fact, confinement is not that difficult after giving birth to a baby. My mother gave birth to seven children, four sons and three daughters (there were no family planning measures at that time). They all took care of themselves. Before the due date, she would steam steamed buns, stir-fry noodles, which are now oil tea, and pickle them. Serve a lot of dishes and prepare everything. After a few days after giving birth, I go to work in the fields. Not only do we have to take good care of ourselves, but we also have to take good care of the elderly and other children at home. Although it is hard, we are satisfied when we see our children healthy. We must learn from them. Now the conditions at home are better. We live in a building where cooking and going to the toilet are all at home. It’s neither cold in winter nor hot in summer. There’s tap water for washing clothes and a water heater. As long as you pay attention, there won’t be any big problems. So don't be nervous or afraid, everything will be fine. Finally, I wish you and your son peace!

If you can’t afford a confinement nanny and plan to take care of it yourself, then take care of yourself!

Before getting pregnant, you should consider what to do during confinement. The child is your own. When you become pregnant, you must be responsible for it, instead of asking others to take responsibility for you.

Have a bad relationship with your family? Is it your husband’s family or your natal family? If you don't have a good relationship with both families, it means you are a failure as a person. If it's just your husband's family, you can ask your mother's family for help. The child is not born for the mother-in-law's family, but the mother's family is also considered. You both work outside, which means you both work. You have maternity insurance when you have a baby. It doesn’t cost much to have a baby. You should continue to work until the baby is born.

Make all preparations before giving birth, including baby supplies, production supplies, and diapers. When you are hospitalized, you can ask a nanny to take care of you for a few days, and then let your husband take care of you when you go home. If you say it's unrealistic for your husband to take care of you, he won't be happy either. You don't consider your husband a husband at all. Having a child is a matter between two people. It is a matter of course for him to take care of you. There is no reality or unreality, whether he is happy or not.

There is a way to take care of you and go to work at the same time, it’s just a little tiring! When I gave birth to a child, my husband took care of me alone. When I was hospitalized, I took care of her 24 hours a day. After I was discharged from the hospital, my husband went to work. He made breakfast for me before going to work. I cut and cooked the vegetables for lunch. When I wanted to eat, I just put them in the microwave to heat them up. After get off work, he made dinner. , take care of the kids after dinner and let me rest. It's a bit harder, and there are fewer conflicts between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. The two of them take care of the children together and the husband can understand the hard work of raising children and having children.

If confinement is a natural birth and you are in good health, you don’t actually need anyone to take care of you

One of the biggest problems of confinement is children

< p> A newborn child has no regular routine. He cries whenever he is hungry, poops or pees. You must keep in sync with your child's routine to have the energy to take good care of her

Of course, except for congenital diseases , the child in confinement still has antibodies brought by the mother, and is not so easy to get sick. The number of diseases will only increase after the child is half a year old

So stock up on diapers and milk powder, and be mentally prepared. , synchronize the schedule with the child, and the possibility of problems with the child is very small

If the child urinates or vomits milk, there will be more clothes to change. Buy a special small washing machine, throw it in and let it dry after washing.

Adults only care about food. Be more squeamish when someone takes care of you, but if you don’t have anyone to take care of you, why don’t you rely on yourself?

I used to buy that kind of electric lunch box when I was working. It had three layers. A layer of rice, a layer of vegetables, a layer of meat or soup. Make enough food online every day. When you come back, ask your husband to wash it, cut it, and put it in the refrigerator. Take out one portion for three meals a day, plug it in, and you can eat it in half an hour to an hour.

Those who have no one to help them have to be strong themselves. If your husband is not willing to do such a small thing, I would like to ask you why you are having trouble with your family?

I was born in August this year. I had a cesarean operation and was hospitalized for 4 days. I started taking care of the baby by myself when I came back. My husband went to work and came back to cook for me at noon and evening. He occasionally went out to buy me pancakes and fruits in the morning. Most fried bread slices are filled with eggs. I look after the baby during the day, and he comes back to look after me at night. I rest, and the two of us work together to spend this time together.

First of all, during the confinement period, the child eats and sleeps, and eats after sleeping. It is easy to take care of, so don’t worry too much. Don’t get into the habit of holding your baby, try to feed him lying down.

Secondly, try to fully automate home appliances. An electric stew pot, the one with four stew pots, can make different kinds of soups, and you can make porridge and soup in one day. The clothes are all handed to the washing machine, and if you can't help it, don't do it.

Again, stay in a happy mood and eat snacks appropriately. I loved melon seeds the most at that time. I bought a few packs when I was shopping on JD.com. I ate them when I was irritable or feeling miserable. I also watched TV series to kill time after the kids were asleep. Although I didn’t have an elderly person to take care of me during the entire confinement period, I still felt quite refreshed. .

Finally, there is no obstacle that cannot be overcome, so keep going

Because the relationship is not good, you don’t want to use an old person. Then invite a confinement nanny. If you don’t have enough money, you have to borrow money for a month. Because confinement is crucial for women. If you don't sit well during confinement, you may get sick. It cannot be ignored.

Only after you have taken care of your child can you have the energy to continue taking care of your child. Otherwise, you will burn out, which will make you miserable as you get older.

Hiring a professional confinement nanny will make your husband feel more relaxed. We can provide professional guidance in taking care of your children and your recuperation.

No matter from which aspect, it is worth hiring a confinement nanny for this month.

Let me give you an example. My colleague has two children. The eldest has just entered elementary school. When the baby is born, she hires a confinement nanny, and she also has to take care of the eldest. After the full moon, she took care of it by herself and hired a part-time worker to take her eldest son to school. Now I am at work, and I have hired a nanny to take care of the younger ones, and she picks up and drops off the older ones.

Speaking of this example, it means that there will always be a way. The difficulty is only temporary. If you and your husband overcome it together, you will get through it.

The tone of your voice sounds like this is your first baby, right? If you can’t afford a confinement nanny during the confinement period, having no one to take care of you is indeed a problem!

What I don’t understand is that there is no mother-in-law? Don’t you have a biological mother? If not, is there any aunt or aunt who can take care of me for a few days? If not, then you have to rely on yourself and the couple!

When I gave birth to my baby, my mother-in-law was almost a decoration. To be honest, during those few days in the hospital, the hospital provided confinement meals, and my husband just took care of me! After being discharged from the hospital, my husband would have to work hard for a few days. It would be more convenient if it was a natural delivery. After a week, you can take care of yourself and your baby by yourself!

During my confinement, I cooked and took care of the baby, while my mother-in-law mopped the floor and washed the dishes at home. I didn't let her hold the baby because I was afraid that it would be difficult to take care of her once she got used to it!

My mother-in-law went home a month later, and I will take care of the children by myself from now on. In fact, raising children is not as difficult as I imagined! You can definitely do it! Come on (_? )?

Either overdraft and ask someone to take care of you, or become strong enough to support yourself

Isn’t it okay for your husband to take care of you during your confinement? When I gave birth to my son, my husband lived out of town, and my mother-in-law had different living habits with us, so she didn’t let her take care of me during my confinement period. My husband prepares the whole day's meals in the morning and puts them in the rice cooker to keep them warm so they are still hot when eating. The child's urine ring is placed in the basin, and my husband washes it when he comes back from get off work in the evening. There is no obstacle that cannot be overcome. Now that my son is sixteen years old, it feels like yesterday when I think about every detail of how my husband and I took care of our children. Take good care of yourself and your children, and wish your family happiness!

I will give you some opinions based on my experience, hoping to give you some courage.

I gave birth to my second child by cesarean section in September, and the hospital hired a nurse. 800 yuan for 4 days, so that my husband and I can get a good rest, which is conducive to recovery and have a better attitude. The nurse aunt will also teach some parenting experience

I started to wash my hair and take a bath when I came home from the hospital. , keep warm, wash and sweat, I think it is more conducive to recovery

Your husband should have 15 days of paternity leave at work. Excluding the time in the hospital, he can take care of the baby at home for at least 10 days

After the paternity leave is over, I personally think that the mother should be recovering well. Your husband should stew soup, porridge, etc. before going to work. Heat it up when you need to eat. You can also ask him to prepare vegetables in advance and add them to the porridge or I cook by myself, and leave other housework to my husband to take care of when he comes home from work. In fact, you can also order takeout, so I ordered those who make health porridge. I told the store that it is for pregnant women, such as brown sugar millet porridge, vegetable juice, etc. If it's light, just add less salt. My family lives near a hospital, and there are quite a few takeaways. We usually go there to eat. Generally, there are a lot of porridge takeaways nowadays, so you should be able to order them.

During the confinement period, the baby is usually easy to take care of. You can eat, sleep, eat, bathe, etc. while your husband gets off work. Use diapers after peeing. It is also convenient to scrub with hot water. You can also touch it. No cold water.

Life is convenient now, and confinement is not so rare. Be strong, and I will be pregnant soon

During my confinement, I went to the hospital two or three times because of my baby’s jaundice. Well, now I am raising a baby by myself, so I am definitely a little tired, but I don’t think it is too difficult

Come on