A wife is a woman to whom you are willing to entrust your savings. A lover is a woman who you secretly go out with and are afraid that your wife will run into you. A confidante is a woman who can tell her some secrets, but not her wife. Wife is a constraint that you can't associate with other women casually; Lover is a kind of compensation, which compensates the passion you want from your wife but can't get; A confidante is a kind of nudge, nudging the maze in your heart. Your wife lives with you, your lover spends money with you and your confidante chats with you. A wife can't replace a lover, because she has no lover's mood; A lover can't take the place of his wife, because she doesn't have his wife's affection; Wives and lovers can't replace confidantes, that's the need of the soul. The wife is a woman who is not related to you by blood, but she is worried that you will not come home late at night; A lover is a woman who has nothing to do with your family but makes you feel like a man. A confidante is a woman who has nothing to do with you but can share your happiness and sadness. A wife is a home, a harbor that can bring comfort to your impetuous heart; Lovers are a burden to the family, but you don't want to get rid of them unless you have to; A bosom friend is an ornament at home. Without her, you won't feel lonely, but you will find life boring. A wife's concern is like a cup of boiled water, which sometimes turns into nagging and only becomes warm when she is sick; Love's concern is like adding a spoonful of sugar to boiled water, and it is not enough to taste it slowly for one night; The concern of a confidante is like drinking a cup of coffee in the middle of the night, and the more you drink it, the more refreshing it becomes. Your wife who is pregnant with your child will ask you affectionately if you want a boy or a girl, and your lover who is pregnant with your child will cry and ask you what to do. For a confidante, you will tell her the news that your lover is pregnant and ask her what you should do. As for your wife, you will tell her after she finds out the secret of your lover's pregnancy: "In fact, I have long wanted to tell you." Then try very hard to explain to her and make regrets. If your wife doesn't come back in a week, you don't want to call her. If your lover hasn't seen you for three days, where have you been? Shall we have a cup of coffee at the usual place tonight? I feel depressed and want to talk to a confidante. Tell her that you are exhausted between your wife and lover and can't stand it. What a man can't stand most is his wife's nagging, his lover's tears and his confidante's misunderstanding. The wife's nagging makes a man's heart more chaotic, the lover's tears soften a man's hard heart, and the misunderstanding of a confidante pushes a man's heart from a cliff to a deep valley. The best wife is that a man can find two intertwined feelings of lover and confidante from her, and this feeling is hard for a man to find. The best lover is when your wife finds out about your relationship with her and quits without mentioning anything, but it is difficult for a lover to do this. The best confidante is to be a lover or even a wife one day, but this idea is difficult to realize. If possible, men are thinking about turning their confidante into a lover, and if possible, turning her into a wife. Just being a confidante of his wife is no longer a confidante, because few men regard his wife as a confidante. There are many secrets in a man's heart that he can't tell his wife casually. Otherwise, is it still called a man? Marry a wife for fear of others gossiping, find a lover to add monosodium glutamate to a monotonous life, and make a confidante to pour chicken soup into an empty heart. What a man is looking for in his life is not a wife or lover, but a more intimate person.