It's from Disciples' Rules: Filial Piety when Entering.
explanation: we should listen respectfully when our parents teach us how to deal with people. When parents blame lessons, they should accept them humbly and humbly.
Disciple's Rules is a classic of enlightenment. The so-called "disciple" is not a general meaning, but a disciple of sages, while "rule" is a combination of "husband" and "see", which means a man's knowledge. "Disciple rules" means to learn from the classics of sages, be disciples of sages and become men of courage.
Disciples Rules is its introductory reading. The original name of this book is Xun Meng Wen, and the Analects of Confucius is adopted: "Disciples are filial when they enter, caring when they leave, loving the masses when they are sincere, and learning when they are kind and have spare capacity." The book is divided into five parts, which specifically lists the rules and regulations that disciples should abide by at home, when they go out, when they treat others, when they receive things and when they study. Later, Jia Cunren adapted it and renamed it Disciples Rules.
This book is a necessary reading for enlightening and cultivating righteousness, and educating children to be far from evil and take the right path.
Extended information:
Excerpt from Disciples' Rules of Filial Piety
Parents should not slow down when calling. Parents, don't be lazy.
parents should listen to what they teach. Parents' responsibilities must be obeyed.
it's warm in winter, but it's warm in summer. The morning is the province, and the fainting is the decision.
when you go out, you have to report it, but you have to face it. Living in a regular place, the industry has not changed.
although things are small, don't act rashly. If you are good at it, you will lose.
though things are small, don't hide them. If you hide something, it hurts your heart.
a close friend is good, but strength is good. What you hate is what you want to go.
being hurt makes one's parents worry. Moral injury brings shame to parents.
Vernacular translation:
If parents call themselves, they should respond in time, and don't deliberately delay; If parents tell them to do something, they should start at once, and don't deliberately delay or refuse to be lazy.
When parents teach themselves, they should be respectful and listen carefully to their parents. When parents criticize and blame themselves, no matter whether they think their parents' criticism is right or wrong, they should be deferential to their parents' criticism and not contradict them face to face.
It's cold in winter, so parents should warm their beds in advance before going to bed. In summer, it's very hot, so parents should be helped to cool their beds in advance. After getting up in the morning, you should visit your parents first and say hello to them. At night, you should wait for your parents to go to bed before going to sleep.
Before going out, you should tell your parents where you are going. When you get home, you should first meet your parents face to face and report your peace; Although parents will be happy when their children are promising, the greatest expectation of parents for their children is not how promising you are, but that you are safe and sound, and there will be no disasters in your life. Therefore, the place where you live should be fixed as far as possible, and you should not move frequently, and your job for a living should not be changed frequently.
Although things are small, don't make decisions and actions without authorization; It is not the duty of being a child to make mistakes and worry parents without authorization.
Don't hide anything from your parents, even if it is small. There is no windtight wall in the world. If you hide something, even if you are very cautious, you will inevitably be discovered by your parents one day, and then your parents will be sad.
parents should try their best to do what they like; Parents should be careful not to do things they hate.
if your body is hurt, it will inevitably cause parents' worries. Therefore, you should cherish your body as much as possible and don't let yourself be hurt unnecessarily. If one's reputation and virtue are damaged, it will inevitably bring shame to parents. Therefore, you should be careful what you say and do, don't let your reputation and virtue be damaged for no reason, and don't do things that are immoral, self-polluted and self-degraded.
Reference: Baidu Encyclopedia-Disciples Rules